Quoted message said:In article <[email hidden]>,
"JC Der Koenig" <[email hidden]> wrote:
> Understanding your point of view is a disability of mine, I will
> admit.
Let's see if I can put it another way that maybe you will understand.
Making excuses = "Life is stressful, stress makes me eat too much, I
can't control it, please feel sorry for me, please change society to
accommodate my fatness."
Not making excuses = "Life is stressful, when I am stressed I choose to
eat too much, with hard work I can change this behavior."
I am working hard at changing my behavior, changing how I choose to
react to stressful situations. It isn't as easy as I thought it would
be, it doesn't happen overnight, and I do falter. But slowly and
surely
I am getting better at it.
>
> Catering to your self-perceived "disabilities" is not productive, in
> my
> experience.
> --
> Most people are dumb as bricks; some people are dumber than that. --
> MFW
>
>
> "Luna" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
> news:[email hidden]...
> > Um, isn't everyone? We're all born with natural talents in some
> > areas,
> > and natural disabilities in others. Whining and complaining about
> > it
> > doesn't help, which you understand, but nor does ignoring it and
> > hoping
> > it goes away on its own, which you don't understand.
> >
> > In article <[email hidden]>,
> > "JC Der Koenig" <[email hidden]> wrote:
> >
> >> Now you're a victim of disabilities.
> >>
> >> You've got this all worked out.
> >>
> >> Good luck.
> >>
> >> --
> >> Most people are dumb as bricks; some people are dumber than
> >> hat. --
> >> MFW
> >>
> >>
> >> "Luna" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
> >> news:[email hidden]...
> >> >I believe that you would need special training to teach math to
> >> >kids
> >> > with certain types of learning disabilities. I, and many others
> >> > with
> >> > food problems, drug problems, etc. have a "coping with stress"
> >> > disability. Which is not to say I can't overcome it, just as
> >> > kids
> >> > with
> >> > learning disabilities like dyslexia can overcome it and learn
> >> > math
> >> > and
> >> > reading. But they can't overcome it by "butching up" or ignoring
> >> > the
> >> > dyslexia and pretending it isn't there.
> >> >
> >> > In article <[email hidden]>,
> >> > "JC Der Koenig" <[email hidden]> wrote:
> >> >
> >> >> So you believe that since learning math was easy for me, I could
> >> >> never
> >> >> possibly tell anyone else how to do it. You assumptions are
> >> >> fallacious.
> >> >>
> >> >> --
> >> >> Most people are dumb as bricks; some people are dumber than
> >> >> hat. --
> >> >> MFW
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >> "Luna" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
> >> >> news:[email hidden]...
> >> >> > These are not excuses. These are reasons why losing weight is
> >> >> > difficult
> >> >> > for me in a different way than it was for you, reasons why
> >> >> > what
> >> >> > worked
> >> >> > to keep you psychologically in the right frame of mind may not
> >> >> > work
> >> >> > for
> >> >> > me. Everyone who is fat and loses weight has their own
> >> >> > thought
> >> >> > process
> >> >> > that gets them to the mental and emotional place where the
> >> >> > difficulty
> >> >> > of
> >> >> > losing weight is more attractive than the consequences of
> >> >> > being
> >> >> > fat.
> >> >> > If
> >> >> > you're not in that place, you won't stick with it. I'm
> >> >> > working
> >> >> > on
> >> >> > getting in that place, so it's not an excuse to do nothing.
> >> >> > It's
> >> >> > just
> >> >> > an extra step I have to go through that you didn't have to,
> >> >> > and
> >> >> > since
> >> >> > you didn't, you can't tell me or anyone how to do it.
> >> >> >
> >> >> > In article <[email hidden]>,
> >> >> > "JC Der Koenig" <[email hidden]> wrote:
> >> >> >
> >> >> >> Keep making excuses, that seems to be working for you.
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> --
> >> >> >> Most people are dumb as bricks; some people are dumber than
> >> >> >> hat. --
> >> >> >> MFW
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> "Luna" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
> >> >> >> news:[email hidden]...
> >> >> >> > So I should lose weight without putting any thought into
> >> >> >> > it?
> >> >> >> > And
> >> >> >> > I
> >> >> >> > should take advice from you . . . um, why? Oh, because you
> >> >> >> > were
> >> >> >> > so
> >> >> >> > successful in losing the 5 or 10 vanity pounds you lost.
> >> >> >> > You
> >> >> >> > never
> >> >> >> > had
> >> >> >> > a large amount of weight to lose, so you have no idea what
> >> >> >> > it
> >> >> >> > takes.
> >> >> >> > Get yourself really fat, lose all your coping skills and
> >> >> >> > comfort
> >> >> >> > yourself only with food, develop an anxiety disorder, and
> >> >> >> > then
> >> >> >> > lose
> >> >> >> > the
> >> >> >> > weight, and then maybe you'll be qualified to advise me.
> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> > In article <[email hidden]>,
> >> >> >> > "JC Der Koenig" <[email hidden]> wrote:
> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> Maybe you should hold off on thinking you know about the
> >> >> >> >> subject
> >> >> >> >> until
> >> >> >> >> you've had more success with it.
> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> --
> >> >> >> >> Most people are dumb as bricks; some people are dumber
> >> >> >> >> than
> >> >> >> >> hat. --
> >> >> >> >> MFW
> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> "Luna" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
> >> >> >> >> news:[email hidden]..
> >> >> >> >> .
> >> >> >> >> > In article
> >> >> >> >> > <[email hidden]>,
> >> >> >> >> > "JC Der Koenig" <[email hidden]> wrote:
> >> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> >> They may be losing weight today, but will they be still
> >> >> >> >> >> losing
> >> >> >> >> >> tomorrow?
> >> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> > Maybe. Maybe if they're excited and happy about their
> >> >> >> >> > progress
> >> >> >> >> > thus
> >> >> >> >> > far, they'll keep pushing to the finish line. But you
> >> >> >> >> > think
> >> >> >> >> > they
> >> >> >> >> > shouldn't be excited and happy until they're already
> >> >> >> >> > done.
> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> Are you?
> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> > Slowly losing what I regained. When I get back to 150,
> >> >> >> >> > then
> >> >> >> >> > I'll
> >> >> >> >> > officially be losing again.
> >> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> >> --
> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> Eat less, exercise more. -- MFW
> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> --
> >> >> >> >> >> "Luna" <[email hidden]> wrote in
> >> >> >> >> >> message
> >> >> >> >> >> news:[email hidden]
> >> >> >> >> >> t..
> >> >> >> >> >> .
> >> >> >> >> >> > I'm not even talking about what you said to me,
> >> >> >> >> >> > rather
> >> >> >> >> >> > what
> >> >> >> >> >> > you've
> >> >> >> >> >> > said
> >> >> >> >> >> > to others who _are_ losing weight. I know I haven't
> >> >> >> >> >> > succeeded,
> >> >> >> >> >> > though
> >> >> >> >> >> > the word "failed" has a finality to it that doesn't
> >> >> >> >> >> > seem
> >> >> >> >> >> > appropriate
> >> >> >> >> >> > for
> >> >> >> >> >> > a project that's still in progress.
> >> >> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> >> > In article
> >> >> >> >> >> > <[email hidden]>,
> >> >> >> >> >> > "JC Der Koenig" <[email hidden]> wrote:
> >> >> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> >> >> You don't "respect" me because I've pointed out
> >> >> >> >> >> >> where
> >> >> >> >> >> >> you've
> >> >> >> >> >> >> failed.
> >> >> >> >> >> >> Instead
> >> >> >> >> >> >> of taking responsibility for your failure, you blame
> >> >> >> >> >> >> the
> >> >> >> >> >> >> messenger.
> >> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> >> P.S. This is what's wrong with the USA.
> >> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> >> --
> >> >> >> >> >> >> You take stupid to a new level. -- MFW
> >> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> >> "Luna" <[email hidden]> wrote in
> >> >> >> >> >> >> message
> >> >> >> >> >> >> news:[email hidden]
> >> >> >> >> >> >> .ne
> >> >> >> >> >> >> t..
> >> >> >> >> >> >> .
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > In article <[email hidden]>,
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > "None Given" <[email hidden]> wrote:
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> "Luna" <[email hidden]> wrote in
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> message
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> news:[email hidden]
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> ink
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> .ne
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> t..
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> .
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > > weight_. It's like no matter how much
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > > progress
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > > they
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > > make,
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > > they'll
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > > never
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > be worthy of respect in your opinion, because
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > they
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > needed
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > to
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > lose
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > weight
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > in the first place. I've never once seen you
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > congratulate
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > someone
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > for
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > reaching goal, encourage someone who's doing
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > well.
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > Do
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > you
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > treat
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > yourself that harshly? If you do an extra set
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > in
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > your
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > weight
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > routine,
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> Is there something I missed? Why would anyone
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> care
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> about
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> JC's
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> respect,
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> it's
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> obvious he has earned none.
> >> >> >> >> >> >> >
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > I used to respect him. He used to be really good
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > at
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > pointing
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > out
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > when
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > people were making excuses and doing it all wrong.
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > Now
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > he
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > attacks
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > and
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > insults even the people who are following low-carb
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > to
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > the
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > letter
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > and
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > successfully losing weight. If he's going to
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > attack
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > even
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > the
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > people
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > who
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > are doing it right, then no, I don't respect him
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > anymore.
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > His
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > comments
> >> >> >> >> >> >> > are useless.