I'll be turning 41 very soon - a matter of days.
I recall reading an amusing story Arnold Schwarzennegger confessed to. He was apparently in his room with a girl one night (in his bodybuilding days) and couldn't perform. I don't recall who it was he phoned but it was a fellow Austrian bodybuilder and Arnie said he should come on over and save the good name of the Austrian nation . And that's what happened.
I also heard that Muhammad Ali surrounded himself with girls but sometimes suffered criticism from the ladies if he was having a bad night. The boxer Jose Torres shares an amusing incident over Ali when some lady gave Torres a blow by blow account of which guys she figured had been the best lover. Ali had been placed further down the list.
The question is, though, were Ali and Arnie simply too spent? You know, I suspect both of them doped too. I say that since Ali weighed around 215 pounds when he fought Sonny Liston for the heavyweight title but, after about a year, mysteriously went up to about 245 pounds and stayed lean. Yet he never even lifted weights. So, how come Ali went from cruiser to heavyweight just like that?
As for Arnie, he admitted to doping.
Your approach of switching off from sport and walking along the beach e.t.c is probably the way to go where romance is concerned.
I recall reading an amusing story Arnold Schwarzennegger confessed to. He was apparently in his room with a girl one night (in his bodybuilding days) and couldn't perform. I don't recall who it was he phoned but it was a fellow Austrian bodybuilder and Arnie said he should come on over and save the good name of the Austrian nation . And that's what happened.
I also heard that Muhammad Ali surrounded himself with girls but sometimes suffered criticism from the ladies if he was having a bad night. The boxer Jose Torres shares an amusing incident over Ali when some lady gave Torres a blow by blow account of which guys she figured had been the best lover. Ali had been placed further down the list.
The question is, though, were Ali and Arnie simply too spent? You know, I suspect both of them doped too. I say that since Ali weighed around 215 pounds when he fought Sonny Liston for the heavyweight title but, after about a year, mysteriously went up to about 245 pounds and stayed lean. Yet he never even lifted weights. So, how come Ali went from cruiser to heavyweight just like that?
As for Arnie, he admitted to doping.
Your approach of switching off from sport and walking along the beach e.t.c is probably the way to go where romance is concerned.
Felt_Rider said:Glad you found the article. I was afraid it got lost in all the other stuff.
I will be turning 42 in two months and I am going throught the same thing.
Age, work stress, physical stress and training have affected me as well.
It is all physical for me. I have the want, but not the energy.
Unfortunately or fortunately depending on how you look at it my wife is has a lot of want to and that bothers me that I am too tired and stressed.
You sound like me. I read a lot of your post and it sounds like you are always pushing hard which in my book is a good thing, but realistically all other facets begin to suffer.
I went on vacation a couple months ago and vowed not to do anything else, but walk casually on the beach. For that week things improved for the wife if you know what I mean.
Sounds like you have a lot going on, but if you can schedule a break that might be a good thing.
Keep the hope