Originally Posted by Clara M .
Hi!
No I haven't had surgery but in just one day I am going to see another surgeon to see what he has to say and maybe start PT with a specialist because in one day it will be 3 months since the accident and I haven't done much PT just some light flexibility exercises I do alone, my doc showed them to me so I am doing just those for 15 min some 3 time a day!
so not much...I think I have a frozen shoulder because it looks pretty weird when I am trying to hold my hand up ...and I mean the shoulder kind of doesn't let go and seems somehow restricted, no range of motion like the healthy one....and I've got some light pain but not in the clavicle area...weirdly enough it is in the shoulder blade....it makes sense actually coz the clavicle connects through the humerus to the blades
I don't know maybe I should have the surgery coz I fear a life of constant pain ....but it's manageable...even though surgery means rrisk of infection and so many other things that can go wrong....oh man such a nerve wrecking episode!
I hope the meeting goes well and you get what you want out of it.
well I think its safe to say that you do have frozen shoulder, and you mentioned your shoulder blade, is it sticking out at all? because mine was, my physio called it "winging" it can sometimes trap a nerve that is used for moving your shoulder around. That might be what the light pain is. Again, with physio, it can be sorted.
Are you worried about the surgery itself, or that something might go wrong? And yes it will be a shock to the system, but that won't last long.
Unfortunately, things do go wrong in all parts of life, risks are everywhere. Things went wrong with me in surgery, I went taci-cardiac, and one end of the cut line tore when they opened me up, and after, we realized there was some nerve damage to my thumb and finger, which is well on the way to being normal again, and when I was in hospital, I met this guy who had broken his wrist, a kitchen fitter of over 20 years, he tripped up on the way to the shops to get some tea bags, even walking is a risk.
By all means look at the pro's and con's, but please try to look on the bright side of things, everyone hear knows that's hard, but the ones who have had the surgery will say it was the right choice. Including me.
In your mind, is manageable acceptable? A life of constant but manageable pain, or surgery and a few weeks of sometimes quite bad and constant pain? and then the recovery will really begin. I my mind, managing is not recovering, and recovering is way more then acceptable.
Again, try to be positive and think of getting back to normal. also, keep smiling /img/vbsmilies/smilies/smile.gif
I hope your meeting is what you want, and keep us updated.