Dane Girl, I would've started the pendulum after three weeks If I wouldn't have had the operation. I actually was permitted to start them the day after the operation, but officially the time was one week after it. 2 months after the operation I start working with a rubber band. Low movements first. And every time I have to think my scapula and keep it low. Frozen shoulder explains the pain you're having, I guess. Well, partly at least. It's supposed to ease off by itself in time even without physio, but the time it takes could be 1,5 years. It shouldn't be sore the whole time, though, in the end it's just stiff. Of course, not having it at all would be nicer and many have told me it's useful to have the physio, but tough since many say it hurts. I think you're right, bones that are not even close have no possibility to heal together. No matter what you do, they won't just form a bony bridge and be healed. And now I'm sleeping in the bed again!! I'm so so happy!