kopride said:
NYC certainly has its share of psychiatrists so I hope JS is not offended by my armchair analysis, but the highlighted references above are a big part of what he appears to be missing.
Do not worry, no offense. I am a pretty simply guy so the analysis may drive you a bit nuts and you may not always get the expected answer.
kopride said:
There are absolute goals, i.e. watts and the weight on the bar, but there are also relative goals, i.e. how we measure within a peer group that is important to us.
Like I said I am pretty simple but let me get a bit deep with you. I have found in my lifetime there are people who feed off of a race i.e. competition and there a people who actually perform much worse. Is it the pressure? Maybe but I think more than likely it is the personality type. When I read Zoli's or Dave's race reports you can just feel the energy coming off the proverbial screen. Races/Group rides make these guys better. Me on the other hand unfortunately make me worse. I bet if I hit 300 watts I will still not be able to perform better in competitions.
Kind of like the SATs. I had good grades in school but terrible SAT scores.
I feed off of plans, numbers and to be perfectly honest a bit of the "looking good" in terms of exercise and sports. I perform best when I am competiting against myself. Therefore the three challenges I have set up for myself are great but if I do not hit them all that is fine but I would like to do atleast 1 of the 3. In the end btw, #3 would be the most important to me.
I think you and Felt are very lucky that you have found a group of people that you can enjoy riding with and be competitive but still respect each other. Unfortunately I have not found a group of folks like that in terms of cycling and honestly even in terms of lifting.
I ride alone and I lift alone.
Probably another reason why I need exercises I can lift heavy and by myself. I think you need to be friends before you go and ride and unfortunately in building my business and given my personality I really have very few friends and none I even contact from when I was young. The few times I have tried to communicate or talk with another rider, a guy I see every morning in the gym, I get dirty looks. Zoli keeps setting me up with groups to ride with and just yesterday he wrote me wanting to ride with a new set of guys who are "like me". Nice way of saying ... "not really that good". Big chip on my shoulder, ehh? Zoli is a great guy but he tries to hard. On the few rides I went on even the slow guys gave me attitude...forget it, not worth the trouble, one of the reasons I feel in love with the PM.
Keep in mind also I was really pretty much a geek growing up, never played organized sports and when I got out of college spent all of my twenties and thirties building a business and a fat gut. Only for the last 5-6 years after breaking my ankle have I really gotten heavily into this stuff.
So as I used to ask Dave after he would send me a report, hey lots of stuff but are you happy with your results? He would than send back a basic "hell yeah" in his own type of wording. Compared to the guy of 5-6 years ago a "hell yeah" But I still have many journeys to go before I will say I am finished...I have alot to make up for all that lost time!
kopride said:
Even at home, I generally lift with my son or wife, and my wife rides a spin bike frequently while I am on my trainer. I do my share of solo rides and lifts but, at the end, people are pretty social animals.
You are lucky especially since you have a son you can bond with. But when I go to the gym or the bike I also enjoy the away time. It is kind of my time especially in the gym...
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...otherwise I have the gossip girls currently. Blair finally told Chuck she loves him...big deal for me and my daughter...
Plus I got to get big soon my daughter is about to start highschool years next year and I know she will be with one of those pretty boy, really skinny, man bang, gossip girl type guys and I need to be able to pound him into the ground when I need to! Or atleast scare the **** out of him!
-js
BTW, impressed that you do squats without a rack. I would not.