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  1. psycholist said:

    They knew I was there. They just apparently didn't care.

    That's possible.

    OTOH, they may have figured there was no reason for you not
    to pass. You say there was an intersection up ahead, and you
    feared they'd turn in front of you. They (or actually, the
    guy on the left) may have thought "Obviously I'm not going
    to turn, since I'm not signaling." And they may have
    wondered why you weren't passing.

    Unless the cyclists were looking back at you and giving you
    the finger, I'd say this is more likely a very minor
    miscommunication, rather than an outright act of rudeness.
    Admittedly, I wasn't there - but I've seen similar events
    from various perspectives.

    Hell, two days ago I had a motorist who backed up traffic by
    refusing to pass me, despite having _plenty_ of room. They
    passed only when I made insistent motions directing them to
    do so. What were they thinking? I don't know. Perhaps they
    were thinking something like what you were.

    Look, to put this in context: Have you never walked through
    a mall and had people obstruct you for a few seconds? Was
    this really that much worse?

    --
    --------------------+ Frank Krygowski [To reply, remove
    rodent and vegetable dot com, replace with cc.ysu dot edu]

  2. psycholist said:

    You sound all high and mighty in the posts you've made on
    this thread. Had you been there, you'd have clearly seen
    that there was no excuse for this riders behavior.

    From my perspective, most people are being quite calm. You
    actually seem offended because we don't share your outrage.

    But we don't share your outrage partly because we've seen
    motorists unjustifiably outraged by our perfectly legal,
    responsible riding. We're really not sure that this isn't
    just another example. Sorry, but we weren't there.

    Quoted message said:

    He wasn't riding as far to the right as pracitcable by
    ANY stretch of anyone's imagination.

    You should understand that the law in almost all states is
    not quite clear. Traffic laws generally state 1) bicyclists
    are to ride as near to the right as practicable, and 2) they
    shall ride no more than two abreast.

    Obviously, those two statements are in conflict. It's
    almost as if the legislators expected us to be reasonable
    about this!

    Quoted message said:

    And don't try to tell me what I assume. I assume that
    sharing the road is supposed to be just that ...
    sharing. I'm a cyclist and I try to ride with
    consideration for the cars that also are entitled to the
    road. This particular cyclist that I encountered acted
    like the road was all his and screw everybody else. I'm
    learning from some of the unbelieveable posts on this
    thread that there are a whole lot of you out there who
    apparently feel all people in cars are evil and that
    people on bicycles can do no wrong.

    <sigh>

    Think: If this 15 second incident is enough to really stress
    you, then your life is very good indeed.

    So relax.

    Alternately, take a week and write down every time a
    motorist drives less-than-perfectly. Meditate on the
    relative number of incidents, and their potential
    importance.

    --
    --------------------+ Frank Krygowski [To reply, remove
    rodent and vegetable dot com, replace with cc.ysu dot edu]

  3. In article <[email hidden]>,

    maxo said:

    Apropo the "friendly" horn--I have one of those mini bike
    bells mounted stealth-style on my quill stem (as to not
    interfere with the oh-so-elegant looks of my road bike 😉)
    and I find it to be indispensable when riding paths or
    even passing riders on the street. A happy ping-piiiiiing
    is much more jolly than a breathless "passing on the
    left!". Highly recommended.

    Maybe cars should be equipped with bells instead of horns
    :-)

    cheers, Tom

    --
    -- Powered by FreeBSD Above address is just a spam midden.
    I'm really at: tkeats [curlicue] vcn [point] bc [point] ca

  4. Thu, 03 Jun 2004 00:44:27 -0400, <[email hidden]>,

    Frank Krygowski said:

    Alternately, take a week and write down every time a
    motorist drives less-than-perfectly. Meditate on the
    relative number of incidents, and their potential
    importance.

    Or count the seconds lost driving behind someone hunting for
    a parking space. They're not signalling, keeping pace or
    paying attention to traffic building behind them. They're
    unpredictable and you generally can't pass them until
    everybody else has passed you. Then you have to wait while
    they figure out how to berth the damn scud.

    Knowing now about all those homicidal drivers bent on
    revenge it makes me worry for my life every time I think to
    dare parallel parking.
    --
    zk

  5. Rick Onanian said:

    I'm often startled by even a minor blip from a horn, and
    often offended, even if I think it wasn't supposed to be
    offensive.

    Anyone else notice that toward the end of a ride --
    especially a long and/or hard ride -- the "startle response"
    is greatly suppressed? More than a few times I've had yahoos
    yell, honk, pass too close or whatever and I just sort of
    look at them as they pull away without even a hint of a
    flinch or emotion. Guess it's survival mode time...

    Bill "wish I were always that calm and imperturbable" S.

  6. Quoted post said:

    Originally posted by Psycholist
    I came upon two cyclists on road gear and decked out as if they were reasonably experienced riders.
    Bob C.

    Have you ever heard the extression "All the gear and no idea".

    Sounds like it suits you mobile obsticles.

  7. "R15757" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    << ...Why don't you just move entirely into the opposing
    lane as if you


    were

    Quoted message said:

    passing a slow moving 8 ft wide tractor?

    Wayne >>

    Why doesn't the jackass just move over a few feet? What is
    so f***ing precious about being on a bike that you can't
    move over a few feet?

    We move over because we can. If there is enough space in
    the lane for the passing car and a skinny-ass bike, make
    it work. It's righteous to act as if there were other
    people on the planet besides yourself. Cooperate and make
    room, if possible, and if not, take your lane and most
    drivers will understand.

    Robert

    Thank God there's at least one reasonable person here who
    understands!

    Bob C.

  8. "Patrick Lamb" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    psycholist said:

    I live in a very rural area and I'm a high-mileage
    roadie.

    The other day I was driving down one of the main 2-lane
    highways that


    cuts

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    through our little area. There weren't any other cars on
    the stretch of road I was traveling.

    I came upon two cyclists on road gear and decked out as
    if they were reasonably experienced riders. They were
    riding 2-abreast. They were


    just

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    dawdling along. The rider on the left was weaving all
    over. We were approaching a crossroad, so I was afraid to
    pass because, the way they


    were

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    riding, I couldn't be sure they wouldn't make a turn
    right in front of


    me.

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Neither rider seemed interested in showing me any
    consideration


    whatsoever.

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Despite the very open road, I had to just sit in behind
    them and wait.


    It's

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    not that it was any big deal to wait 15 seconds until we
    got past that intersection, but I couldn't imagine being
    THAT rude and inconsiderate of traffic.

    I'd submit that it took you far longer to compose your
    original post than it did to wait for those two rude,
    inconsiderate riders to clear the intersection. And I'd
    hate to guess what multiple of that 15 second delay you've
    spent, let alone the rest of us, on follow-ups.

    Based on the terrible, terrible anguish you've suffered by
    being delayed for an entire 15 seconds on an otherwise
    empty road, when you've chosen to live 20 miles away from
    your job and regularly cycle to and from work... you're
    being unreasonable. Maybe you need a nap. You'll feel
    better when you're rested.

    Pat

    Email address works as is.

    Believe me ... the incident itself caused me very little
    anxiety. I merely felt it would be constructive to share the
    experience and perhaps enlighten some folks that the need to
    share the road is a 2-way street. But I've been amazed at
    the responses I've received from people who a) weren't
    there, but know better than I do what happened and/or b)
    feel the cyclist couldn't possibly have done anything wrong.

    In my view, the reasonable response to my post by a
    reasonable person would be something like, "yes, we all have
    a responsibility to share the road and, if it's no skin off
    our backs to move over and make room, we should do so." But
    I've continued to read and respond on this thread because
    I've been so amazed at the people who feel that there
    absolutely MUST be a rational reason for the cyclist to have
    behaved the way he did. A cyclist simply COULDN'T be rude
    and inconsiderate ... especially not where a driver in a
    motor vehicle is involved ... even if the driver in the
    motor vehicle is a VERY experienced cyclist, himself.

    At least now I understand why I see so many people on club
    rides and at centuries and stuff acting like complete asses
    by riding as if they own the road.

    Thanks to so many of you for confirming my opening premise
    ... that we are our own worst enemies.

    I'm done.

    Bob C.

  9. No. I wrote that 'the book' (you might cure your parochial
    point of view) demonstrates in math/engineering language
    that a cyclist cannot generally delay a motorist. I wrote
    that the mad motorist cures his 'delay' with a momentary
    and vigorous application of the exhaust overpressure
    control pedal
    (a.k.a. accelerator).

    I would like the law enforced even handedly. There are many
    times the number of cyclists of motorists.

    It is not illegal to be rude and your idea of a 'cure'
    for rudeness may become inculcated in the law and not to
    our betterment. You are selfish, self-righteous and
    narrowly focused.

    "psycholist" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...
    |
    | "Doug Huffman" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    | "]news:[email hidden]...
    | > I keyed on, "I couldn't imagine being THAT rude and
    | > inconsiderate of| traffic." And remembered Chapter Eight
    | > of Bicycle Transportation. Seems
    | to
    | > indicate that 'THAT' isn't very inconsiderate and even
    | > less than your 'fifteen seconds'. Did you blast the
    | > exhaust over pressure pedal,
    a.k.b.
    | > 'throttle' at them as you passed?
    | >
    | > Chill. Ride
    |
    | I don't understand. Are you saying there's some book out
    | there that says it's OK to do what these riders were
    | doing? If so, then it's stupid and it's going to get
    | somebody killed. I was quite patient with it. I didn't
    | honk, toot, gesture. I waited patiently until it was
    | safe to pass, then I passed. But all the rude rider
    | needed to do was ease over to single file for a second.
    | It wouldn't have delayed him one bit and it would have
    | allowed me to pass.
    |
    | The law where I live as that bicycles are to ride as far
    | to the right as practicable. He wasn't doing that. Not
    | even close. He was simply being rude and arrogant or he
    | was clueless and he needs to get a clue. I was quite
    | tempted to stop farther up the road and await his arrival
    | so I could give him one. But my wife was along and she
    | would not have approved. Incidentally, her comment to me
    | as we passed the riders was, "I hope you don't ride like
    | that." I assured her I didn't.
    |
    | Bob C.
    |
    |

  10. psycholist said:

    "Patrick Lamb" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    psycholist said:

    I live in a very rural area and I'm a high-mileage
    roadie.

    The other day I was driving down one of the main 2-lane
    highways that cuts through our little area. There
    weren't any other cars on the stretch of road I was
    traveling.

    I came upon two cyclists on road gear and decked out as
    if they were reasonably experienced riders. They were
    riding 2-abreast. They were just dawdling along. The
    rider on the left was weaving all over. We were
    approaching a crossroad, so I was afraid to pass
    because, the way they were riding, I couldn't be sure
    they wouldn't make a turn right in front of me. Neither
    rider seemed interested in showing me any consideration
    whatsoever. Despite the very open road, I had to just
    sit in behind them and wait. It's not that it was any
    big deal to wait 15 seconds until we got past that
    intersection, but I couldn't imagine being THAT rude and
    inconsiderate of traffic.

    I'd submit that it took you far longer to compose your
    original post than it did to wait for those two rude,
    inconsiderate riders to clear the intersection. And I'd
    hate to guess what multiple of that 15 second delay
    you've spent, let alone the rest of us, on follow-ups.

    Based on the terrible, terrible anguish you've suffered
    by being delayed for an entire 15 seconds on an otherwise
    empty road, when you've chosen to live 20 miles away from
    your job and regularly cycle to and from work... you're
    being unreasonable. Maybe you need a nap. You'll feel
    better when you're rested.

    Pat

    Email address works as is.

    Believe me ... the incident itself caused me very little
    anxiety. I merely felt it would be constructive to share
    the experience and perhaps enlighten some folks that the
    need to share the road is a 2-way street. But I've been
    amazed at the responses I've received from people who a)
    weren't there, but know better than I do what happened
    and/or b) feel the cyclist couldn't possibly have done
    anything wrong.

    In my view, the reasonable response to my post by a
    reasonable person would be something like, "yes, we all
    have a responsibility to share the road and, if it's no
    skin off our backs to move over and make room, we should
    do so." But I've continued to read and respond on this
    thread because I've been so amazed at the people who feel
    that there absolutely MUST be a rational reason for the
    cyclist to have behaved the way he did. A cyclist simply
    COULDN'T be rude and inconsiderate ... especially not
    where a driver in a motor vehicle is involved ... even if
    the driver in the motor vehicle is a VERY experienced
    cyclist, himself.

    At least now I understand why I see so many people on club
    rides and at centuries and stuff acting like complete
    asses by riding as if they own the road.

    Thanks to so many of you for confirming my opening premise
    ... that we are our own worst enemies.

    I'm done.

    Bob C.

    Well done. I've enjoyed following this thread and I am also
    surprised by the illiteracy shown.

    --
    Perre

    You have to be smarter than a robot to reply.

  11. Finally! It is amazing! 'Asses' and 'enemies' because
    we disagree with you and some are principled
    disagreements. Provincial, parochial, self-righteous
    and ignorant. Over and out!

    "psycholist" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...
    |
    |
    | At least now I understand why I see so many people on club
    | rides and at centuries and stuff acting like complete
    | asses by riding as if they own
    the
    | road.
    |
    | Thanks to so many of you for confirming my opening premise
    | ... that we are our own worst enemies.
    |
    | I'm done.
    |
    | Bob C.
    |
    |

  12. On Wed, 2 Jun 2004 19:11:44 -0400, "GRL" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    What annoys the hell out of me is to be riding along at a
    nice clip and you will come up on some idiot bikers (two or
    more is common) who have decided to stop and service a bike
    or just have a little discussion while laying at least one
    bike on the trail (it seems kick stands are extinct)
    blocking 2/3 of the trail oblivious to the world around
    them. There is a nice wide

    I hate that too. A couple weeks ago, I approached a mother
    and daughter with their bikes parked across the path. They
    were equipped with kickstands, and used them to park exactly
    perpendicular, one bike staggered forward to be sure of
    blocking the whole path, while they stood on the remaining
    foot of pavement reading a plaque. You might think the
    mother would like to instill some manners into her child, or
    at least not demonstrate how to be rude (without noting that
    it is, in fact, rude).

    Of course, the usual complaint stands about induhvidiual
    rollerbladers taking the _whole_ width of the path, because
    they don't want to come within a foot of the edge...the
    skate right on the centerline, using up half of each lane,
    leaving insufficient room for a bicyclist to pass.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  13. On Wed, 02 Jun 2004 19:38:36 -0400, Badger_South <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    This happens to me a lot too. Even after three gentle
    'admonishments' (and seeming agreement) this group of three
    teenagers still kept stopping on the trail in a bunch, and
    at blind corners, as well. Not much you can do, but sigh,
    and go on around them.

    Crash into them. Be riding a very heavy beater bike at the
    time.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  14. On Wed, 2 Jun 2004 21:16:49 -0400, "psycholist" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    lane. Why don't you just move entirely into the opposing
    lane as if you

    Because AS I SAID, there was a crossroad ahead and I
    couldn't be sure what the clown in the middle was going to
    do. I didn't want to pass him in the

    Also, you said he was weaving side-to-side; IME, a cyclist
    doing that is just as likely to weave all the way to the
    other side, except if he sees _oncoming_ traffic. There's no
    excuse for weaving; nobody, regardless of transportation
    mode, should be doing it.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  15. "Rick Onanian" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Badger_South said:

    This happens to me a lot too. Even after three gentle
    'admonishments'


    (and seeming agreement)

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    this group of three teenagers still kept stopping on the
    trail in a


    bunch, and

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    at blind corners, as well. Not much you can do, but sigh,
    and go on


    around them.

    Quoted message said:


    Crash into them. Be riding a very heavy beater bike at
    the time.

    I've used the technique of giving a very loopy expression
    (coupled with a crazed grin) and yelling, "Coming through!
    COMING THROUGH!" I guess the vision of a more demented
    version of their mothers, on a bicycle, is enough to get
    them to pull over and get out of my way.

    --
    Warm Regards,

    Claire Petersky Please replace earthlink for mouse-potato
    and .net for .com Home of the meditative cyclist:
    home.earthlink.netWelcome.htm See the
    books I've set free at:
    bookcrossing.comCpetersky

  16. Frank Krygowski said:

    Unless the cyclists were looking back at you and giving you
    the finger,


    ...

    Quoted message said:

    Look, to put this in context: Have you never walked through
    a mall and had people obstruct you for a few seconds? Was
    this really that much worse?

    Malls, high school halls, whatever; they clump rudely in the
    middle, rather than standing to the side. Roads, bike paths,
    blocking the travel lane when not traveling at the other
    users' speed. That _is_ rude. It's not as rude as giving you
    the finger, but it's rude nonetheless.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  17. maxo said:

    A happy ping-piiiiiing is much more jolly than a breathless
    "passing on the left!". Highly recommended.

    Spoken "beep beep" is often enjoyed as humor. I suspect that
    occasionally somebody is offended, as if I said "get out of
    the way", but I think most understand...and I give 'em a
    goofy grin to go along with it.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  18. Zoot Katz said:

    Knowing now about all those homicidal drivers bent on
    revenge it makes me worry for my life every time I think to
    dare parallel parking.

    You, of all people, drive?
    --
    Rick Onanian

  19. On Thu, 03 Jun 2004 02:10:36 GMT, "Matt O'Toole" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    To me, a revving engine sounds like an attempt to
    intimidate -- especially when practiced by drivers of large
    pickup trucks and muscle cars, which themselves are meant
    to be intimidating (usually, at least a little) -- and are
    usually the ones who do this.

    This is as much a hasty generalization as my gut-wrench
    reaction to horns. I drive a full-size pickup, and know
    loads of others who do. I have absolutely no interest in
    intimidating. I drive it for many reasons; I could go on for
    pages, but categories include comfort, work, play, and soon
    I may be towing a large camper with it too.

    Some day, I'd love to drive a 1968 Camaro, with a big V8 and
    loud exhaust, but it would most definitely be for fun.

    I find that people driving retired police cars often admit
    that they drive them for the intimidation factor; that's the
    car of choice for those who enjoy that sort of thing.

    I do care what others think of what I drive in the
    following ways:
    - I don't want to be prejudged as a jerk or idiot, or
    scumbag kid (econobox lowered with wheels sticking out a
    foot and a huge wing, while the body rusts)
    - With some vehicles, I do enjoy getting compliments on how
    it looks (for example, added chrome on the pickup)
    --
    Rick Onanian

  20. S o r n i said:

    Anyone else notice that toward the end of a ride --
    especially a long and/or hard ride -- the "startle
    response" is greatly suppressed? More than a few

    It would be nice to say this is a calming effect of riding,
    but for me, it's a "I'm too damn tired to pedal, let alone
    flinch" effect.
    --
    Rick Onanian

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