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  1. I've never understood it, but there are many people in the world who seem to think that by making
    others look bad, it makes themselves look better. In reality it doesn't, but they do have themselves
    fooled into believing it. It is a shame. I'm glad your daughters see things the way they really are
    - they know you so much better!

    Joyce

    Deb in Northern California said:

    My mom is so jealous of the relationship I have with my girls, she tries to undermine it and tell
    them some nasty things about me when I am not around, either via email or when they see her and I
    am not there. They have gotten to the point that they tell her that if I am mentioned when they
    are visiting with her, they will just leave as they know that the things she says are not the
    truth about their mom, they know me better than she does. Needless to say, mom and I don't get
    along great.

    Debbie

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    When my mom was more lucid, she would tell me she was envious of my


    relationship

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    with my children. I don't know why we are closer, other than maybe my


    kids just

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    don't fear me? They know there isn't anything bad enough that they can't


    talk

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    about. We *try* to avoid screaming matches, I grew up with them and


    learned that

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    they don't solve a danged thing. There are other times though, that I


    sometimes

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    wish we weren't so close. I feel every dang one of their pains worse than


    they

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    do. <sigh>

    Joyce

    Prairie Roots said:

    We must have gone to the same school of childrearing together. Sometimes you hear things you'd
    rather not know, but I have a great relationship with both of my daughters. My mother is quite
    envious of the closeness I share with them.

    Prairie Roots

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    >I agree with you completely and do the same thing with my kids. My


    oldest

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    >(will be in 20 in a week) is away at college like your son is. She was


    so

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    >funny last year, she called me and asked if it was okay if she had a


    drink

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    >with her roommate at school. I told her it was not my decision and she


    knew

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    >the consequences if she got caught drinking in her dorm room. I told


    her

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    >just don't drive and don't get in the car with anyone. She ended up


    having

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    >one beer and regretted it, apparently she is like me and lacks the


    enzyme to

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    >metabolize the alcohol and ended up in bed all weekend feeling lousy. I think she has had only
    >one drink since then and it did not effect her


    that

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    >way.
    >
    >I am a firm believer of giving the kids enough rope to get out, but not enough to hang
    >themselves. And to never condemn them for being open and honest with me. If course the oldest
    >is very open with me and has told


    me

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    >things, I don't think a mom should really know about her teenage


    daughters

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    >private behind closed door life, if you know what I mean.
    >
    >Debbie "Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    >> I'm the same way with my kids Debbie. The logic I use is if I forbid
    >something,
    >> all they are going to do is do it anyway and lie to me. I'd much


    rather

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    >at least
    >> know that the line of communication is still open and at least know


    when

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    >they are
    >> doing something I don't totally agree with (yet is somewhat normal
    >behavior). The
    >> first thing I told each child when they hit that precarious age is: I
    >don't
    >> condone the behavior and it is illegal. BUT if you ever find yourself


    in

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    >the
    >> situation where you DO have a drink, do not ever get in a car ...
    >regardless as to
    >> whether you are driving or someone else. Call home. No questions


    asked,

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    >no
    >> repercussions, no discussion, no lecture. This is a freebie. I would
    >much rather
    >> get a phone call to come rescue you, than one from the police or


    morgue.

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    >So far
    >> it has appeared to work. My son has always called to tell me he is
    >staying
    >> whereever he is at - keys have been put away safely, and will be


    returned

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    >in the
    >> am. My daughter did taste the mudslide the other night - once she


    knew

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    >she was
    >> not leaving the house.
    >>
    >> I still do draw the line at allowing only my kids trying things


    though.

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    >My son is
    >> 19, has had friends over and asked if they could have a beer. Nope,


    not

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    >unless
    >> parents are called and have given permission - and they are turning


    keys

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    >over to
    >> me. I do not and will not take authority away from another parent -


    even

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    >if I do
    >> know what their kids do when away from home.
    >>
    >> Joyce
    >>
    >> On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 14:57:03 -0800, "Deb in Northern California"
    >> <[email hidden]> wrote:
    >>
    >> >I but the individual serving bottles in the 4 pack, and the kids try


    to

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    >get
    >> >to those too. I don't buy them very often unless we are going to a


    party

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    >or
    >> >having friends over to drink. My kids love my mudslides and beg for


    me

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    >to
    >> >make them.
    >> >
    >> >Yes I will admit, I am a parent that lets my kids have a taste of
    >something,
    >> >they don't have a full drink, but I will not keep it from them, to


    only

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    >have
    >> >them sneak around behind my back to get drunk.
    >> >
    >> >Debbie
    >> >
    >> >"Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...
    >> >> mmmmmmmmmmm, but oh so luverly! I go the cheap and easy route, no
    >muss,
    >> >no fuss
    >> >> ... buy the premixed stuff in a bottle and pour it over ice. So


    much

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    >> >smoother
    >> >> than kahlua straight up (which I haven't had in years, but used to
    >adore).
    >> >> Biggest problem now is figuring out how to keep the kids out of it,
    >other
    >> >than by
    >> >> me downing the whole dang bottle - which is looking like a fun


    option.

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    ><G>
    >> >>
    >> >> I believe the version I have is rum based, probably cream and maybe
    >some
    >> >chocolate
    >> >> syrup also? The bottle description says *a creamy blend of


    chocolate

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    >and
    >> >coffee
    >> >> flavors, combined with rum* - no ingredient list other than


    non-dairy

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    >> >creamer and
    >> >> 10% alcohol. LOL! It's REALLY good if you put it in a blender


    with

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    >> >icecubes and
    >> >> crush it up. hehehe - better put the bottle back in the fridge


    before

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    >hub
    >> >gets
    >> >> home and fears I've been nipping for breakfast. <EG>
    >> >>
    >> >> Joyce
    >> >>
    >> >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 16:42:55 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>
    >wrote:
    >> >>
    >> >> >It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff
    >like
    >> >> >chocolate syrup in one recipe I saw, vodka in another....
    >> >> >
    >> >> >Evil
    >> >> >
    >> >> >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    >> >> >"]news:[email hidden]...
    >> >> >> I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    >> >> >>
    >> >> >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
    >> >> >>
    >> >> >> >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to


    out-run

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    >it.
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  2. I do know how fortunate I have been in the way the kids look out for each other. I don't know how or
    why it happened, and I'm sure not going to complain. LOL! They still have their *moments* on
    occassion ... tonite was one of them. <G> Big brother loves to goad little sister, she hasn't yet
    listened to me about just ignoring him when he gets into this game. Ignoring removes the fun, the
    game stops when it is no longer fun. She prolongs it ... makes me wonder if she really likes it. LOL

    Joyce

    Deb in Northern California said:

    That is great that they take care of each other that way. My oldest tries to mother her sister and
    her sister rebels. She rebels more against her older sister than she does against me. I guess that
    is a good thing, as I can tell the older one to stop mothering her and all is better for a while.

    Debbie

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    Unfortunately, my son doesn't seem to have that alcohol intolerant gene in


    his

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    body. <G> But he is smart (somewhat) and remains safe, practices what he considers
    responsibility. He is pretty open with me, to a point. There


    are some

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    things though that a mom just doesn't need to know. <G> What I find most amusing/interesting is
    how the two youngest kids protect each other. They


    remain

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    closed mouth with each others *secrets* (they are very close) until they


    think the

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    other one is in danger of doing something incredibly stupid or dangerous.


    A few

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    weeks ago I was out to lunch with my son, he told me to keep my eyes open


    with

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    baby sis as one of her friends was pushing her to skip classes with him.


    OK,

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    'nuff said, will do. Last week baby sis told me big brother was having


    problems

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    at school (no news to me) and she was really worried about him ... he


    isn't happy

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    mom, he REALLY isn't happy mom and I'm scared. OK - time for mom to act


    on this

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    one and find out what the heck is going on. Which brings us to the most


    recent

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    stress and problems. BUT - once approached he was very open, lots of


    tears shed,

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    fears expressed and soul searching done. I hate to think what may have


    happened

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    had things progressed too far, or if each of the kids didn't have a little


    bit of

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    *squealer* in them. <G>

    Joyce

    Deb in Northern California said:

    I agree with you completely and do the same thing with my kids. My


    oldest

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    (will be in 20 in a week) is away at college like your son is. She was


    so

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    funny last year, she called me and asked if it was okay if she had a


    drink

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    with her roommate at school. I told her it was not my decision and she


    knew

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    the consequences if she got caught drinking in her dorm room. I told her just don't drive and
    don't get in the car with anyone. She ended up


    having

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    one beer and regretted it, apparently she is like me and lacks the enzyme


    to

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    metabolize the alcohol and ended up in bed all weekend feeling lousy. I think she has had only
    one drink since then and it did not effect her


    that

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    way.

    I am a firm believer of giving the kids enough rope to get out, but not enough to hang
    themselves. And to never condemn them for being open and honest with me. If course the oldest is
    very open with me and has told


    me

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    things, I don't think a mom should really know about her teenage


    daughters

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    private behind closed door life, if you know what I mean.

    Debbie "Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...
    > I'm the same way with my kids Debbie. The logic I use is if I forbid
    something,
    > all they are going to do is do it anyway and lie to me. I'd much


    rather

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    at least
    > know that the line of communication is still open and at least know


    when

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    they are
    > doing something I don't totally agree with (yet is somewhat normal
    behavior). The
    > first thing I told each child when they hit that precarious age is: I
    don't
    > condone the behavior and it is illegal. BUT if you ever find yourself


    in

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    the
    > situation where you DO have a drink, do not ever get in a car ...
    regardless as to
    > whether you are driving or someone else. Call home. No questions


    asked,

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    no
    > repercussions, no discussion, no lecture. This is a freebie. I would
    much rather
    > get a phone call to come rescue you, than one from the police or


    morgue.

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    So far
    > it has appeared to work. My son has always called to tell me he is
    staying
    > whereever he is at - keys have been put away safely, and will be


    returned

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    in the
    > am. My daughter did taste the mudslide the other night - once she knew
    she was
    > not leaving the house.
    >
    > I still do draw the line at allowing only my kids trying things though.
    My son is
    > 19, has had friends over and asked if they could have a beer. Nope,


    not

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    unless
    > parents are called and have given permission - and they are turning


    keys

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    over to
    > me. I do not and will not take authority away from another parent -


    even

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    if I do
    > know what their kids do when away from home.
    >
    > Joyce
    >
    > On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 14:57:03 -0800, "Deb in Northern California"
    > <[email hidden]> wrote:
    >
    > >I but the individual serving bottles in the 4 pack, and the kids try


    to

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    get
    > >to those too. I don't buy them very often unless we are going to a


    party

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    or
    > >having friends over to drink. My kids love my mudslides and beg for


    me

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    to
    > >make them.
    > >
    > >Yes I will admit, I am a parent that lets my kids have a taste of
    something,
    > >they don't have a full drink, but I will not keep it from them, to


    only

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    have
    > >them sneak around behind my back to get drunk.
    > >
    > >Debbie
    > >
    > >"Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...
    > >> mmmmmmmmmmm, but oh so luverly! I go the cheap and easy route, no
    muss,
    > >no fuss
    > >> ... buy the premixed stuff in a bottle and pour it over ice. So


    much

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    > >smoother
    > >> than kahlua straight up (which I haven't had in years, but used to
    adore).
    > >> Biggest problem now is figuring out how to keep the kids out of it,
    other
    > >than by
    > >> me downing the whole dang bottle - which is looking like a fun


    option.

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    <G>
    > >>
    > >> I believe the version I have is rum based, probably cream and maybe
    some
    > >chocolate
    > >> syrup also? The bottle description says *a creamy blend of


    chocolate

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    and
    > >coffee
    > >> flavors, combined with rum* - no ingredient list other than


    non-dairy

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    > >creamer and
    > >> 10% alcohol. LOL! It's REALLY good if you put it in a blender with
    > >icecubes and
    > >> crush it up. hehehe - better put the bottle back in the fridge


    before

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    hub
    > >gets
    > >> home and fears I've been nipping for breakfast. <EG>
    > >>
    > >> Joyce
    > >>
    > >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 16:42:55 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>
    wrote:
    > >>
    > >> >It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff
    like
    > >> >chocolate syrup in one recipe I saw, vodka in another....
    > >> >
    > >> >Evil
    > >> >
    > >> >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    > >> >"]news:[email hidden]...
    > >> >> I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    > >> >>
    > >> >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
    > >> >>
    > >> >> >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to


    out-run

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    it.
    > >;-)
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  3. they are almost as evil as cheesecake, Lee
    Fred <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Oh, yeah, no info makes it freebie - that is sweet.

    You folks all know this mudslide - I'd never heard of them. Oh, well...

    Joyce said:

    Oh shucks, no nutritional data on liquor bottles. I guess that means it


    is a

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    freebie. <G> I took a stab in the dark at 6 points - was what I was


    willing to

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    give it and it took me within a few points of the low end of my target.


    Gotta use

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    those points somewhere. Dang, should have had a bigger glass. <G>

    Joyce

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    how many points in a mudslide??

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    > lessee .... coffee started at 7:30 am, continued through about 4pm.


    At

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    4:30 I
    > finally broke down and ate the last piece of spinach pizza in the


    fridge

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    ...
    > actually, it was about 1/2 a slice. I finally talked hub into eating
    something
    > for dinner at 8pm ... made up a quick bag of southwestern chipotle


    soup

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    (or
    > something like that), threw in 1 chicken breast chopped up and a can


    of

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    corn - ate
    > 2 cups of soup, oh, and 2 slices of light italian bread. At 10:30 I


    gave

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    in and
    > had a Mudslide. <G> Hey, I finally found something that made me


    warm!!!

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    I didn't
    > bother to journal, know I was well under for the day. Coffee has


    resumed

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    this
    > morning, but at least I *feel* a little more like eating - might


    venture

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    towards a
    > bowl of fruit or some toast this morning.
    >
    > Today is another day, life goes on.
    >
    > If you feel those weekly weighins will help keep you on track, go for


    it!

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    We
    > gotta do what we gotta do. And each of us knows how the attacks of


    *life*

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    affects
    > us, better to do what we can to keep things under control as best we


    can.

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    >
    > Joyce
    >
    > On Sat, 07 Feb 2004 12:48:21 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>


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    >
    > >Okay Joyce, What did you eat? ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚... I have done really well the


    past 3

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    or
    > >4 days since I decided to weigh in for Feb today. I think I need to


    go

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    > >weigh in every week until I am out of this "mood" I have been in.
    > >
    > >
    > >"Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...
    > >> I can relate to your buddy, I work the same way. When upset or
    stressed,
    > >there is
    > >> no way I can eat. You do NOT want to know what I've eaten today.


    But

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    I
    > >did
    > >> manage to drink an entire pot of coffee (decaf of course). <sigh>
    > >>
    > >> Joyce
    > >>
    > >> On Fri, 06 Feb 2004 20:38:34 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>
    wrote:
    > >>
    > >> >My normal buddy Mozelle (yes that is her real name) gets knots in


    her

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    > >> >stomach when stressed and cannot eat. This cold for some reason


    has

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    made
    > >me
    > >> >both hungry and unable to really exercise. Anyway, I am on the


    going

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    > >back
    > >> >down track now, hopefully it will continue.
    > >> >
    > >> >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    > >> >> Grab hold of THE SWITCH and don't let go.
    > >> >>
    > >> >> I know it is hard some days. There are the food temptations


    which

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    > >> >> were always allowed and then there are the triggers - stress,
    illness,
    > >> >> whatever. I think it may be time to ask THE NORMALS what they


    do

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    when
    > >> >> stressed as they apparently do not turn to food.
    > >> >>
    > >> >> And remember one day or week does not undo everything and there


    are

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    > >> >> normal ups and downs but being watchful and mindful is also


    okay.

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    > >> >>
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    > >> >>
    > >> >> On Fri, 06 Feb 2004 18:15:16 GMT, "Lesanne"


    <[email hidden]>

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    > >> >> wrote:
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    > >> >> >Oh heck, EVE was an amateur, she only had a committee of Three


    I

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    > >think.
    > >> >I
    > >> >> >have a veritable zoo in there. They sometimes get into fights


    in

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    the
    > >> >middle
    > >> >> >of the night and wake me up....
    > >> >> >
    > >> >> >I don't think luck will help me this week. If I round the


    average

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  4. I settled for a nice cold beer tonight. After sitting in an
    un-airconditioned train in 35C heat for two hours (the trip normally takes
    45 minutes) I figured I deserved it! Off to have some WW chocolate icecream
    now ๐Ÿ™‚

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    Oh, that mud would slide down well! (G) As I wrote elsewhere, I settled for Port tonight.

    Lesanne said:

    It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff like chocolate syrup in one
    recipe I saw, vodka in another....

    Evil

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    I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!

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    >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to out-run it.


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  5. Probably about right

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    Then the 6 points I gave it probably wasn't too far out of line, at least


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    everyday occassion. But heck, I drink so little now that I honestly do


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    effects after a single one. Tuck me in, put me to bed - I am a happy


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    The recipe I use has an ounce and a half of Baileys Irish Cream, A half ounce Kahlua, an ounce of
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    edge of a rocks glass and pour the rest in over ice. I figure 6 - 8


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    Oh shucks, no nutritional data on liquor bottles. I guess that means it


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    give it and it took me within a few points of the low end of my target.


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    those points somewhere. Dang, should have had a bigger glass. <G>

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    On Sat, 07 Feb 2004 19:28:40 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>


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    >how many points in a mudslide??
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    >> lessee .... coffee started at 7:30 am, continued through about 4pm.


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    >this
    >> morning, but at least I *feel* a little more like eating - might


    venture

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    >> On Sat, 07 Feb 2004 12:48:21 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>


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    >>
    >> >Okay Joyce, What did you eat? ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚... I have done really well the


    past 3

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    go

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    >> >
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    >> >> I can relate to your buddy, I work the same way. When upset or
    >stressed,
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    >> >> no way I can eat. You do NOT want to know what I've eaten today.


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    >> >> On Fri, 06 Feb 2004 20:38:34 GMT, "Lesanne"


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    >wrote:
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    in

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    her

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    >> >> >> Grab hold of THE SWITCH and don't let go.
    >> >> >>
    >> >> >> I know it is hard some days. There are the food temptations


    which

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    >> >> >> >> Well, again good luck to you and the others, including EVE.


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    >> >> >> >> >> I hope you and sybil and cybyl and cibel do real well.
    >> >> >> >> >>
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    >> >> >> >> >> >> Awwwwwwww shucks Lesanne! I hope your feeling better


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  6. I would toss that for sure. And that would also be about 50 points I bet

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    Oh my, 24 oz??!!! I would be ready to sleep by the time I got a quarter


    of the

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    Joyce

    On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 13:34:48 -0600, "Miss Violette"


    <[email hidden]>

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    the lodge at starved rock serves it that way, is wonderful, and really relaxing at a drink being
    in a 24 oz shake cup, Lee, hic Joyce <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    hmmmmmmmmm, a mudslide milkshake. Now THAT would be an interesting


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    >also one of the few ways I like ice-cream, Lee Lesanne <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    >> It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff


    like

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    >>
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    >> > I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    >> >
    >> > On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
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  7. I agree with you completely and do the same thing with my kids. My oldest (will be in 20 in a week)
    is away at college like your son is. She was so funny last year, she called me and asked if it was
    okay if she had a drink with her roommate at school. I told her it was not my decision and she knew
    the consequences if she got caught drinking in her dorm room. I told her just don't drive and don't
    get in the car with anyone. She ended up having one beer and regretted it, apparently she is like me
    and lacks the enzyme to metabolize the alcohol and ended up in bed all weekend feeling lousy. I
    think she has had only one drink since then and it did not effect her that way.

    I am a firm believer of giving the kids enough rope to get out, but not enough to hang themselves.
    And to never condemn them for being open and honest with me. If course the oldest is very open with
    me and has told me things, I don't think a mom should really know about her teenage daughters
    private behind closed door life, if you know what I mean.

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    repercussions, no discussion, no lecture. This is a freebie. I would


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    it has appeared to work. My son has always called to tell me he is


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    >It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff


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  8. You got it Fred, it is bottled by Kahlua, they also have white Russians, black Russians and a few
    others that are all made up and ready to drink.

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    Oh, yeah, no info makes it freebie - that is sweet.

    You folks all know this mudslide - I'd never heard of them. Oh, well...

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    >>towards a
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    >>> Today is another day, life goes on.
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    >>> If you feel those weekly weighins will help keep you on track, go


    for it!

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    >>> >> I can relate to your buddy, I work the same way. When upset or
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    >>> >> no way I can eat. You do NOT want to know what I've eaten today.


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    >>> >> On Fri, 06 Feb 2004 20:38:34 GMT, "Lesanne"


    <[email hidden]>

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    >>wrote:
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    >>> >> >My normal buddy Mozelle (yes that is her real name) gets knots


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    >>> >> >stomach when stressed and cannot eat. This cold for some reason


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    >>> >> >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    >>> >> >> Grab hold of THE SWITCH and don't let go.
    >>> >> >>
    >>> >> >> I know it is hard some days. There are the food temptations


    which

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    >>> >> >> were always allowed and then there are the triggers - stress,
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    >>> >> >> normal ups and downs but being watchful and mindful is also


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    >>> >> >> On Fri, 06 Feb 2004 18:15:16 GMT, "Lesanne"


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    >>> >> >> >Oh heck, EVE was an amateur, she only had a committee of


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    >>> >> >> >> WI!!!
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    >>> >> >> >> On Fri, 06 Feb 2004 13:48:46 GMT, "Lesanne"
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    >>> >> >> >> >We are better this morning after a few days on program


    again,

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    >>> >> >> >> >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    >>> >> >> >> >"]news:[email hidden]...
    >>> >> >> >> >> I hope you and sybil and cybyl and cibel do real well.
    >>> >> >> >> >>
    >>> >> >> >> >> On Thu, 05 Feb 2004 22:06:44 GMT, "Lesanne"
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    >>> >> >> >> >> >I am all revitalized by Freds massive loss, so have


    been

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    southern

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    >>> >> >> >> >> >> Awwwwwwww shucks Lesanne! I hope your feeling better


    soon.

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    and

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    >>> >> >generally
    >>> >> >> >> >> >feeling like
    >>> >> >> >> >> >> dog [censored]. <G> This will be a better week.
    >>> >> >> >> >> >>
    >>> >> >> >> >> >> Joyce
    >>> >> >> >> >> >>
    >>> >> >> >> >> >> On Wed, 04 Feb 2004 16:24:50 GMT, "Lesanne"
    >>> >> ><[email hidden]>
    >>> >> >> >> >wrote:
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    >>> >> >> >> >> >> > has to delete about a million messages and start


    over.

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    and

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  9. not to mention the fact that alcohol evaporated REALLY easily, thus carrying away calories with
    it.......*grin*

    --
    krys

    UK 157/132/126 Started March 1st 2001 GOAL August 16th 2001 ...definitely making progress...

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    These drinks are pretty hard to get a definite point count on, as everyone


    makes

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    them differently. The Friday's brand of mudslides that is purchased


    commercially

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    only has rum and non-dairy creamer in it - the rest is artificial


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    irish cream, no coffee liqueur - so points should be a bit lower. On


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    5.5) for a 3 ounce blended mudslide. That's 3 points difference from this


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    you found on the same website!

    BUT .. maybe we can look at it as liquid points - some of that point total


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    Ok on Dotties Weight Loss Zone here is what she says on Mudslides, and a


    few

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    others..... Top 5 worst drinks:
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    triple sec, lime juice, 1 tsp. sugar) - 550 calories (11)
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    417 calories (8.5)
    3. Long Island Ice Tea (1 oz. vodka, gin, rum, tequila, and triple sec, 2 oz. sour mix, splash of
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    4. White Russian (1.5 oz. vodka, 1.5 oz. coffee liqueur, 1.5 oz. cream) - 320 calories (6.5)
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    So I was right....blew the whole wad of flex points! lol

  10. My mom is so jealous of the relationship I have with my girls, she tries to undermine it and tell
    them some nasty things about me when I am not around, either via email or when they see her and I
    am not there. They have gotten to the point that they tell her that if I am mentioned when they
    are visiting with her, they will just leave as they know that the things she says are not the
    truth about their mom, they know me better than she does. Needless to say, mom and I don't get
    along great.

    Debbie

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    Joyce

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    We must have gone to the same school of childrearing together. Sometimes you hear things you'd
    rather not know, but I have a great relationship with both of my daughters. My mother is quite
    envious of the closeness I share with them.

    Prairie Roots

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    I agree with you completely and do the same thing with my kids. My


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    > I'm the same way with my kids Debbie. The logic I use is if I forbid
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    > On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 14:57:03 -0800, "Deb in Northern California"
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    > >Debbie
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    > >"Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...
    > >> mmmmmmmmmmm, but oh so luverly! I go the cheap and easy route, no
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    other
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    before

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    > >>
    > >> Joyce
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    > >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 16:42:55 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>
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    > >>
    > >> >It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff
    like
    > >> >chocolate syrup in one recipe I saw, vodka in another....
    > >> >
    > >> >Evil
    > >> >
    > >> >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    > >> >"]news:[email hidden]...
    > >> >> I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    > >> >>
    > >> >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
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    > >> >> >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to


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  11. That is great that they take care of each other that way. My oldest tries to mother her sister and
    her sister rebels. She rebels more against her older sister than she does against me. I guess that
    is a good thing, as I can tell the older one to stop mothering her and all is better for a while.

    Debbie

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    body. <G> But he is smart (somewhat) and remains safe, practices what he considers responsibility.
    He is pretty open with me, to a point. There


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    things though that a mom just doesn't need to know. <G> What I find most amusing/interesting is
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    closed mouth with each others *secrets* (they are very close) until they


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    weeks ago I was out to lunch with my son, he told me to keep my eyes open


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    baby sis as one of her friends was pushing her to skip classes with him.


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    'nuff said, will do. Last week baby sis told me big brother was having


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    at school (no news to me) and she was really worried about him ... he


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    one and find out what the heck is going on. Which brings us to the most


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    stress and problems. BUT - once approached he was very open, lots of


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    Joyce

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    I agree with you completely and do the same thing with my kids. My


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    (will be in 20 in a week) is away at college like your son is. She was


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    funny last year, she called me and asked if it was okay if she had a


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    the consequences if she got caught drinking in her dorm room. I told her just don't drive and
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    one beer and regretted it, apparently she is like me and lacks the enzyme


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    metabolize the alcohol and ended up in bed all weekend feeling lousy. I think she has had only
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    way.

    I am a firm believer of giving the kids enough rope to get out, but not enough to hang
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    private behind closed door life, if you know what I mean.

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    I'm the same way with my kids Debbie. The logic I use is if I forbid


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    all they are going to do is do it anyway and lie to me. I'd much


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    repercussions, no discussion, no lecture. This is a freebie. I would


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    it has appeared to work. My son has always called to tell me he is


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    whereever he is at - keys have been put away safely, and will be


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    Joyce

    On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 14:57:03 -0800, "Deb in Northern California"
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    >I but the individual serving bottles in the 4 pack, and the kids try


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    >having friends over to drink. My kids love my mudslides and beg for


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    have

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    >Debbie
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    >"Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...
    >> mmmmmmmmmmm, but oh so luverly! I go the cheap and easy route, no


    muss,

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    >no fuss
    >> ... buy the premixed stuff in a bottle and pour it over ice. So


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    >smoother
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    >> Biggest problem now is figuring out how to keep the kids out of it,


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    >than by
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    <G>

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    >>
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    >creamer and
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    >> Joyce
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    >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 16:42:55 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>


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    >>
    >> >It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff


    like

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    >> >chocolate syrup in one recipe I saw, vodka in another....
    >> >
    >> >Evil
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    >> >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    >> >"]news:[email hidden]...
    >> >> I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    >> >>
    >> >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
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    >> >> >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to


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  12. Ah I forgot that Washington state was like this. We have liquor available on every corner and at the
    grocers and anywhere else you would like it. So I forget other states are not like that.

    Debbie

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    I have not been to a state liquor store in years - the last time, as I recall, was when I was
    about to remodel the kitchen and needed boxes - not kidding.

    Deb in Northern California said:

    You got it Fred, it is bottled by Kahlua, they also have white Russians, black Russians and a few
    others that are all made up and ready to drink.

    Debbie

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    So mudslides are a bottled commercial product besides being something you can get made at a
    bar? I guess you are right - sheltered life (G)

    On Mon, 09 Feb 2004 02:53:01 -0600, Joyce <[email hidden]> wrote:

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    >years - can't remember exactly how long, but I do recall going through


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    >them when I was bowling with the *ladies* ... and haven't done that


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    about 4 or

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    >5 years now. Like I said, it's a splurge for me. I'm really not much


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    a

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    (or wore

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    >ol' beer - on a horribly hot and humid summer day. This bottle of


    mudslides will

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    >probably still be in the fridge next year, unless the kids make it


    disappear. <G>

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    >Joyce
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    >On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 21:57:58 -0800, Fred <[email hidden]>


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    >
    >>Oh, yeah, no info makes it freebie - that is sweet.
    >>
    >>You folks all know this mudslide - I'd never heard of them. Oh, well...
    >>
    >>On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 11:10:19 -0600, Joyce <[email hidden]> wrote:
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    >>>Oh shucks, no nutritional data on liquor bottles. I guess that means


    it

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    >>>Joyce
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    >>>On Sat, 07 Feb 2004 19:28:40 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>


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    >>>
    >>>>how many points in a mudslide??
    >>>>
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    >>>>> lessee .... coffee started at 7:30 am, continued through about


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    warm!!!

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    venture

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    >>>>> Today is another day, life goes on.
    >>>>>
    >>>>> If you feel those weekly weighins will help keep you on track, go


    for it!

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    >>>>> On Sat, 07 Feb 2004 12:48:21 GMT, "Lesanne"


    <[email hidden]>

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    the

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    past 3

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    >>>>> >> I can relate to your buddy, I work the same way. When upset


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    <sigh>

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    >>>>> >> On Fri, 06 Feb 2004 20:38:34 GMT, "Lesanne"


    <[email hidden]>

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    >>>>> >> >My normal buddy Mozelle (yes that is her real name) gets


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    >>>>> >> >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    >>>>> >> >> Grab hold of THE SWITCH and don't let go.
    >>>>> >> >>
    >>>>> >> >> I know it is hard some days. There are the food


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    >>>>> >> >> On Fri, 06 Feb 2004 18:15:16 GMT, "Lesanne"


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    >>>>> >> >> >Oh heck, EVE was an amateur, she only had a committee of


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    >>>>> >> >> >> Well, again good luck to you and the others, including


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    >>>>> >> >> >> >> On Thu, 05 Feb 2004 22:06:44 GMT, "Lesanne"
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    >>>>> >> >> >> >> >> On Wed, 04 Feb 2004 16:24:50 GMT, "Lesanne"
    >>>>> >> ><[email hidden]>
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  13. I have a theory here, I rarely drink and eat ice-cream less than I drink. I
    also rarely eat sugary type items. For example, five miss m's is all I can
    get down if I have hot tea or coffee with them. I think the booze was
    relaxing but the sugar kept me awake to drink more. Lee
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    Oh my, 24 oz??!!! I would be ready to sleep by the time I got a quarter


    of the

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    Joyce

    On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 13:34:48 -0600, "Miss Violette"


    <[email hidden]>

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    the lodge at starved rock serves it that way, is wonderful, and really relaxing at a drink being
    in a 24 oz shake cup, Lee, hic Joyce <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    hmmmmmmmmm, a mudslide milkshake. Now THAT would be an interesting


    treat!

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    <G>

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    Joyce

    On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 10:51:17 -0600, "Miss Violette"


    <[email hidden]>

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    wrote:

    >It is one of the few alcoholic drinks I actually think tastes good,


    and

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    is

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    >also one of the few ways I like ice-cream, Lee Lesanne <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    >> It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff


    like

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    >> chocolate syrup in one recipe I saw, vodka in another....
    >>
    >> Evil
    >>
    >> "Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    >> "]news:[email hidden]...
    >> > I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    >> >
    >> > On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
    >> >
    >> > >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to out-run


    it.

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    >;-)
    >> >
    >>
    >>
    >

  14. OK what I had was both types combined, every ingredient you listed plus a
    couple more and ice-cream no ice, and man were they excellent, I think... I
    can't recall very clearly... Lee
    Deb in Northern California <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    I make mine the similar to the Applebee's way.

    French Vanilla ice cream, chocolate syrup and kahlua, blended in a blender until mixed well. Of
    course it is really just a chocolate milkshake with kahlua in it, but really good. I have people
    ask me to make them for them all the time.

    The traditional way is kahlua, Irish cream and vodka, blended with ice.

    Debbie

    "Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!

    frood said:

    That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to out-run it.


    ;-)

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  15. This logic is why I am not a big drinker, I am sure, that and my violent
    allergic reaction to beer, Lee
    Deb in Northern California <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    I but the individual serving bottles in the 4 pack, and the kids try to


    get

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    to those too. I don't buy them very often unless we are going to a party


    or

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    having friends over to drink. My kids love my mudslides and beg for me to make them.

    Yes I will admit, I am a parent that lets my kids have a taste of


    something,

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    they don't have a full drink, but I will not keep it from them, to only


    have

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    them sneak around behind my back to get drunk.

    Debbie

    "Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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    mmmmmmmmmmm, but oh so luverly! I go the cheap and easy route, no muss,


    no fuss

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    ... buy the premixed stuff in a bottle and pour it over ice. So much


    smoother

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    than kahlua straight up (which I haven't had in years, but used to


    adore).

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    Biggest problem now is figuring out how to keep the kids out of it,


    other

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    than by

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    me downing the whole dang bottle - which is looking like a fun option.


    <G>

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    I believe the version I have is rum based, probably cream and maybe some


    chocolate

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    syrup also? The bottle description says *a creamy blend of chocolate


    and

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    coffee

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    flavors, combined with rum* - no ingredient list other than non-dairy


    creamer and

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    10% alcohol. LOL! It's REALLY good if you put it in a blender with


    icecubes and

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    crush it up. hehehe - better put the bottle back in the fridge before


    hub

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    gets

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    home and fears I've been nipping for breakfast. <EG>

    Joyce

    On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 16:42:55 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>


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    It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff like chocolate syrup in one
    recipe I saw, vodka in another....

    Evil

    "Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    > I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    >
    > On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
    >
    > >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to out-run


    it.

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    ;-)

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    >


  16. I live in Texas and it is different depending on where you live. I just happen to live in a dry
    county. NO alcohol whatsoever. You can drive to the next county about 20 miles away and buy it, but
    not here. We have 2 privately owned clubs and one restaraunt that sells alcohol but you have to
    purchase a membership to be able to drink anything. Kind of nice in some ways. ๐Ÿ™‚ But WAAAAAY
    different than anywhere else in the world I have lived!

  17. ahhh but la this was in the before time so I didn't know that, I am not
    gonna tell you after I had the first two I cannot honestly say if I had
    three or four or, well you get the picture. DH said he hoped we never came
    back to that place again as either the booze or ice-cream made me snore
    really bad, Lee
    Lesanne <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    I would toss that for sure. And that would also be about 50 points I bet

    "Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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    Oh my, 24 oz??!!! I would be ready to sleep by the time I got a quarter


    of the

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    way through. LOL

    Joyce

    On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 13:34:48 -0600, "Miss Violette"


    <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:
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    the lodge at starved rock serves it that way, is wonderful, and really relaxing at a drink
    being in a 24 oz shake cup, Lee, hic Joyce <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...
    > hmmmmmmmmm, a mudslide milkshake. Now THAT would be an interesting


    treat!

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    <G>
    >
    > Joyce
    >
    > On Sun, 8 Feb 2004 10:51:17 -0600, "Miss Violette"
    <[email hidden]>
    > wrote:
    >
    > >It is one of the few alcoholic drinks I actually think tastes good,


    and

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    is
    > >also one of the few ways I like ice-cream, Lee Lesanne <[email hidden]> wrote in
    > >message "]news:[email hidden]...
    > >> It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff


    like

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    > >> chocolate syrup in one recipe I saw, vodka in another....
    > >>
    > >> Evil
    > >>
    > >> "Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    > >> "]news:[email hidden]...
    > >> > I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    > >> >
    > >> > On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
    > >> >
    > >> > >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to


    out-run

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    it.
    > >;-)
    > >> >
    > >>
    > >>
    > >
    >


  18. One of my favorite things when we visited DS & family when he was stationed in Puerto Rico -
    mudslides. They're luscious! Or, Painkillers - we had them at the Soggy Dollar Bar on Jost Van Dyke!
    Haven't had either for years. After we found DH was diabetic, and I'm trying to lose weight, our
    drinking days are just about over! But, I sure remember how good they were.
    :-)

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    ultimate inspiration is the deadline!

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    "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to out-run it. ;-)

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    "Lesanne" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

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    how many points in a mudslide??


  19. I no longer drink, as my body lacks the enzyme to metabolize it properly and even after one drink I
    have an awful hangover that lasts for a couple of days afterwards. Basically, I have one drink on
    Friday night with dinner and I am wiped out for the entire weekend, with cotton mouth, terrible
    headaches and very lethargic. It is not worth drinking at all, the way it makes me feel the next
    day or so.

    Debbie

    "Miss Violette" <[email hidden]> wrote in message -"]news:[email hidden]-
    berlin.de...

    Quoted message said:

    This logic is why I am not a big drinker, I am sure, that and my violent allergic reaction to
    beer, Lee Deb in Northern California <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:rM6dnYJxMpXmIrvdRVn-
    [email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    I but the individual serving bottles in the 4 pack, and the kids try to


    get

    Quoted message said:

    to those too. I don't buy them very often unless we are going to a


    party

    Quoted message said:

    or

    Quoted message said:

    having friends over to drink. My kids love my mudslides and beg for me


    to

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    Quoted message said:

    make them.

    Yes I will admit, I am a parent that lets my kids have a taste of


    something,

    Quoted message said:

    they don't have a full drink, but I will not keep it from them, to only


    have

    Quoted message said:

    them sneak around behind my back to get drunk.

    Debbie

    "Joyce" <[email hidden]> wrote in message "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    mmmmmmmmmmm, but oh so luverly! I go the cheap and easy route, no


    muss,

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    no fuss

    Quoted message said:

    ... buy the premixed stuff in a bottle and pour it over ice. So much


    smoother

    Quoted message said:

    than kahlua straight up (which I haven't had in years, but used to


    adore).

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Biggest problem now is figuring out how to keep the kids out of it,


    other

    Quoted message said:

    than by

    Quoted message said:

    me downing the whole dang bottle - which is looking like a fun option.


    <G>

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:


    I believe the version I have is rum based, probably cream and maybe


    some

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    chocolate

    Quoted message said:

    syrup also? The bottle description says *a creamy blend of chocolate


    and

    Quoted message said:

    coffee

    Quoted message said:

    flavors, combined with rum* - no ingredient list other than non-dairy


    creamer and

    Quoted message said:

    10% alcohol. LOL! It's REALLY good if you put it in a blender with


    icecubes and

    Quoted message said:

    crush it up. hehehe - better put the bottle back in the fridge before


    hub

    Quoted message said:

    gets

    Quoted message said:

    home and fears I've been nipping for breakfast. <EG>

    Joyce

    On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 16:42:55 GMT, "Lesanne" <[email hidden]>


    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:


    >It is a drink, with irish creme, kahlua, and sometimes other stuff


    like

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    >chocolate syrup in one recipe I saw, vodka in another....
    >
    >Evil
    >
    >"Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    >"]news:[email hidden]...
    >> I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!
    >>
    >> On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:
    >>
    >> >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to out-run


    it.

    Quoted message said:

    ;-)

    Quoted message said:

    >>
    >



  20. They also have something similar at Bubba Gump's Shrimp Company, called Mama's Favorite Drink, it is
    vanilla frozen yogurt, kahlua and amaretto, that one is tasty too.

    Debbie

    "Miss Violette" <[email hidden]> wrote in message -"]news:[email hidden]-
    berlin.de...

    Quoted message said:

    OK what I had was both types combined, every ingredient you listed plus a couple more and ice-
    cream no ice, and man were they excellent, I think...


    I

    Quoted message said:

    can't recall very clearly... Lee Deb in Northern California <[email hidden]> wrote in
    message "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    I make mine the similar to the Applebee's way.

    French Vanilla ice cream, chocolate syrup and kahlua, blended in a


    blender

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    until mixed well. Of course it is really just a chocolate milkshake


    with

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    kahlua in it, but really good. I have people ask me to make them for


    them

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    all the time.

    The traditional way is kahlua, Irish cream and vodka, blended with ice.

    Debbie

    "Fred" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    "]news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    I don't even know what an "edible" one is!!!

    On Sun, 08 Feb 2004 14:11:29 GMT, "frood" <[email hidden]> wrote:

    >That depends on whether you are drinking it, or trying to out-run it.


    ;-)

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