Minnaert said:Hi All,
Looking for opinions, recently started cycling seriously back at the start of the summer season. I had some serious gains, but over the past month, ive cut back due to lack of motativation and familly issues. Since I left college about 2years ago, I had lost 30+lbs and have an aim for 155 at 5'10". However, since the lack of training, I have gained a good amount of weight back, (from 172 to 177). I have noticed a drastic increase in the cravings for sweets. I am not entirely sure. Does anyone else experience this? I try to fight them but often give in to a Dunkin Doughnuts Iced Coffee with skim milk and splenda. Any advice on motativation or the like would be great all.
Thank you,
From what you say....I'm going out on a limb here,
Lack of motivation and imbalance family issues/commitments are not good. I don't think the donuts and food you eat are the problem. But I know donuts are comfort food for alot of ppl. Sometimes we get caught up in a whole bunch of things and lose sight of what life is about.
Changes are gradual, I found that it was easy to make excuses for ones actions rather than focus on goals. My friend had the same problem his wife refused to give him extra time from his family and commitments. Rather than blame them he just got up 1 hour earlier to do his exercise. Like him I focus on what I don't want. "to be overweight and unhealthy" I find being overweight and unfit makes me more lazy and miss out a whole lot more in life. Being healthier/ fitter allows me to be more alert and more effective in everything I do including work, socially and home/family commitments.
There could so many factors I dont know about your life but here are some random things;
- If you can't motivate yourself maybe consider a personal trainer? They won't put up with your excuses and are great motivators.
- Write a list of goals and read them everyday stick it up on your fridge, next to your computer at work. Beside your bed etc. Sometimes we forget why do do things.
- Get up an hour earlier everyday to excercise or do other things.
- Learn to prioritise
- Don't keep sweets at home or at work.
- Take your lunch/snacks to work I eat the same thing for lunch everyday Rice/Tuna/Broccoli. This takes away my decision process and room for conflict.
- Cut out things that don't add value to your life.
- One day a week eat whatever you like.
- Set aside time to do what you enjoy.
- Unplug the TV
- Hang around more positive goal orientated people sometimes it rubs off.
- Get outside help if you need to sort out family issues.
At this stage you need stronger affirmations. Look at what is important to you and write them down and put them in front of you to remind you constantly read them every morning and night for a month.
and dont forget try HAVE FUN in everything you do.