On Tue 26 Jul 2005 10:03:50a, Ranee Mueller wrote in rec.food.cooking:
Quoted message said:In article <[email hidden]>,
Wayne Boatwright said:Thank you, Ranee, for your thoughtful comments. I totally agree with
your premise and the way you provide for your husband and kids. If I
had kids I would certainly be inclined to do the same. As it is, there
are only the two of us and my partner came into this relationship with
many food prejudices well-established. While I like practically
everything, his "acceptable" food list is quite short. In the last 13
years I've tried many times to break down some of the barriers, but
it's not worth fighting over. :-) I've won a few battles and actually
managed to introduce him to foods he never dreamed he would eat.
However, most of the time we share the same meat and one or more of the
vegetables, but other times I won't deny myself what I want and will
prepare more than one entree so that we both can enjoy our meal. There
is another issue, too, as my partner had quadruple bypass surgery a
year and a half ago, and I do my best to follow a heart healty diet for
both of us. I'm not getting any younger myself.We have a don't ask don't tell agreement about what is in the food.
I promise not to make anything that anyone is allergic to (or in your
case, is bad for the health) and he looks away and eats it, and enjoys
it usually. It's only when he knows that there is something in there
that he doesn't like that he has a problem with it. He says he doesn't
like sweet and sour or teriyaki, any sweet with meat, but when I do it,
he enjoys it. It helps that I don't make that flourescent goop or
overdo the sweet/meat stuff, as I like it a bit more balanced than many
recipes are.Rich was slicing strawberries for shortcake a week or so ago, while I
was making a marinade for pork tenderloin and I told him to avert his
gaze or he wouldn't be able to enjoy the meal. He did. It had brown
sugar, orange juice and ginger in it along with the garlic, sunflower
oil, scallions and pepper. He ate it with gusto, but if he had allowed
himself to be fully conscious of the sugar, orange and ginger, he
wouldn't have.
I manage to "sneak" some things into our meals, but omit the obvious that
would be a complete thumbs down. Luckily, he never watches me preparing
food!
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Wayne Boatwright *¿*
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