Why Condone Jaime? Dump Her Sorry A$$!

what thread are you referring to?

tia said:

what thread are you referring to?

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Wysong *~ said:

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After what she wrote about Carmen's husband, I really am surprised
everyone is including her again in the conversations.

* There are several people on this NG who post with arrogance and a nasty
attitude - why pick on one poster and ignore the others?

But she scraped the barrel during her last "episode".

Starts at message 106:

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what thread are you referring to?

Who are YOU referring to?

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Wysong *~ said:

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"Xtile" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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After what she wrote about Carmen's husband, I really am surprised
everyone is including her again in the conversations.

* There are several people on this NG who post with arrogance and a

nasty

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attitude - why pick on one poster and ignore the others?

But she scraped the barrel during her last "episode".

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This is true. It was a rotten thing to say, but there are plenty of rotten
things said to people on this NG. Killfile her if she upsets you.
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But she scraped the barrel during her last "episode".

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This is true. It was a rotten thing to say, but there are plenty of rotten
things said to people on this NG. Killfile her if she upsets you.

You deleted the link to her post:
Starts at message 106:

http://tinyurl.com/5wsok

"Xtile" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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After what she wrote about Carmen's husband, I really am surprised
everyone is including her again in the conversations.

Well, since I am guilty as charged, I suppose I should say something. Jaime
has been here for years, and we've been through the "acting out" stuff
before... this is actually pretty mild. And I think we kind of understand
where it's coming from. And we also know it isn't permanent. It's a
temporary aberration probably resulting from a combination of hurt and anger
and impulsiveness.

I'd say it's more a function of forgiveness and understanding than
condoning. What she said was lousy, and what's more, I know she knows that,
even if she doesn't admit it here. She's part of our collective history,
often contributes useful or interesting information, and even a bit of
entertainment from time to time. I don't think she's even actually mean,
just easily hurt and angered and very impulsive at the keyboard.

That help?

HG

"Hannah Gruen" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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|| "Xtile" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
|| news:1108262290.d6d87588145ba2e8a6d189245b86045f@teranews...
||| After what she wrote about Carmen's husband, I really am surprised
||| everyone is including her again in the conversations.
||
|| Well, since I am guilty as charged, I suppose I should say
|| something. Jaime has been here for years, and we've been through the
|| "acting out" stuff before... this is actually pretty mild. And I
|| think we kind of understand where it's coming from. And we also know
|| it isn't permanent. It's a temporary aberration probably resulting
|| from a combination of hurt and anger and impulsiveness.
||
|| I'd say it's more a function of forgiveness and understanding than
|| condoning. What she said was lousy, and what's more, I know she
|| knows that, even if she doesn't admit it here. She's part of our
|| collective history, often contributes useful or interesting
|| information, and even a bit of entertainment from time to time. I
|| don't think she's even actually mean, just easily hurt and angered
|| and very impulsive at the keyboard.
||
|| That help?
||
|| HG

I agree 100% Hannah.
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Peter

In message <1108262290.d6d87588145ba2e8a6d189245b86045f@teranews>, Xtile
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After what she wrote about Carmen's husband, I really am surprised
everyone is including her again in the conversations. She needs to be
completely ignored by everyone, then she will go away for once and for
all. She's not even doing low carb, for chrissake! She's obviously a
lunatic who does not want help, so why do we let her drag us into her
psychotic dramas?

She's in pain. People in pain can behave regrettably. That doesn't
excuse it, but it does make it forgivable.

I believe I'm not the only one here who actually cares about Jaime. I
don't like it when she goes doolally. Who does?

If somebody screws up, it doesn't mean they don't deserve a second
chance. Or a third, or a fourth, or a hundredth.
--
Mogget, the Churl in the Puce Greatcoat

Mogget said:

In message <1108262290.d6d87588145ba2e8a6d189245b86045f@teranews>, Xtile
<[email hidden]> writes

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I believe I'm not the only one here who actually cares about Jaime. I
don't like it when she goes doolally. Who does?

I care about her. I understand her because I used to have the same
mindset.