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  1. An Unacceptable Loss

    Many years ago, my Mom suddenly jumped me & said: "Do you remember Mrs.
    Hill? Your Sunday School teacher? She's dead." [Mom likes to deliver
    bad news, then stand there & snicker cruelly about it.]

    My former Sunday School teacher (one of the few nice people in the
    church), was dead. Now that was a major loss for me! [I think I was in
    my teens (?) at this time, & was still trapped at the farm with Mom.]

    After I asked questions for a while, I learned that Mrs. Hill had gone
    to the hospital with the flu, had been given a shot, & the shot had
    killed her.

    Whenever I got the chance, I'd ask why the doctors would give someone a
    shot, that would kill them. Nobody knew.

    Why didn't the docs give people just a tiny amount of medicine first, to
    see if they were allergic to it, ... or test them for allergies before
    giving shots & medicine? Nobody knew.

    Finally, I learned that the doctors have a standard treatment for an
    illness, such as a certain antibiotic, ... that most docs won't deviate
    from that, no matter what, ... & that docs refuse to take responsibility
    for bad results, for the deaths they cause.

    If the patient is allergic to the treatment, & is permanently
    injured/disabled or killed by it, ... then it's considered an
    "acceptable loss" by the docs. It's OK. [Heaven forbid that the
    doctors should actually do something logical or practical, when
    dispensing dangerous drugs.]

    While the doctors might have considered Mrs. Hill's death "an acceptable
    loss", & not cared about her, ... I did care. And it was Not OK with
    me, that they killed her.

    -----------

    What is considered "an acceptable loss" by doctors? Your life? Your
    child's life? Your mate's?

    And what about the doc's motto of "First, do no harm."?

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

  2. Quoted message said:

    Subject: When The Docs Killed Mrs. Hill
    From: [email hidden]
    Date: 1/11/04 6:46 PM Eastern Standard Time
    Message-id: <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    And what about the doc's motto of "First, do no harm."?

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

    Well...

    First do no harm to your reputation. This is "usual and customary care". If
    all the docs treat a disease they have diagnosed in the same manner, they are
    not liable for the failure of the treatment or the death of their patient.

    First do no harm to your practice. Charge the maximum the insurance companies
    allow and/or anyone on the hook to pay.

    First do no harm to your peers. MDs are not allowed to make mistakes and you
    cannot admitt to a mistake nor claim that another doc made a mistake. Termed
    the "code of silence.".

    First do no harm to your specialty. Never degrade or berate your medical
    education ( brainwashing or mis-education , whichever applies or both ). Keep
    your mouth shut.

    Just some of the do no harm mottos in use by the docs.

    DrC PhD

  3. <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    An Unacceptable Loss

    Many years ago, my Mom suddenly jumped me & said: "Do you remember Mrs.
    Hill? Your Sunday School teacher? She's dead." [Mom likes to deliver
    bad news, then stand there & snicker cruelly about it.]

    My former Sunday School teacher (one of the few nice people in the
    church), was dead. Now that was a major loss for me! [I think I was in
    my teens (?) at this time, & was still trapped at the farm with Mom.]

    After I asked questions for a while, I learned that Mrs. Hill had gone
    to the hospital with the flu, had been given a shot, & the shot had
    killed her.

    Whenever I got the chance, I'd ask why the doctors would give someone a
    shot, that would kill them. Nobody knew.

    Why didn't the docs give people just a tiny amount of medicine first, to
    see if they were allergic to it, ... or test them for allergies before
    giving shots & medicine? Nobody knew.

    Finally, I learned that the doctors have a standard treatment for an
    illness, such as a certain antibiotic, ... that most docs won't deviate
    from that, no matter what, ... & that docs refuse to take responsibility
    for bad results, for the deaths they cause.

    If the patient is allergic to the treatment, & is permanently
    injured/disabled or killed by it, ... then it's considered an
    "acceptable loss" by the docs. It's OK. [Heaven forbid that the
    doctors should actually do something logical or practical, when
    dispensing dangerous drugs.]

    While the doctors might have considered Mrs. Hill's death "an acceptable
    loss", & not cared about her, ... I did care. And it was Not OK with
    me, that they killed her.

    -----------

    What is considered "an acceptable loss" by doctors? Your life? Your
    child's life? Your mate's?

    And what about the doc's motto of "First, do no harm."?

    This person was sick enough to be admitted to hospital with the flu, which
    can be lethal to elderly Sunday School teachers . She may have already had
    secondary pneumonia for which antibiotics can be a life-saving treatment.
    And we have a third or fourth hand account of what actually happened. Yet
    the doctors "killed Mrs Hill"? Come on! Be reasonable.

    Peter Moran

  4. [email hidden] wrote in news:9997-4001E041-87@storefull-
    3192.bay.webtv.net:

    Quoted message said:

    An Unacceptable Loss

    Many years ago, my Mom suddenly jumped me & said: "Do you remember Mrs.
    Hill? Your Sunday School teacher? She's dead." [Mom likes to deliver
    bad news, then stand there & snicker cruelly about it.]

    The mother is/was a mentally ill person. Since we have now established that
    fact, the rest of the story is suspect AFAIC.

    r

    --
    Nothing beats the bandwidth of a station wagon filled with DLT tapes.

  5. Good Heavens, is this another one of Sweet Sue's stories? (And her
    mother jumped her & her church members weren't nice either).

    Maybe your SSchool teacher died from the flu,, period. People do do
    that you know. Happened to my grandfather at age 35, even without a
    "shot". But I'm sure you were at the hospital personally witnessing the
    event, though you don't even seem to be absolutely positive you were a
    teenager(?) at the time.

  6. Rich Andrews wrote:

    The mother is/was a mentally ill person. Since we have now established
    that fact, the rest of the story is suspect AFAIC.

    ==========

    Moral Disorders, Moral Illness

    My Mom chose to be morally ill, to have moral disorders (antisocial &
    narcissistic) & to enjoy them, ... to use them as her drug of choice,
    her addiction. She'd get "high" from planning to harm people, & then
    doing it, over & over.

    Many people seem to have varying degrees of this disorder. [For some
    reason, many people (with severe moral illness) seem obsessive about
    attending church, ... and about using this as their proof of being a
    good person, a "good Christian". ???]

    There's a huge difference between moral disorders & mental illness.

    ----------

    Mrs. Hill

    Since Mom wouldn't give me details about Mrs. Hill's death, I had to ask
    other people over & over, to learn what happened.

    Mrs. Hill was probably in her 40s or 50s, at the time she died.

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

    PS Mental Illness?

    So far, I don't know much about mental illness.

    Most of the people I met at the MHMR here in East Texas, while I was
    seeking abuse counselling, ... were in abuse, were very injured or
    physically ill, ... were morally ill, were violent criminals, ... were
    zonked-out on psych drugs, and/or always terrified these drugs would be
    suddenly cut-off (& they'd experience withdrawal again, alone), ... were
    alcoholics or street drug addicts (possibly in some stage of recovery),
    ... were obsessive/compulsive and/or addicted to something destructive
    (like gambling, bronc- or bull-riding at rodeos, sex, night-clubs), &
    the highs they got from it, ... or were suffering from stress disorders,
    due to the failed systems here (legal, medical, govt), & all the harm
    this does.

    Recently, I met a guy shopping in a grocery store here, who kept getting
    in my face & saying "Hi" over & over. Turns out, he's on Prozac. He
    obviously can't focus, relate, or work while on this drug. However,
    I've no way of knowing what he'd be like, if not on the drug, ... & I
    don't think he'd be into nutrition, supplements, & exercise as an
    alternative to medicine. So, I'm looking away.

  7. From: [email hidden]

    Good Heavens, is this another one of Sweet Sue's stories? (And her
    mother jumped her & her church members weren't nice either).

    Maybe your SSchool teacher died from the flu,, period. People do do that
    you know. Happened to my grandfather at age 35, even without a "shot".

    But I'm sure you were at the hospital personally witnessing the event,
    though you don't even seem to be absolutely positive you were a
    teenager(?) at the time.

    ==========

    Hi kathy,

    You seem to be very full of anger (hate & venom), ... the need to dump
    it on others (those seeking to learn about altmed, in order to help
    themselves), ... & the need to label others "liars".

    I spent a lot of time answering your questions, hoping for some help in
    learning about complimentary & alternative medicine, ... but you don't
    seem to know anything about that. You keep acting determinedly-dumb,
    ugly & abusive.

    You seem to be here, to verbally attack people, & to play the same bad &
    childish games over & over: "Liar liar, pants on fire." (yawn)

    Plus, you've misquoted me. I never said I was at the hospital when Mrs.
    Hill died, because I wasn't. And it's probably not unusual, to forget
    exactly the age you were, when the people you've met & known, died.

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

    PS Sorry to hear about your grandfather dying of the flu, so young.

    In a graveyard near here, there are lots of graves of children who died
    in 1917(?) or so, ... & some have the cutest stone angels, lambs, &
    stuff as tombstones.

    When I asked what had happened to these children, people said the flu or
    pneumonia-type stuff had took them that year.

    Back then, I don't think the docs had antibiotics. So, antibiotics were
    definitely a wonder drug, once discovered & put into use.

    My concern is, that the doctors aren't doing the testing necessary
    up-front, to see which drugs will benefit each patient, & which will
    disable or kill them. Many docs are giving the same standard treatments
    to patients, & are choosing not to care about those who sicken & die
    from the medicines, not the disease.

    I'm hoping for some positive changes.

  8. <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    After I asked questions for a while, I learned that Mrs. Hill had gone
    to the hospital with the flu, had been given a shot, & the shot had
    killed her.

    Is that a fact? Do you know for certain that the shot killed her, or is this
    just rumor that was going around after the event?

    Quoted message said:


    Whenever I got the chance, I'd ask why the doctors would give someone a
    shot, that would kill them. Nobody knew.

    Why didn't the docs give people just a tiny amount of medicine first, to
    see if they were allergic to it, ... or test them for allergies before
    giving shots & medicine? Nobody knew.

    "Are you allergic to any medications?" is one of the first questions asked
    in the initial assessment of every patient. We must rely on self-report of
    allergies, because individual allergy tests are neither effective nor
    practical. Also, be aware that in-hospital deaths from allergic reactions
    are very rare. Treatment for histamine reactions is quite effective. Almost
    all allergy death happen in the field where emergency treatment is
    unavailable.

    Quoted message said:


    Finally, I learned that the doctors have a standard treatment for an
    illness, such as a certain antibiotic, ... that most docs won't deviate
    from that, no matter what, ... & that docs refuse to take responsibility
    for bad results, for the deaths they cause.

    Nonsense. Medical practice is not nearly as cookbook as you imagine. Nor are
    doctors uncaring and irresponsible.

    Quoted message said:


    If the patient is allergic to the treatment, & is permanently
    injured/disabled or killed by it, ... then it's considered an
    "acceptable loss" by the docs. It's OK.

    No, it's neither acceptable nor "OK" when a patient dies from an allergic
    reaction. But you must learn the concept of "risk/benefit" to understand
    what is going on. If you have a pneumonia that is 95% likely to kill you if
    you don't get an antibiotic for it, wouldn't you be willing to take the
    antibiotic that has a 0.01% chance of causing an allergic reaction that in
    turn has a 2% chance of killing you? That is the choice that doctors and
    their patients make every day. The percentages change case-by-case, but the
    principles are the same. So after a doctor saves thousands of lives with his
    antibiotic, you want to villianize him as a killer when the roll of the dice
    comes up wrong that one time?

    Quoted message said:

    [Heaven forbid that the
    doctors should actually do something logical or practical, when
    dispensing dangerous drugs.]

    Read my last response. Do you consider it more logical and practical to NOT
    give life-saving medications?

    Quoted message said:


    While the doctors might have considered Mrs. Hill's death "an acceptable
    loss", & not cared about her, ... I did care. And it was Not OK with
    me, that they killed her.

    They did not kill her. She got a bad case of flu, and the doctors cared
    enough about her to take care of her. She died. You do not know the details
    of how that death happened, only rumors, and on the basis of only that you
    are ready to convict her doctors, and by extention, ALL doctors, of callous
    murder. Shame on you.

    Quoted message said:


    -----------

    What is considered "an acceptable loss" by doctors? Your life? Your
    child's life? Your mate's?

    And what about the doc's motto of "First, do no harm."?

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

    --Rich --> You are entitled to your own opinions, but not to your own
    facts.

  9. [email hidden] wrote in news:9998-4002D54D-74@storefull-
    3192.bay.webtv.net:

    Quoted message said:

    Rich Andrews wrote:

    The mother is/was a mentally ill person. Since we have now established
    that fact, the rest of the story is suspect AFAIC.

    ==========

    Moral Disorders, Moral Illness

    My Mom chose to be morally ill, to have moral disorders (antisocial &
    narcissistic) & to enjoy them, ... to use them as her drug of choice,
    her addiction. She'd get "high" from planning to harm people, & then
    doing it, over & over.

    Many people seem to have varying degrees of this disorder. [For some
    reason, many people (with severe moral illness) seem obsessive about
    attending church, ... and about using this as their proof of being a
    good person, a "good Christian". ???]

    There's a huge difference between moral disorders & mental illness.

    ----------

    Mrs. Hill

    Since Mom wouldn't give me details about Mrs. Hill's death, I had to ask
    other people over & over, to learn what happened.

    Mrs. Hill was probably in her 40s or 50s, at the time she died.

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

    PS Mental Illness?

    So far, I don't know much about mental illness.

    Most of the people I met at the MHMR here in East Texas, while I was
    seeking abuse counselling, ... were in abuse, were very injured or
    physically ill, ... were morally ill, were violent criminals, ... were
    zonked-out on psych drugs, and/or always terrified these drugs would be
    suddenly cut-off (& they'd experience withdrawal again, alone), ... were
    alcoholics or street drug addicts (possibly in some stage of recovery),
    .. were obsessive/compulsive and/or addicted to something destructive
    (like gambling, bronc- or bull-riding at rodeos, sex, night-clubs), &
    the highs they got from it, ... or were suffering from stress disorders,
    due to the failed systems here (legal, medical, govt), & all the harm
    this does.

    Recently, I met a guy shopping in a grocery store here, who kept getting
    in my face & saying "Hi" over & over. Turns out, he's on Prozac. He
    obviously can't focus, relate, or work while on this drug. However,
    I've no way of knowing what he'd be like, if not on the drug, ... & I
    don't think he'd be into nutrition, supplements, & exercise as an
    alternative to medicine. So, I'm looking away.

    Morals have nothing to do with it.

    A cruel, abusive person is sick mentally. If you choose to whitewash that
    fact just as Mom did, then you are just lying to yourself.

    I'll bet she beat animals too. I have never met or heard of a person who
    was *not* abusive to both animals and people.

    Morals are social issues, her's were behavorial. Anyone that relishes
    mental, ritualistic torture is sick.

    I am not going to suggest that her children seek counseling or anything
    like that. It is a waste of time.

    r

    --
    Nothing beats the bandwidth of a station wagon filled with DLT tapes.

  10. No I have a vey good memory for when things occurred, including year &
    time of year. And I'd certainly remember if I was a teenager or
    not...that's a pretty long time span.

    Sue, after making all that noise about that Smokey Mountain Testing Lab.
    why don't you spend your tiime more productively & contact them as you
    said you were going to do. Apparently they only deal with "alternative
    practioners" (8,000 of them) & surely you cn hook up with at least ONE
    of those 8,000 & finally make yourself happy.

  11. Rich Andrews wrote:

    Morals have nothing to do with it.
    A cruel, abusive person is sick mentally. If you choose to whitewash
    that fact just as Mom did, then you are just lying to yourself.
    I'll bet she beat animals too. I have never met or heard of a person who
    was *not* abusive to both animals and people.
    Morals are social issues, her's were behavorial. Anyone that relishes
    mental, ritualistic torture is sick.
    I am not going to suggest that her children seek counselling or anything
    like that. It is a waste of time.

    =============

    Yes, Mom tortured, abused, & killed animals.

    I agree that most counselors (esp. psychologists) aren't trained to "do
    squat". Most don't seem trained to do anything, but sit & listen
    (badly) & to give bad/harmful advice. Plus, most proved abusive also, &
    played bad games. A waste of time & money. And they also overly-push
    the bad psych drugs, to sicken & weaken their victims ... uh, clients.

    I've worked very hard to get information & explanations about abuse &
    abusers, & to learn better life-skills for dealing with them when they
    attack. And I'm trying to pass these skills on, partly via newsgroups
    on the internet, ... so that other people will have a better chance, for
    living a good life. Information is power.

    The thing that helped me most, in better understanding some people & the
    meanness they do, was the definition of evil: "What a person can't be,
    have, own, or control, they destroy," for no reason except to get "high"
    from it, to enjoy it, to have some "fun". That explained a lot.

    I don't agree with your ideas about mental illness.

    Mental illness suggests that someone has an physical brain-type illness,
    over which they have little or no control, & for which they're not fully
    responsible. They had no choice in acquiring the disease/disorder.

    Moral illness suggests that someone had choices, & that they repeatedly
    made the wrong ones, they made bad ones, ... for which they are fully
    responsible & accountable.

    My Mom is fully responsible & accountable for what she's done & is
    doing. There should be something in the legal system, to get people
    like her out of society, or to better control & punish them, but there
    isn't.

    If you label her as being mentally ill, then she can claim she's not
    responsible, ... which would present a legal problem. A Catch-22.

    Then, every criminal could claim mental illness, as their excuse &
    justification for all sadistic & criminal acts.

    Moral & Mental Illness are very different things. One is a choice. The
    other usually isn't.

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

  12. [email hidden]

    No I have a vey good memory for when things occurred, including year &
    time of year. And I'd certainly remember if I was a teenager or
    not...that's a pretty long time span.

    Su_Texas writes;

    I have a good memory for some things, but not for dates, months or
    years. At the farm, one day was pretty much like another, I had to
    focus mostly on surviving the abuse, & information was very limited
    and/or often wrong.

    ------------

    kathy wrote:

    Sue, after making all that noise about that Smokey Mountain Testing Lab.
    why don't you spend your tiime more productively & contact them as you
    said you were going to do. Apparently they only deal with "alternative
    practioners" (8,000 of them) & surely you cn hook up with at least ONE
    of those 8,000 & finally make yourself happy.

    Su_Texas writes:

    Fighting cancer is not a one-shot deal. The best I can tell so far, you
    need to approach it from many angles, & in many ways.

    It's a shame that the docs are mostly geered to pushing aromatase
    inhibitors for breast cancer, & won't help.

    So far, I can't find a doctor who does good blood-work (like gsdl), &
    who'll take insurance for it.

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

    PS I have a dental appt this afternoon, for which I'm already late.
    Bye.

  13. In article <[email hidden]>,

    Quoted message said:

    From: [email hidden]

    Good Heavens, is this another one of Sweet Sue's stories? (And her
    mother jumped her & her church members weren't nice either).

    Maybe your SSchool teacher died from the flu,, period. People do do that
    you know. Happened to my grandfather at age 35, even without a "shot".

    But I'm sure you were at the hospital personally witnessing the event,
    though you don't even seem to be absolutely positive you were a
    teenager(?) at the time.

    ==========

    Hi kathy,

    You seem to be very full of anger (hate & venom), ... the need to dump
    it on others (those seeking to learn about altmed, in order to help
    themselves), ... & the need to label others "liars".

    I didn't see the word "liar" in anything you quoted from Kathy, who so
    far seems to be a pretty even-tempered sort. You, on the other hand,
    seem to be quite angry.

    -- David Wright :: alphabeta at prodigy.net
    These are my opinions only, but they're almost always correct.
    "If I have not seen as far as others, it is because giants
    were standing on my shoulders." (Hal Abelson, MIT)

  14. David Wright wrote:

    I didn't see the word "liar" in anything you quoted from Kathy, who so
    far seems to be a pretty even-tempered sort. You, on the other hand,
    seem to be quite angry.

    ==========

    From past posts & this one, it was implied.

    On some levels, I'm very angry for the crimes & meanness that happen
    here in East Texas, & for the harm this has done to me & others, for the
    pain, suffering, & loss it's caused.

    I'm trying to channel this anger into positive things, into making
    positive changes, so that other people won't get harmed so badly.

    Susan, Su_Texas my opinions

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