Dang, that's a lot of cleaning Lee. I'm impressed.
Julie "Miss Violette" <[email hidden]> wrote in
message "]news:[email hidden]...
Quoted message said:Glad DD got there safe, storms were bad here as well.
Part of the reason I do it this way now is because I used
to freak if
every
Quoted message said:thread wasn't clean. I mean it was really an issue. I
finally figured
out
Quoted message said:that I could obsessive on perfect hanging/folding rather
than on ALL done and I get less overwhelmed and less
tired also. I now have as a goal that it will all be
done once a year after the annual linen run. I am
finding that obsessive behavior, cluttering behavior and
weight issues are
connected
Quoted message said:and have also found that when perfectionist tendencies are
thrown in it is difficult. I am learning very slowly that
if I improve a little at a time and don't fall back I do
fine. I have transferred the perfectionism to specific
things and this gives me something a little more healthy
to focus on. I thought long and hard about all of this, I
am probably borderline
in
Quoted message said:these areas but I am also terrified of medical situations
so refuse to go and find out. Once I realized action had
to be taken I read, and read,
and
Quoted message said:read... What I read, learned and decided has helped me to
improve in several areas.And just one thing more and I will quit rambling, I
haven't beaten the
over
Quoted message said:doing on the cleaning, I just scrubbed, by hand, half of
my 22.5 by 15 livingroom carpet with a small scrubbrush,
Lee, who earned 12 activity points today Joyce
<[email hidden]> wrote in message
"]news:[email hidden]...Quoted message said:Laundry and traveling is the pits, glad I don't travel
often. Guess
it's
Quoted message said:another
Quoted message said:one of those obsessive/compulsive things with me. I have
to have ALL
the
Quoted message said:laundry
Quoted message said:done before I can walk out the door - which usually
means pulling an all
nighterQuoted message said:to accomplish this feat. I pack garbage bags in the
suitcases - and all
dirtyQuoted message said:clothing is tossed in the garbage bags. Repacking to
come home, all
dirty
Quoted message said:clothes
Quoted message said:are combined into one or two suitcases (depends on how
many of us are
gone, andQuoted message said:for how long) and when we return home those cases are
taken directly to
theQuoted message said:basement. It sounds wierd, but it really does make my
life easier and
lessQuoted message said:complicated. And like you, I have to do all the dirty
clothing right
away
Quoted message said:when I
Quoted message said:get back home, so having to not chase everyone to get it
really does
help
Quoted message said:me.
Quoted message said:
This week-end's rampage was only due to getting daughter
out the door
for
Quoted message said:her
Quoted message said:spring trip to FL with a friends family. I've just
received two phone
calls fromQuoted message said:her ... just hung up now. 2:15 am and they finally have
reached their
hotel, gotQuoted message said:sorted into rooms after finding out their reservations
were messed up
and
Quoted message said:rooms
Quoted message said:too small ... this after being delayed for takeoff at
the airport for
over
Quoted message said:an hour
Quoted message said:(we had some nasty storms roll through late
afternoon/early evening).
The
Quoted message said:poor
Quoted message said:mom who has taken all these kids has got to be a basket
case right about
now.Quoted message said:
JoyceOn Mon, 29 Mar 2004 01:17:39 -0600, "Miss Violette"
<[email hidden]>Quoted message said:Quoted message said:OOOHHH, I only suggested this method as a way to not be
overwhelmed,
With
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:the two of us I do a huge amount of laundry but, I
change alot and so
doesQuoted message said:Quoted message said:DH, I also only use towels once so there is a great
deal of whites. We
haveQuoted message said:Quoted message said:all whites as I thought once I had it sorted correctly
and bleached a colored towel, DH had pink underwear for
a bit which did NOT make him
any
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:too happy. I figured that if they were all white we
wouldn't have that issue again. I actually have a
system where I do a load or so a day
but
Quoted message said:the
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:next one goes in as soon as it is ready and if we
travel the first
thing
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:after getting back and unpacked I do laundry until it
is totally
caught
Quoted message said:up.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Lee, who feels your pain Joyce <[email hidden]> wrote in
message
"]news:[email hidden]...
> I guess how you tackle the laundry depends on just
> how much you have
to
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:do. I
> will say that laundry for 4 people ... 2 of which are
> construction
workersQuoted message said:Quoted message said:who
> live to play in the mud (boy did they have fun this
> past week) and 1
is
Quoted message said:a
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:teenage
> girl (need I say more) ... is much different than
> doing laundry for 2
adults. If
> I did laundry one load at a time, start to finish
> before starting
anotherQuoted message said:Quoted message said:one, I
> would never even make a dent in the mountain. <g> I
> am a
self-professedQuoted message said:Quoted message said:laundry
> queen. There are days (hell, there are months) that I
> swear this is
all IQuoted message said:Quoted message said:do in
> life. This week has been one of those weeks.
> Yesterday I had to
push
Quoted message said:40
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:trips up
> and down the basement - everytime I thought I was
> done, more
mystically
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:appeared
> at the bottom of the stairs. The *boys* clothing had
> to go through
the
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:machine
> twice - and I'm still not sure all the mud is out.
> LOL
>
> I went out last year and bought three of those metal
> type laundry
sorters.Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Each
> one is divided into 3 sections ... and I have an
> additional single
hamperQuoted message said:Quoted message said:for
> towels. Our towels aren't the same color, but they're
> old enough
that
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:they can
> get tossed into the same loads anyway ... funny how
> after a few years
theyQuoted message said:Quoted message said:no
> longer run or shed. <G> Anyway, I sort laundry
> everyday - usually
when
Quoted message said:I
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:head
> down to the scale and/or treadmill. I start a load up
> before I hit
the
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:treadmill
> - whichever bin is the fullest. About 40 minutes
> later I'm done
walking,Quoted message said:Quoted message said:the load
> is ready to go into the dryer. If nothing else, at
> least one load of
washQuoted message said:Quoted message said:gets
> done each day - and it makes life a bit easier for me
> these days. I
didQuoted message said:Quoted message said:> officially no laundry at all today (YEAH!!!!!!) -
> tomorrow will be
dedicated to
> getting my mom's laundry done ... deliver to her on
> Tuesday or
Wednesday,Quoted message said:Quoted message said:just in
> time to pick up another batch. <sigh>
>
> Joyce
>
> On Sun, 28 Mar 2004 23:36:26 -0600, "Miss Violette"
<[email hidden]>
> wrote:
>
> >now I can help with the laundry, I got those
> >Rubbermaid buckets,
except aQuoted message said:Quoted message said:> >trash can for the whites, all towels are white. DH
> >sorted it for
me,
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:each
> >bucket has an assigned place. I do a load when there
> >is enough to
do.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:that
> >way it is never done but it never piles up. Also if
> >you are behind,
don't
> >try and do IT ALL today, do one load from presoak
> >and shout to hung
up
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:and
> >put away, don't start a second one until you have
> >the first one
done,
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:that
> >way you don't feel the pressure of things sitting in
> >the washer or
dryerQuoted message said:Quoted message said:and
> >ruining. I know this sounds counter productive but
> >it works. Now
onceQuoted message said:Quoted message said:you
> >get that first load in, sit down and do your grocery
> >list or your
menu.Quoted message said:Quoted message said:You
> >could also exercise while they are drying, [censored]!!!
> >time for you and
someQuoted message said:Quoted message said:> >laundry done, Lee, who doesn't mind laundry skiur
> ><[email hidden]> wrote in message news:qDmdnaHzxpSXCfrd3cwC-
> >[email hidden]...
> >> Thanks Alex.
> >>
> >> It's a pretty simple life-just me and dh and an
> >> apartment. It'll
be
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> >getting
> >> busier soon as we're looking for a house, but
> >> that's a bit
different.Quoted message said:Quoted message said:I'm
> >> bad at letting the chores go (I'd rather get them
> >> done), but it's
gotten
> >to
> >> the point where there are too many chores that
> >> have gone undone
and
Quoted message said:too
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> >much
> >> clutter that isn't going away. That's what bothers
> >> me the most.
> >>
> >> I'm not a fan of laundry and there is a pile of it
> >> waiting for me.
*sigh*
> >>
> >> Julie
> >>
> >> "Alex Robinson" <[email hidden]> wrote in
> >> message "]news:[email hidden]...
> >> > > On a different note-kinda. I find it so hard
> >> > > to focus on
myself
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:when
> >> > there
> >> > > is all this work around the house that needs
> >> > > to be
accomplished.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Does
> >> > > anyone have any suggestions?
> >> >
> >> > The simple fact is - you are just as important
> >> > as anything else
on
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:your
> >to
> >> > do list. I have no idea what you're life is like
> >> > so I can't
give
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> >specific
> >> > advice but you should devote some time to
> >> > yourself everyday. If
you're
> >> > really nervous about not having any time, just
> >> > devote 15
minutes.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:You
> >can
> >> > use this time to organize yourself for the rest
> >> > of the day (or
to
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> >prepare
> >> > for the next day), to take a walk with your
> >> > favorite music
(especially
> >if
> >> > you have a household that requires you to leave
> >> > to get some
peace),Quoted message said:Quoted message said:make
> >a
> >> > habit of going someplace for a cup of tea every
> >> > day and turn
your
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:cell
> >> phone
> >> > off.
> >> >
> >> > If you work outside of the home, you might want
> >> > to do this on
your
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:way
> >> > home - unwind from the demands of work and and
> >> > get your time to
yourself
> >> > before the demands of home attack you. If you
> >> > work inside the
homeQuoted message said:Quoted message said:> >maybe
> >> > you can exchange babysitting moments with your
> >> > neighbor where
you
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:each
> >> give
> >> > each other a half hour of babysitting time (one
> >> > right after the
other)
> >to
> >> > give you time to go for that walk. Not to
> >> > mention, if someone
elseQuoted message said:Quoted message said:is
> >> > involved, you will be held to a schedule,
> >> > accountable to someone
else.
> >> >
> >> > The better you are to yourself, the better you
> >> > can be to others.
YouQuoted message said:Quoted message said:> >> can't
> >> > offer others what you don't have. Those dishes
> >> > aren't going to
be
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:any
> >> > dirtier in a half hour and that report isn't
> >> > going to be any
less
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> >written
> >> if
> >> > you don't do it right this minute. But if you
> >> > take the time to
> >yourself,
> >> > you'll be able to do these things with much more
> >> > energy and
you'll
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:find
> >> you
> >> > don't actually need that 15 minutes you used for
> >> > your walk to
get
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:> >> something
> >> > else done.
> >> >
> >> > Alex
> >> >
> >> >
> >>
> >>
> >
>