Carla,
Thanks very much for sharing your opinion (I really mean that!) I know what
you mean about wearing more form-fitting outfits. I always get more
compliments from friends at work when I pull out the smaller clothes. And I
have been so excited to be able to shop in the 'smaller' section of the
store. The clothes I have gotten from friends and bought new are smaller
and, with the exception of the sweater, form fitting.
I guess my mindset is still in that transitional phase. I'm very
self-conscious about my fat 'rolls' (you know, the ones you get up top from
under your bra on the sides and back.) I know that they are at least not as
big as they were, if not gone altogether. That's always been a big issue
with me.
I am getting better about picking out clothing that looks good on me. Since
I have been 'fat' just about all of my life, some habits are really hard to
break.
Thanks again!
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Linda
296/199/160
LC since Oct. 13, 2003
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"carla" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Quoted message said:Lady o' the house said:Hi, all!
Well, had DH take my picture in my new outfit a couple of days ago
and I've finally uploaded them. Can't get them onto my site for some
reason, but here is the Webshots link to them.
http://community.webshots.com/user/mslewtoo
Lady, I have always enjoyed your pictures - especially the one on your
website that shows you sitting in the same chair in a "before" and
"during"
Quoted message said:shot.
What follows is just my opinion. I am very glad you like your new outfit,
but I don't think it does anything for you. It is time for you to stop
wearing bulky sweaters that hang down mid-thigh and hide your shape.
Women
Quoted message said:who have been fat are so used to hiding their bodies under circus tents,
that they don't always realize how much more flattering it is to wear
something that stops at the waist. Your shape came back a long time ago -
you might not yet have the figure you want, but I think you do have a
figure
Quoted message said:that will look much better if it is allowed to show.
One of the things I hate about having to buy clothes in the "women's"
section is that almost nothing there is waist length - everything hangs
down
Quoted message said:halfway to my knees, which really just makes me look fatter - even when I
was at my heaviest, my waist was considerably smaller than my hips. Now
it's even more dramatic. People notice my weight loss when I wear
something
Quoted message said:fitted - not when I wear something shaped like muu-muu.
I understand that a long, cozy sweater can be nice for warmth - but I
encourage you to get some shorter or fitted outfits too. You should show
off your tremendous progress! Quit hiding!
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carla
http://geekofalltrades.typepad.com/geek