I don't think it would be obligatory, more of a way to show respect. Oh
yeah, and not be a sponge. 🙂
I have a lot of responsibility, yes. Is it fair? I asked for
it. I am getting better at the pampering myself, I would
never have done anything for myself in the past but as my
child gets older, it gets easier. Plus I need the massage to
prevent headaches. The occasional pedicure is also something
I do that I do consider pampering. The massage is for
medical as well as ABT or acupuncture. So to some, I treat
myself very well. I just think I am doing what I need to do
to stay healthy.
I am a bit far, in PA. If I am in the area, I will let you
know.
What does 'moot point' mean?
T "Michael Baugh" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Quoted message said:Ya know, I get the notion that you have a problem with
being able to say "Attend to me. Treat me as the Queen I
am". Instead you speak of it as an obligatory trade, or
you would see yourself
as
Quoted message said:a parasite. A "sponge". Sounds like some issues that need
to be dealt
with.
Quoted message said:I'll bet you have more responsibility on your shoulders
than you think is fair, and that you have difficulty with
simply being pampered for its own sake. Takes quite a bit
of training to get past that. No need to tell me how close
I am. I've trained children and spouses in how to give and
receive safe and effective massage. And I do it for its
own sake. I...simply...enjoy...it. Some people run, some
people play golf, I do massage. Too bad I have to
find
Quoted message said:someone else to be a participant in my 'hobby', but it's
not difficult, especially when they know that the only
expectation on them is to let me know if anything makes
them feel uncomfortable in any way. But for you, it's
probably a moot point. I'm in Louisville, Kentucky.
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Quoted message said:Still waiting on the word from the OP. lol
I would definitely volunteer to receive the massage and
no way would I
think
Quoted message said:80 minutes was to long, as long as you are good! I had
some massage's
that
Quoted message said:I
Quoted message said:thought 30 minutes was to long. 🙂 Of course, I am not a
sponge so we
would
Quoted message said:have to trade. I enjoy sharing technique and getting
good feedback also.
So where the heck are you anyways? Probably a million
miles away, with
my
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:luck.
T "Michael Baugh" <[email hidden]> wrote in
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Quoted message said:But, Tiffany, how are we to know? Are you volunteering
to receive the massage? I'll bet I could convince
you
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:that 80 minutes is not too long. And no fair
expecting to
reciprocate.
Quoted message said:I
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:believe that 'tis more blessed to give than receive,
and I do so enjoy
doing
Quoted message said:massage on someone that knows what to expect and is
willing to give
good
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:feedback. Why, just head, face, scalp, and neck would
take more than 20 minutes.
Gotta
Quoted message said:get those feet and hands, and the parts that are
attached. Ready to
have
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:that tummy rubbed like it should be done? And all the
other places
that
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:call
Quoted message said:for attention, too. Hmm..I'm thinking shoulders and
right
shoulderblade
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:area.
Hydration breaks (intake and discharge) don't count
against that time.
C'mon, 'dwacon', tell us if you sleep on your stomach
or your side.
Either
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:way, Tiffany can 'collect' if she happens to live
near me.
Tiffany <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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> Bet a 80 minute massage he lies on his stomach. lol
>
> JK... unless you live near me.
>
> T "Michael Baugh" <[email hidden]> wrote in
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> > Bet the answer is "No", and that the poster is a
> > side-lying
sleeper,
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Quoted message said:with
> > knees bent.
> >
> > Tiffany <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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> > > Do you get stiff like that in the morning after
> > > a nights sleep?
> >
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