Sex Appeal And Preference

Carrera said:

Don't know whether this post will trigger interest or not but here goes:
I wanted to ask the guys what their ideal female would be and the girls the same question with regard to guys (if any ladies are brave enough to join in).
To give you all a clue as to what sex appeal and preferences is all about I'll share my own first. These are the factors I find most attractive in a female:
(1) Blond or dark hair is of no major concern.
(2) Nationality isn't really a factor either so I like Chinese, Japanese or black girls all for different reasons. European and American girls are also attractive.
(3) Intelligence is definitely a nice attribute so I like women who have something to say.
(4) Definitely I like ladies who have good legs or who wear tight jeans as in Spain. 😕
(5) For some reason American girls are very easy to date and very easy to read whether they like you or not, whereas Brit girls don't show how they feel so you're left guessing.
(6) Favourite Aussie girl has to be Kylie Minough but I also like Maria Sharapova and the Williams sisters are also sexy.
I'm really interested in what the ladies find attractive in guys and what they don't find attractive but I don't know whether any ladies will post.

You should have asked about sex appeal preferences and how they are changed and enhanced by alcohol.
But seriously I would add to the obvious I like a female that has athletic ability and is driven but not necessarily an athlete or obsessive.Good hygiene is also a plus. Non Smoker.
Intelligent enough to earn her keep and loyalty is absolutely necessary.

Someone once asked me why I didn't date ugly girls and that their personality was better.
I replied "there are just so many, how will I ever chose". I'll stick to the cuties.

Well, you're the first to respond but any thoughts on nationality? Do you just date western American girls or do you like Oriental females, for example. Myself I kind of find all these Chinese ladies who come over here very sexy indeed and they're not as skinny as I imagined. Some Chinese girls have very full figures.

jhuskey said:

You should have asked about sex appeal preferences and how they are changed and enhanced by alcohol.
But seriously I would add to the obvious I like a female that has athletic ability and is driven but not necessarily an athlete or obsessive.Good hygiene is also a plus. Non Smoker.
Intelligent enough to earn her keep and loyalty is absolutely necessary.

Someone once asked me why I didn't date ugly girls and that their personality was better.
I replied "there are just so many, how will I ever chose". I'll stick to the cuties.

Carrera said:

Well, you're the first to respond but any thoughts on nationality? Do you just date western American girls or do you like Oriental females, for example. Myself I kind of find all these Chinese ladies who come over here very sexy indeed and they're not as skinny as I imagined. Some Chinese girls have very full figures.

Well I will need to respond in the past tense but I have dated one young lady from Thailand and one Japanese girl.
Neither were serious but I wasn't old enough to be serious then. I, at one time demanded girls to be skinny but have broaded my taste over the years(no pun intended).
I still like to see ladies that are well toned but they do not have to be skin and bones.
I suppose I do like them to be at least a little shorter than me and as I said I like them to be financially stable and I like to believe I wouldn't mind if my wife made more money that me but I imagine that could make a fellow insecure if it were a lot more money.
I would say overall I prefer western girls...at least that is what I have grown use to over the years. Supply has a lot to do with it ,I guess.
We need to Gil from down under to respond to this thread. He is well traveled and will have an opinion I'm sure.
The sun will be coming up in Sydney a few hours.

As long as they are dirty, I could care less!😄

Short cropped spikey hair, blond or brunette, muscle definition in the legs and abs that clearly show striations (lines of definition between each muscle group). Very healthy lifestyle, however, not afraid to guzzle beer at a BBQ. College educated, street smarts, a balanced drive to succede in the professional world as well as be dedicated as a mother. But most importantly open to having 3somes.... 😄

That is the ideal woman and since she does not exist I will just settle for dirty and sleezy and willing to have sex in public places!!! 😄 😄

Carrera said:

(1) Blond or dark hair is of no major concern.
(2) Nationality isn't really a factor either so I like Chinese, Japanese or black girls all for different reasons. European and American girls are also attractive.
(3) Intelligence is definitely a nice attribute so I like women who have something to say.
(4) Definitely I like ladies who have good legs or who wear tight jeans as in Spain. 😕
(5) For some reason American girls are very easy to date and very easy to read whether they like you or not, whereas Brit girls don't show how they feel so you're left guessing.
(6) Favourite Aussie girl has to be Kylie Minough but I also like Maria Sharapova and the Williams sisters are also sexy.

Using the original list... I prefer dark haird women... I share your view on nationality, intelligence and the favourite Australian. I do like good legs... I can't comment on number 5, but I agree that the British girls can be a bit cagy... My main memory of any girl is the mouth... and I look at eyes as a secondary consideration. I like a petite girl...

As it is, I married a light haired, intelligent girl of mixed heritage (British/Polish) who is taller than me... she has legs to die for... at least when she does some exercise... She has a gorgeous mouth, a thousand faces and is a great mum.

As regards other contributions... the earning bit doesn't bother me... When she was earning twice my income I didn't care... I liked the idea of being a kept man. Pity she gave it up!!! I have to do more work which means less cycling which means a bigger girth... etc...

When window shopping, my main eye turners are fairly petite, dark haired and with memorable smiles.

Sounds like Rachel Mclish might be your type. Check out the photo. 🙂

jaguar75 said:

Short cropped spikey hair, blond or brunette, muscle definition in the legs and abs that clearly show striations (lines of definition between each muscle group). Very healthy lifestyle, however, not afraid to guzzle beer at a BBQ. College educated, street smarts, a balanced drive to succede in the professional world as well as be dedicated as a mother. But most importantly open to having 3somes.... 😄

That is the ideal woman and since she does not exist I will just settle for dirty and sleezy and willing to have sex in public places!!! 😄 😄

Carrera said:

Sounds like Rachel Mclish might be your type. Check out the photo. 🙂

Ouch... gimme Kylie or Nel McAndrew...

jhuskey said:

Well I will need to respond in the past tense but I have dated one young lady from Thailand and one Japanese girl.
Neither were serious but I wasn't old enough to be serious then. I, at one time demanded girls to be skinny but have broaded my taste over the years(no pun intended).
I still like to see ladies that are well toned but they do not have to be skin and bones.
I suppose I do like them to be at least a little shorter than me and as I said I like them to be financially stable and I like to believe I wouldn't mind if my wife made more money that me but I imagine that could make a fellow insecure if it were a lot more money.
I would say overall I prefer western girls...at least that is what I have grown use to over the years. Supply has a lot to do with it ,I guess.
We need to Gil from down under to respond to this thread. He is well traveled and will have an opinion I'm sure.
The sun will be coming up in Sydney a few hours.

Huskey,

Yawn, stretch......What the f...?

Doesn't personality count with you blokes? A good healthy libido washes away many of these superficial things for starters.

I have to say all woman are beautiful, however the crowning glory is personality of which libido is an important facit, closely followed by wealth.

Unfortunately, wealth and libido seem also to go along with intelligence, which means that often to enjoy the advantages of these attributes you have to be prepared to have a woman whom can often out smart you.

This postulate seems to hold true regardless of race, colour or creed.

Kind regards,

James Bruce Gil said:

Huskey,

Yawn, stretch......What the f...?

Doesn't personality count with you blokes? A good healthy libido washes away many of these superficial things for starters.

I have to say all woman are beautiful, however the crowning glory is personality of which libido is an important facit, closely followed by wealth.

Unfortunately, wealth and libido seem also to go along with intelligence, which means that often to enjoy the advantages of these attributes you have to be prepared to have a woman whom can often out smart you.

This postulate seems to hold true regardless of race, colour or creed.

Kind regards,

Well at the risk of catching hell! I like a woman who has lived or seems to have lived previous lives.
They have depth to them and are not superficial and have that undefinable something that adds a touch of mystery.
Of course a beautiful set of eyes helps break the ice.

jhuskey said:

Well at the risk of catching hell! I like a woman who has lived or seems to have lived previous lives.
They have depth to them and are not superficial and have that undefinable something that adds a touch of mystery.
Of course a beautiful set of eyes helps break the ice.

Huskey,

Beautiful eyes are a plus when you first meet them, but the problem is most woman seem to shut them when your making love.

I've often wondered about this. Whats the advantage of beautiful eyes, when you can't see them in the dark and if you make love during the day, they are shut at the critical times?

Kind regards,

James Bruce Gil said:

Huskey,

Beautiful eyes are a plus when you first meet them, but the problem is most woman seem to shut them when your making love.

I've often wondered about this. Whats the advantage of beautiful eyes, when you can't see them in the dark and if you make love during the day, they are shut at the critical times?

Kind regards,

And the down side of that would be what? The key term you use is making love so........I can deal with it.
I actually need more "shut eye" and always have. I am not talking about sleep.

jhuskey said:

And the down side of that would be what? The key term you use is making love so........I can deal with it.
I actually need more "shut eye" and always have. I am not talking about sleep.

Huskey,

This comes pack to that vital part of personality that I spoke of earlier. You don't get a lot of that special "shut eye" stuff without it!!

Kind regards,

Carrera said:

Don't know whether this post will trigger interest or not but here goes:
I wanted to ask the guys what their ideal female would be and the girls the same question with regard to guys (if any ladies are brave enough to join in).
To give you all a clue as to what sex appeal and preferences is all about I'll share my own first. These are the factors I find most attractive in a female:
(1) Blond or dark hair is of no major concern.
(2) Nationality isn't really a factor either so I like Chinese, Japanese or black girls all for different reasons. European and American girls are also attractive.
(3) Intelligence is definitely a nice attribute so I like women who have something to say.
(4) Definitely I like ladies who have good legs or who wear tight jeans as in Spain. 😕
(5) For some reason American girls are very easy to date and very easy to read whether they like you or not, whereas Brit girls don't show how they feel so you're left guessing.
(6) Favourite Aussie girl has to be Kylie Minough but I also like Maria Sharapova and the Williams sisters are also sexy.
I'm really interested in what the ladies find attractive in guys and what they don't find attractive but I don't know whether any ladies will post.

Well, I have been thinking of this question and I have to say that I have found my perfect woman.

She is very pretty, slim petite long dark hair, dark eyes and fair complexion.

She has a beautiful oriental look, her mother is half Chinese and half Filipino, her father is from pure Spanish stock in northern Spain. It makes for an exciting and very attractive mix. It makes my daughter Scots, Irish, Filipino, Chinese and Spanish...she is a little 2 year old cutie.

She has an engineering degree (like me) she is a great mother and is generous, loyal, loving and passionate. She has great legs and likes to show them off and a stunning smile. When I met her I was smitten instantly.

Married 5 and a half years.

I am very lucky.

I have always preferred dark haired girls, the nationality doesnt bother me in the least. I like white girls, asian but for some reason i am not attracted to black women. Its not a racist thing, i am just not attracted, cant think why.

Black girls I find very sexy but, then again, I find all good-looking women sexy. As I say, Chinese girls surprised me as I always thought of them as being very small and skinny but actually they do have good bodies. They also have nice cheeks (facial I should add) and features.
For some reason, both of my girlfriends were catholics and I don't know why that should be as I don't attend any churches.
I confess too that I'm a sucker for legs. Once I was crossing a busy main road and a girl walked past in a miniskirt. I cast an admiring glance as I crossed the road and winded up being knocked over by a car, straight over the bonnet but no broken bones. Of course, I was a lot younger then.

MountainPro said:

Well, I have been thinking of this question and I have to say that I have found my perfect woman.

She is very pretty, slim petite long dark hair, dark eyes and fair complexion.

She has a beautiful oriental look, her mother is half Chinese and half Filipino, her father is from pure Spanish stock in northern Spain. It makes for an exciting and very attractive mix. It makes my daughter Scots, Irish, Filipino, Chinese and Spanish...she is a little 2 year old cutie.

She has an engineering degree (like me) she is a great mother and is generous, loyal, loving and passionate. She has great legs and likes to show them off and a stunning smile. When I met her I was smitten instantly.

Married 5 and a half years.

I am very lucky.

I have always preferred dark haired girls, the nationality doesnt bother me in the least. I like white girls, asian but for some reason i am not attracted to black women. Its not a racist thing, i am just not attracted, cant think why.

Carrera said:

Sounds like Rachel Mclish might be your type. Check out the photo. 🙂

Very beautiful woman...Hair needs to be much shorter and even though they are fun to play with, I am not to fond of implants that look like they will pop at the slightest touch. Other than that the muscle definition is very nice.

Thanks for the photo!!!

Lisa Lyon was the first female bodybuilder who was apparently drug free and had a near perfect physique. She may be something like what many guys might aspire to and here is one of her pics from around the seventies. :p

jaguar75 said:

Very beautiful woman...Hair needs to be much shorter and even though they are fun to play with, I am not to fond of implants that look like they will pop at the slightest touch. Other than that the muscle definition is very nice.

Thanks for the photo!!!

Carrera said:

Lisa Lyon was the first female bodybuilder who was apparently drug free and had a near perfect physique. She may be something like what many guys might aspire to and here is one of her pics from around the seventies. :p

Well, well, well,

Having two engineeering degrees myself, I would have to say it might be a little too much for me to have another one in bed with me. I can imagine it would be quite stimulating discussing Eulers' model of buckling columns as part of the warm up, but then at that time of events excessive deflection is last thing we would be thinking about! What do you think Huskey?

As I said before all woman are beautiful. I came to realise this many years ago in the middle east. Much as we enjoy to get that first glimpse of a naked body here in the west, they get the same rush when they get a glimpse of a face!! When I first went there I thought they all had Zaccarie disease, but after a while they looked loverly when you first got the veil off.

Kind regards,

James Bruce Gil said:

Well, well, well,

Having two engineeering degrees myself, I would have to say it might be a little too much for me to have another one in bed with me. I can imagine it would be quite stimulating discussing Eulers' model of buckling columns as part of the warm up, but then at that time of events excessive deflection is last thing we would be thinking about! What do you think Huskey?

As I said before all woman are beautiful. I came to realise this many years ago in the middle east. Much as we enjoy to get that first glimpse of a naked body here in the west, they get the same rush when they get a glimpse of a face!! When I first went there I thought they all had Zaccarie disease, but after a while they looked loverly when you first got the veil off.

Kind regards,

I found myself in a discussion today where a young lady comment she was getting older and complaining.She stated that men just get distinguished as they age and I replied that men were expected to be sucessful financially as they aged.
She argued that she knew wealthy men that were a-hole and I replied that I knew beautiful women that had no personality and lack of intelligence.
I think it balances either way.
There are truly physically beautiful women that are ugly!
Of course you can throw a sock in their mouth and do what comes natural.
You don't need marry them, "yes I love you tonight"!