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  1. A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking. I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often. She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money. Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    So, any suggestions? Brooks and the like are out, this entire project
    is on a super tight budget. Still, I have a feeling she'll be saddle
    shopping within a couple weeks, so if I can have a little knowledge
    for when she starts asking that'd be grand.

    Thanks,

    Dan

  2. Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking. I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often. She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money. Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    So, any suggestions? Brooks and the like are out, this entire project
    is on a super tight budget. Still, I have a feeling she'll be saddle
    shopping within a couple weeks, so if I can have a little knowledge
    for when she starts asking that'd be grand.

    Don't assume from reviews that a saddle is bad, especially from a review of
    a bike. Saddle comfort can be greatly affected by the relative position of
    the handlebars, *minor* changes in the tilt of the saddle, and what someone
    is wearing. And the same saddle reviewed on a cheaper bike might get much
    less favorable reviews than when it's on a more-expensive model, because
    people are giving it the "thumb test" and if it feels soft to their thumb
    they think GREAT! not realizing that means it's going to sag in the middle
    when they sit on it, causing the front end to essentially rise up and cause
    issues.

    Having said all that, the go-to saddle for women with issues remains the
    Terry Butterfly. But here's the thing. Don't change the saddle right off,
    even if you want to. She'll perceive the Terry saddle as being even
    more-better if she's comparing it to something she doesn't like (the stock
    seat).

    --Mike-- Chain Reaction Bicycles
    www.ChainReactionBicycles.com

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    Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking. I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often. She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money. Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    So, any suggestions? Brooks and the like are out, this entire project
    is on a super tight budget. Still, I have a feeling she'll be saddle
    shopping within a couple weeks, so if I can have a little knowledge
    for when she starts asking that'd be grand.

    Thanks,

    Dan

  3. Mike Jacoubowsky said:
    Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking.  I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often.  She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    Quoted message said:

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money.  Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    Quoted message said:

    So, any suggestions?  Brooks and the like are out, this entire project
    is on a super tight budget.  Still, I have a feeling she'll be saddle
    shopping within a couple weeks, so if I can have a little knowledge
    for when she starts asking that'd be grand.

    Don't assume from reviews that a saddle is bad, especially from a review of
    a bike. Saddle comfort can be greatly affected by the relative position of
    the handlebars, *minor* changes in the tilt of the saddle, and what someone
    is wearing. And the same saddle reviewed on a cheaper bike might get much
    less favorable reviews than when it's on a more-expensive model, because
    people are giving it the "thumb test" and if it feels soft to their thumb
    they think GREAT! not realizing that means it's going to sag in the middle
    when they sit on it, causing the front end to essentially rise up and cause
    issues.

    Having said all that, the go-to saddle for women with issues remains the
    Terry Butterfly. But here's the thing. Don't change the saddle right off,
    even if you want to. She'll perceive the Terry saddle as being even
    more-better if she's comparing it to something she doesn't like (the stock
    seat).

    --Mike--     Chain Reaction Bicycleswww.ChainReactionBicycles.com

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    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking.  I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often.  She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    Quoted message said:

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money.  Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    Quoted message said:

    So, any suggestions?  Brooks and the like are out, this entire project
    is on a super tight budget.  Still, I have a feeling she'll be saddle
    shopping within a couple weeks, so if I can have a little knowledge
    for when she starts asking that'd be grand.

    Quoted message said:

    Thanks,

    Quoted message said:

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    Thanks Mike. I think one of my fellow patrollers rides with one of
    those, the name certainly rings a bell.

    I for sure won't encourage her to change it right off. Personally, I
    have been able to get used to every saddle that's come on any bike
    I've owned. She's a touch cookie, she may just get used to it. I
    just wanted to have an idea what to say if it comes up, since she's
    already mentioned it and isn't even picking up the bike until
    tomorrow. Good call on the adjustments, I'll make sure plenty of time
    is spent on that before any money is spent.

  4. Quoted post said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking. I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often. She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money. Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    WTB Speed V She is a good basic shape and pretty affordable, running
    around $40. It's a bit overly squishy for some tastes, but for mtbing,
    where you stand a lot, that shouldn't matter.

  5. landotter said:
    Quoted post said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking.  I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often.  She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    Quoted message said:

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money.  Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    WTB Speed V She is a good basic shape and pretty affordable, running
    around $40. It's a bit overly squishy for some tastes, but for mtbing,
    where you stand a lot, that shouldn't matter.

    My sister-in-law's sister got one of those a couple of years back, and
    liked it quite a bit. Her husband is about the same height, and
    they'll often share bikes, and he liked it too, and got one for his
    own bike. He's confident enough in his masculinity to not be put off
    by the "Speed She" label.

    I'm still riding Brooks on all of my bikes. 🙂

  6. Hank said:
    landotter said:

    On Feb 6, 10:20 am, "[email hidden]" <[email hidden]> wrote:

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking.  I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often.  She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money.  Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle..
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    Quoted message said:

    WTB Speed V She is a good basic shape and pretty affordable, running
    around $40. It's a bit overly squishy for some tastes, but for mtbing,
    where you stand a lot, that shouldn't matter.

    My sister-in-law's sister got one of those a couple of years back, and
    liked it quite a bit. Her husband is about the same height, and
    they'll often share bikes, and he liked it  too, and got one for his
    own bike. He's confident enough in his masculinity to not be put off
    by the "Speed She" label.

    I'm still riding Brooks on all of my bikes. 🙂- Hide quoted text -

    - Show quoted text -

    Cool, now we've got 2 possibilities for if it needs to be changed.
    Thanks again.

  7. Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking. I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often. She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money. Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    So, any suggestions? Brooks and the like are out, this entire project
    is on a super tight budget. Still, I have a feeling she'll be saddle
    shopping within a couple weeks, so if I can have a little knowledge
    for when she starts asking that'd be grand.

    ANY saddle is going to be tortuous to a new rider. Let her ride this bike a
    while -- adjusting things like saddle height, tilt and fore-aft position; as
    well as handlebar orientation (stem length, stack height, etc.) -- and if
    she takes to mountain biking, then she can search out the "right" saddle
    herself.

    If you have a Performance store nearby, they will accept returns on saddles,
    so she can try a few until happy. She might even LIKE this initial saddle,
    by the way; people have a way of adjusting to what they're given.

    Hope it works out for the two of you! (In a strictly cycling sense, of
    course ;-)

    BS (no, really)

  8. Bill Sornson said:
    Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking.  I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often.  She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    Quoted message said:

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money.  Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    Quoted message said:

    So, any suggestions?  Brooks and the like are out, this entire project
    is on a super tight budget.  Still, I have a feeling she'll be saddle
    shopping within a couple weeks, so if I can have a little knowledge
    for when she starts asking that'd be grand.

    ANY saddle is going to be tortuous to a new rider.  Let her ride this bike a
    while -- adjusting things like saddle height, tilt and fore-aft position; as
    well as handlebar orientation (stem length, stack height, etc.) --

    I forget about things like this. I do not believe I have gone a
    single month without riding a bike since I was a child, probably 8-10
    years old. It makes sense that someone who has not been on a bike
    since they were a kid is going to have some conditioning and getting
    used to to do - she probably won't be as comfortable even on "the
    right saddle" as someone else who has the same "right saddle" but has
    been riding for years. Thanks for pointing this out. I'm going to
    have to do my homework on adjustment, to this day saddle adjustment to
    me isn't much more than a 3 step process.
    1) Set to "that looks right"
    2) Ride for a while. If any issues arise, re-examine and make
    adjustment
    3) Ride.
    I have seen threads & articles about doing the 1/2mm adjustments on
    and on forever, but never found it necessary. Up until a few years
    back I was riding BMX on BMX saddles, and the extent of adjustment was
    hitting it with something to readjust from the last crash - sorta
    close was always close enough.

    Quoted message said:

    and if
    she takes to mountain biking, then she can search out the "right" saddle
    herself.

    She will be finding the right saddle herself if and when the time
    comes, I just know I'll be the default person she goes to with
    questions if she starts that search.

    Quoted message said:

    If you have a Performance store nearby, they will accept returns on saddles,
    so she can try a few until happy.  She might even LIKE this initial saddle,
    by the way; people have a way of adjusting to what they're given.

    No performances even kinda close. We do have REI, which may do the
    same thing for her. I don't think my LBS would, although she might be
    able to sweet talk them into a day trial. The initial plan will be to
    try to get her to grow into the original saddle with proper
    adjustments, and direct her to this thread if she wants something
    better down the road. I already feel as though I'm a little more
    qualified for the conversation when it comes.

    Quoted message said:

    Hope it works out for the two of you!  (In a strictly cycling sense, of
    course ;-)

    Can't slide that wink by me! I appreciate your good thoughts, but
    this is one of those instances where it truly is just about
    friendship, riding bikes and spending time with childhood friends. To
    say I'm not her type would be an understatement.

  9. Quoted post said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking.  I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often.  She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money.  Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    Are you saying she hasn't actually ridden this bike yet? If so, I
    wouldn't jump to conclusions. Maybe her past "saddle problems" were
    due to improper bike fit or setup. It's also good to get out of the
    saddle once in a while when riding.

    Art Harris

  10. Art Harris said:
    Quoted post said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking.  I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often.  She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    Quoted message said:

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money.  Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    Are you saying she hasn't actually ridden this bike yet? If so, I
    wouldn't jump to conclusions. Maybe her past "saddle problems" were
    due to improper bike fit or setup. It's also good to get out of the
    saddle once in a while when riding.

    Art Harris

    Correct, she has not ridden the bike. I'm not writing this saddle off
    altogether, just getting knowledge about saddles and saddle setup to
    be prepared when/if it comes up. There's no question her previous
    bikes all sucked, this one has a MSRP of like $600ish new and will be
    a whole new category of bike for her.

    I'll be her primary riding partner, and she wants to ride the trails I
    do. She'll be out of the sattle a whole lot more than once in a while.

  11. Quoted post said:
    Art Harris said:
    Quoted post said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking. I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often. She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money. Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    Quoted message said:

    Are you saying she hasn't actually ridden this bike yet? If so, I
    wouldn't jump to conclusions. Maybe her past "saddle problems" were
    due to improper bike fit or setup. It's also good to get out of the
    saddle once in a while when riding.

    Quoted message said:

    Art Harris

    Correct, she has not ridden the bike. I'm not writing this saddle off
    altogether, just getting knowledge about saddles and saddle setup to
    be prepared when/if it comes up. There's no question her previous
    bikes all sucked, this one has a MSRP of like $600ish new and will be
    a whole new category of bike for her.

    If it doesn't come with a women's specific saddle she'll probably be
    happiest with it being replaced right away. But she might as well test
    ride it and see. A lot of bikes come with OEM saddles made by Velo
    these days, and they make very comfortable basic saddles.

  12. I am just not understanding why you feel that choosing the right
    saddle for her is YOUR responsibility? And she hasn't even ridden the
    bike yet? Aren't you putting the cart a little in front of the
    horse? Let her choose HER OWN saddle. Otherwise she will never
    assume ownership of the decision. And you think that helping a woman
    with her bike is going to allow you to "hang out [together] more
    often"? Nope, sorry, it doesn't work that way! And you're NOT going
    to have any fun riding with this woman because she's completely out of
    shape. You will get bored as hell riding slowly enough to stay with
    her, and she will get angry and resentful because you are faster than
    she is. If you want to be honest about it, basing your relationship
    on cycling is more likely to cause disagreements between you than it
    is to improve your friendship. Let's face it, chances are that she
    will stop riding completely when she finds out how out of shape she
    is, and how hard it is going to be to get in shape. Most people are
    afraid of "hurting" while they get in shape, and I'll bet she is one
    of those. Find another woman with whom you have more in common, and
    not necessarily cycling, because women are notorious for changing
    their interests weekly! She'll be interested in mountain biking this
    week, and something entirely different next week. Don't be afraid to
    remain single; don't be so "needy" for a relationship; and let the
    women seek YOU out if they are interested in you. The only kind of
    woman you're going to please with your present attitude is the kind
    who wants to make you do everything for her, but since women like that
    will never admit their own helplessness, they will never show you any
    appreciation for what you do. You don't want that.

    Been there, done that, and didn't even get a tee shirt. Listen to the
    voice of experience.

  13. [email hidden] wrote:
    ....

    Quoted message said:


    Been there, done that, and didn't even get a tee shirt. Listen to the
    voice of experience.

    Boy, are YOU making a lot of assumptions about what the OP thinks, based
    on no evidence / information at all....
    --
    Rob Lindauer - Please change "att" to "sbc" for my real email address

  14. <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking. I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often. She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    i suggest taht she just use what she has for awhile--when she begins to
    grock saddles then ask other female riders you come across and ask questions

    hth

    peter

  15. Sorry, Rob, but the young guys need advice from us old farts who have
    been around the block a few times, and I don't mean ONLY on a bike!

    Because our modern society is extremely matriarchal and misanthropic,
    young men tend to get brainwashed by the womens' lib political
    correctness and live out their lives being directed by it, rather than
    "marching to the beat of their own drummer" instead, and in doing so,
    discovering themselves.

    In addition, as we all know there is a lot of family and peer-group
    pressure on young men to get into a relationship with a woman. But
    the divorce rate is HUGE, and all of the married men I know are
    extremely unhappy and depressed (if you can get them to drop the
    "happily married" facade and really be honest) because women just
    don't seem to be able to stop themselves from being domineering. All
    their new power has totally gone to their heads; they delude
    themselves into thinking that they can do anything a man can do, even
    though they can't; and since they've tricked themselves into thinking
    that a man's skills are easy, they will never give a man the respect
    he deserves for using his skills. If men start realizing that they
    are NOT going to make themselves happy by marrying or shacking up,
    then they will start thinking more about how to be happily single.

    I didn't make any unwarranted assumptions. As I said, I've been there
    and done that, several times over, and I KNOW whereof I speak. If you
    think I have a big agenda, then you are simply refusing to face
    reality. Have a nice day.

  16. Quoted message said:

    I am just not understanding why you feel that choosing the right
    saddle for her is YOUR responsibility? And she hasn't even ridden the
    bike yet? Aren't you putting the cart a little in front of the
    horse?

    I don't feel it is my responsibility at all. However, being the
    default "bike guy" amongst all my friends, whenever she has a question
    I get an email. Whenever ANY of my friends (outside of friends I made
    cycling) have a bike question, I am the default. When my PARENTS
    friends have bike questions, my phone rings.

    When she read that the worst complaint about this particular bike was
    an uncomfortable saddle, she mentioned that the saddle was a comfort
    issue for her years ago as a kid. I have no experience in woman's
    saddles. I enjoy being knowledgeable about bikes. Cart in front of
    the horse? Hardly.

    Quoted message said:

    Let her choose HER OWN saddle. Otherwise she will never
    assume ownership of the decision.

    She's a successful adult, firefighter and EMT. I have no concerns in
    her ability to assume ownership of her decisions, she appears to do it
    quite well, and has since she was a kid.

    Quoted message said:

    And you think that helping a woman
    with her bike is going to allow you to "hang out [together] more
    often"? Nope, sorry, it doesn't work that way!

    Actually, as adult friends get older, life, family, mortgages, etc.
    all start to get in the way of old fashioned "hanging out". Having a
    common hobby seriously adds to the hang out time. I just started
    climbing at the rock gym with my best friend, and guess what, we spend
    more time together because of it.

    Quoted message said:

    And you're NOT going
    to have any fun riding with this woman because she's completely out of
    shape. You will get bored as hell riding slowly enough to stay with
    her, and she will get angry and resentful because you are faster than
    she is.

    Out of shape? Jumping jesus on a pogo stick, where do you come up
    with this [censored]? I said she doesn't ride, that's it. I didn't say a
    word about the gym, field hockey, soccer, or running in and out of
    burning buildings. She's in better shape than I am.

    Quoted message said:

    If you want to be honest about it, basing your relationship
    on cycling is more likely to cause disagreements between you than it
    is to improve your friendship.

    How about basing our relationship on the fact that we've been good
    friends since we were 10 and grew up just down the street from each
    other? We actually enjoy challenges and ribbing between each other,
    and have since we were playing football in our front yards as kids.
    Does that have your approval, oh wise and mighty old-fart?

    Quoted message said:

    Let's face it, chances are that she
    will stop riding completely when she finds out how out of shape she
    is, and how hard it is going to be to get in shape. Most people are
    afraid of "hurting" while they get in shape, and I'll bet she is one
    of those. Find another woman with whom you have more in common, and
    not necessarily cycling, because women are notorious for changing
    their interests weekly! She'll be interested in mountain biking this
    week, and something entirely different next week. Don't be afraid to
    remain single; don't be so "needy" for a relationship; and let the
    women seek YOU out if they are interested in you. The only kind of
    woman you're going to please with your present attitude is the kind
    who wants to make you do everything for her, but since women like that
    will never admit their own helplessness, they will never show you any
    appreciation for what you do. You don't want that.

    Again, I HAVE NO ROMANTIC INTEREST HERE. What makes you think I'm
    single? What makes you think she's single? What make s you think I
    like woman? What makes you think she likes men? What makes you think
    I'm looking for a relationship? I'm afraid you're projecting your own
    insecurities and failures onto the wrong canvas, I'm just helping a
    friend get a bike fer chrystsakes.

    Quoted message said:

    Been there, done that, and didn't even get a tee shirt. Listen to the
    voice of experience.

    I am. The ones with relevant experience, which appears to be everyone
    but you in this thread.

  17. Quoted message said:

    Sorry, Rob, but the young guys need advice from us old farts who have
    been around the block a few times, and I don't mean ONLY on a bike!

    Because our modern society is extremely matriarchal and misanthropic,
    young men tend to get brainwashed by the womens' lib political
    correctness and live out their lives being directed by it, rather than
    "marching to the beat of their own drummer" instead, and in doing so,
    discovering themselves.

    In addition, as we all know there is a lot of family and peer-group
    pressure on young men to get into a relationship with a woman. But
    the divorce rate is HUGE, and all of the married men I know are
    extremely unhappy and depressed (if you can get them to drop the
    "happily married" facade and really be honest) because women just
    don't seem to be able to stop themselves from being domineering. All
    their new power has totally gone to their heads; they delude
    themselves into thinking that they can do anything a man can do, even
    though they can't; and since they've tricked themselves into thinking
    that a man's skills are easy, they will never give a man the respect
    he deserves for using his skills. If men start realizing that they
    are NOT going to make themselves happy by marrying or shacking up,
    then they will start thinking more about how to be happily single.

    I didn't make any unwarranted assumptions. As I said, I've been there
    and done that, several times over, and I KNOW whereof I speak. If you
    think I have a big agenda, then you are simply refusing to face
    reality. Have a nice day.

    You are hysterically arrogant and simultaneously off base. You made
    nothing but unwarranted ASSumptions, you poor miserable old fool.

  18. Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking. I'm excited about this, since it'll give me anther partner in
    my favorite sport and give us a chance to hang out more often. She
    has never had a "real" bike before, but her primary recollection of
    any problems from cycling in the past has always been soreness from
    the saddle.

    I managed to find her a legit entry-level bike used for real short
    money. Reading the reviews, the #1 complaint seems to be the saddle.
    I don't want to recommend saddles I like, because, well, I'm not a
    female.

    So, any suggestions? Brooks and the like are out, this entire project
    is on a super tight budget. Still, I have a feeling she'll be saddle
    shopping within a couple weeks, so if I can have a little knowledge
    for when she starts asking that'd be grand.

    Thanks,

    Dan

    I swapped out a few saddles before finding one my wife was comfortable
    with, it turned out to be a WTB, so I put them on both of her bikes
    (road/MTB) and she's been a happy camper since. I have tried WTB saddles
    myself and didn't like them much. They have a noticeable "sag" in the
    middle, and I've found I much prefer saddles that are flat, front to back.

    I also swapped saddles with my sister. She had a Selle Italia "Trimatic"
    that she detested, I had a Brooks B17 that I didn't get along with at
    all. After the swap (day after, I think), I rode a 250 mile brevet on
    hers and it's been my favorite saddle since. She loves the Brooks.

    Two data points, FWIW.

  19. Quoted message said:

    A lady friend of mine has recently taken an interest in mountain
    biking....

    When I saw the phrase "beginner female", my first thought was a person
    who recently had a gender change operation.

    --
    Tom Sherman - Holstein-Friesland Bovinia
    The weather is here, wish you were beautiful

  20. I just get so f'ing SICK of women and their constant litany about how
    they need special equipment, special bikes, special clothes, etc. in
    order to engage in cycling! Why are women cyclists so dumb that they
    don't even realize that they are being taken advantage of by the
    cycling companies that pander to them? God, they are SO DUMB!
    Anybody who claims to have a special cycling product "FOR WOMEN" can
    sell a million of them to those insecure, unaware women who think that
    buying such products will actually benefit them and make them a decent
    cyclist.

    If the woman's ass is so soft that her present saddle hurts, she just
    needs to lose weight and get in better shape. Her butt will harden up
    in time. But I'll bet she won't do this, because she sounds like a
    typical woman sniveler.

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