In article <[email hidden]>, sydenhams chorea
Quoted message said:I was wondering if any of you are running in an attempt to alleviate depression, whether diagnosed
or otherwise.
From: [email hidden] (Jenn e fir) Newsgroups: rec.running Date: 01 Jan 2002 20:45:12 GMT Subject:
Re: Depression-A Stepping Stone To Learning: More Ramblings
<< Subject: Re: Depression-A Stepping Stone To Learning: More Ramblings of a Running Therapist From:
Ozzie Gontang >>
<< Thanks for your kind compliment. Or was your statement a question in disguise? >>
Boys, boys. Mr. H.C. was being sarcastic and Mr. Oz-man was quite aware of the sarcasm, and
therefore, in his reply, was being disingenuous.
Perhaps what you need is the Cliff-Notes version of the Depression text or perhaps just another
"fractured" approach. Life's too short to be too serious.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Depression-A Stepping Stone To Learning:
More Ramblings of a Running Therapist ©2000 by Austin "Ozzie" Gontang, Ph.D.>>
Depression - A Stone by Any Other Name is Heavy and Hurts when it Lands on Your Head (copyright,
blah, blah, blah...quote this, steal this, claim it as your own, I could care less).
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:The word "job" comes from the AngloSaxon and means a lump.>>
And of course, lump is derived from the British bumf, which is slang for toilet paper.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:At the beginning of the industrial revolution there were critics who said
that man was never made to do a lump of work. >>
And as you all know, "critic" is derived from the Greek and meant "know-it-all in a toga."
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:He needs to be part of the bigger picture, a part
of the community (communitas:being one with others): building the clock tower, the town center, the
cobble stone roads in and out of the city, supplying the needs of the community.>>
Translation? "No man is an island," however when work is involved, give a man a job and he'll bring
home a paycheck. Give a man a community or government job and he'll demand coffee breaks and leave
early at the end of the day with half of the office supplies in his arms.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:There is a great deal of pathos when we realize that today we continually
talk about losing our "lumps.">>
There is however less pathos and more panic when we discuss the possibility of losing our bumf.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Carl Jung >>
Pronounced CHAJJUUUNGGGGEE.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:spoke of Depression as a form of Inflation and also as a way the
soul(psyche/unifying personal force/or whatever you want to call it) digs down into the unconscious
and dredges up out of the depths something on which the individual can work and grow. Maybe it is
akin to the Learning Organization within the individual.>>
Translation? Try to figure out what made you depressed then spend thousands of dollars obsessing
about it on a couch with a therapist.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:The Inflation
"My depression is so bad I can't sleep more than 3 hours a night." "Well, mine is so bad that not
only can I not sleep more than 2 hours, I'm unable to do my job like I once did, and I may lose a
job which I've had for 15 years because we're right-sizing." "If you think, yours is bad, I wake up
every day knowing that I wish my life were over." >>
This is just typical Freud, who was a typical guy. Give a guy a problem and he's always gotta whine
and complain about how his is bigger, or longer, or tougher.
Guy 1: I'm depressed Guy 2: I'm really depressed. Guy 1: Well, I can hardly sleep. Guy 2: I can't
sleep at all.
Guy 2: Queer.
Guy 1: And did I tell you I can't sleep.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Being locked into the negative spiral of depression one soars to the heights
of inflating one's Herculean burden. An interesting contrast if one can step outside of one's
thinking for even a moment.>>
Guy 1: Still can't sleep. Guy 2: I'm going to kill myself Guy 1: Me too, with a 44 caliber Guy 2: I
have a 50 caliber Guy 1: 55
[at this point a football game appears on the TV and the depression vanishes]
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:The Dredge
Am I fulfilling my purpose in life? What is my purpose in life? I said I wanted to achieve this
position and I have...now what? Is this what all this work and dedication and committment get me? "I
know...but I don't have time to reflect...I'm too busy just trying to make it." >>
Translation. You're broke from spending tons of cash at the therapist, you recognize your own
mortality, you visit the Doctor who whips out the GLOVES, mutters something about "your connunter
valve has ecclesiastical occusions," then reassures you that it happens to most guys your age.
You've never climbed Everest, never swam the Nile. All you've really achieved is ear hair and the
ability to fart on demand. Depressed? Damn right.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:I know there is Clinical Depression and I know how it effects the life of the
individual suffering from it, and even more so those who live with and love that individual.>>
Translation. You're depressed; it sucks.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:In a Learning Organization, perceptions are continually being altered. So if
a person charts their life with its high points and low points, the line graph goes above the
midline and then dips below the midline (like graphing profits and losses over time).>>
Translation. That's the way life is: There's good times, and bad times.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Below the line when low enough is depression...above the line...doing good,
better or great.>>
Umm...a little redundant. But that's the way life is: good times, bad times.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:The continuity however is that the individual is going from point A to B
along the midline and then evaluating good above the line and bad below the line. The problem is
often when in depression or below the line, the individual has forgotten when he or she is
heading ... or where they're going wasn't big enough to encompass the loss of a job or a
significant change.>>
Translation. When things are bad, they'll likely get better.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:If you use the sailing metaphor, I want to go from point A to B...which is a
straight line. Even when I put my course on the wall so everyone can see it, I don't identify the
above the line points of my course as good and the below the line points of my course as bad...they
are merely "tacks.">>
Argh, I just hate the sailing metaphors.
Seek some variety. I bet no one has ever done a bowling metaphor. To get to a good score, you'll
roll a few gutter balls (bad times, dark deep depression), pick up some spares (ok times), a strike
or two (really good times), and have a beer or two (great times). At the end when you see a 220 and
think, "Great game" you'll probably not recall the bad times that got you there.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:I purchased "The Heart Aroused: Poetry and the Preservation of the Soul in
Corporate America" by David Whyte for all the CEOs and Presidents in a group I facilitate for The
Executive Committee (TEC). It brings to life, the point in each of our lives and the lives of those
we serve in corporate settings where:>>
Translation. I bought this book.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Nel mezzo del cammin
De nostra vita Mi retrovai Per un oscure selva.
Commedia Dante Alighieri>>
It was in ancient italian.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:In the middle of the road of my life
I awoke in a dark wood where the true way was wholly lost.>>
Ever been lost in Rome? All those little cobblestone roads. Now everyone says that "all roads lead
to Rome," but what if you're in Rome? What then? Just don't try asking directions. All the freakin'
hand gestures and chatter. I see where Dante got his 3 lines or prose.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Whyte goes on to say: "In three brief lines Dante says that the journey
begins right here. In the middle of the road. Right beneath your feet. This is the place. There is
no other place and no other time. Even if you are successful and follow the road you have set
yourself, you can never leave here. Despite everything you have achieved, life refuses to grant you,
and always will refuse to grant you, immunity from its difficulities." p. 27 (The Heart Aroused.
David Whyte. Currency Doubleday, ©1994, 1996)>>
Translation. So this dude Whyte, coins a few phrases like "Every Day is a New Beginning," "One Day
at a Time," prints up a few posters and earns a mint selling motivational literature while these
Quote Freaks croon and coo about how inspired they are.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:It's interesting what an hour's walk or run will do for any kind of
depression. >>
If today is an example, depression will turn to suicide. 24 Degrees, headwinds in all
directions...oops...I've digressed. Translation? Depressed? Try a walk or run.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:And as Lee Thayer, one of my mentor's, told me when I asked how long will it
take before I get better, "As long as it takes to get better. And you know that better is the
comparitive of "good" so you must be getting there. But when you get there, it becomes your
"here." >>
Translation: Oz: How long will it take to get better? Mentor: Depends on your insurance coverage.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:But you're here already so what do you need to do to let go of that thought
and just be....here....now.>>
No cancelation without 24 hour notice.
Quoted message said:You're alive, Oz, and Eternity means outside of time, so when you're running
you're either doing your being or being doing your running.>>
Deal with it; it's all you got.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Hmmmmm, I said to myself and let the thought go and enjoyed my run and used
it as an entrance into being outside of time.>>
"Outside of time?" ... Sorry, I got nothing.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:There was a man who was afraid of his shadow and hated the sound of his
footsteps. He hit upon a way to escape his shadow and the sound of his foot steps. He started to run
and he trained harder and harder and became the fastest man in his country. Yet he could not get
away from his shadow northe sound of his footsteps. >>
Translation. There was this really A) Stupid or B) Paranoid man, who tried to run from his
footprints.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:He went out into the vast plains and ran as fast
as he could but his shadow stayed up with him and sound of his footsteps could be heard by him. >>
I'm thinking stupid.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:He ran faster and faster and faster until out of
sheer exhaustion he fell over dead.>>
I'm right, right?
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:He did not realize that had he stopped he would no longer hear his footsteps
and had he sat down in the shade, his shadow would have disappeared.>>
And Oz agreed.
Quoted message said:Quoted message said:Thank you Chuang Tzu.>>
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Jennifer
Leah responding to Doug's comments to Jenn e fir:
--On Tuesday said:Jenn e fir wrote:
[ snipped bunch of stereotypical sarcasm ]
Lot's of cheap shots at therapists, their counseling abilities, values, mores and reference to
costs for their services.
The true irony is this is coming from a lawyer. I'm sure you are exception to the rule but isn't
this oxymoronic at best? When it comes to the food chain value, values, etc, the legal profession
in general ranks with whale excretion. Of course, I'm sure you are the exception to the
stereotypical "shyster" image.
As for all the guy shots, you sure sound like the angry [censored] wielding I hate all men, female.
Do you play this hard ass role because it is really you, or are you actually a sweet pushover
with a Walter Mitty syndrome? She doth protest too much! Might I suggest a little time on the
leather couch?
What are you, hung over? Where's your legendary sense of humor? Oz just got his Jenn-treatment like
all the rest of us have got ours in the past, and deservedly so. Just because he's your rec.running
godhead, he's not exempt.
L - Therapizes about as well as Oz writes, but that's okay because we're all good at something and
not everybody can be good at everything.