I've used a helmet mirror for 25 years or so and would be lost without it.
rek said:I could ask "how are you supposed to look in front of you, if your eyes are focused on a mirror that's ~10cm from your eyes" but that'd be a smartarse thing to do :p
Actually, the trick is to not focus at 10cm, cause you don't want to be looking at the mirror itself, but the image in the mirror, which is however many 10s of metres the traffic is behind. ie about the same focus as you are looking at the traffic in front of you. It takes a little while to get used to. I tried one that had a convex lens and that threw me cause I had to focus differently from front to rear. Probably could have got used to it, but have gone back to a flat mirror.
Quoted post said:When looking ahead, I'm rarely looking just straight ahead. I'm looking about at everything, anticipating things that could or will be a potential hazard in the coming 5-15 seconds or so. Call it a "total situational awareness" of sorts.. it's not exactly relaxing (until you get used to it and becomes a reflex/subconscious action) but it keeps you out of trouble on the road; be it on a bike, motorbike, car, pedestrian...
I do the above, as well as being more aware of what's behind.
Quoted post said:I guess you could use a mirror to help out with this, but in five years of commuting I've never felt a need for one. It only takes a fraction of a second to look back over the shoulder, it can be done very easily within the anticipation comfort zone.. and most importantly, it makes you an active participant on the road: not only can you can see others, but others can see that you see them.
As an example, consider when there's a pinch-point in the road (lane narrowing, parked car, etc.) that means traffic is going to need to merge. How many times have you noticed a driver thinking they can get past without letting you merge, until you give a head-check, make eye contact, and they suddenly become more accomodating?
They might have been just inattentive enough to not really notice how much road space you were needing, that they'd be able to just "slip past"; but the eye contact removes any shadow of a doubt. It tells them you're THERE, and need to be taken into consideration. Doubt quickly sets in and they reconsider. You don't get that sort of communication by a passive glance into a mirror. Not doing a head-check in that sort of situation puts a shiver up my spine.
I can do both. I can glance in the mirror, and if I feel that I need to make eye contact, then I can look over my shoulder and get it. If I glance in the mirror and find that the driver is allowing for me, there is no need for me to look back.
Quoted post said:Now think of it a little more from a driver's perspective. When driving about in your car, have you sometimes seen a car up ahead where you suspect the driver is off in their own little world, not really knowing what they're doing? And you start to get anxious about being near them, fearing they could do any sort of random [censored] at any time? That's the kind of appearance I try to avoid by all of this. I want other road users to feel confident that I'm aware of what I'm doing, I know what's around me; and that as a result, my actions will be predictable.
So as a good driver, you allow for that suspect road user ahead of you. In glancing in the mirror, I can make a judgement if the driver behind me is perhaps doing that so I don't need to look them in the eyes, cause I don't need them to do anything different. I can even give a wave if I think they are being particularly accommodating.
Quoted post said:To each their own, though.. there's nothing wrong with mirrors if they help you ride more confidently. 🙂 And that, the outward appearance of confidence, is what keeps you safe in the end; and what keeps other road users from trying anything on.
(BTW; I'm not having a go at you at all, just thought that my point of view probably justifies a good explanation 😎 )
I know mirror users are far in the minority. So who knows if it's safer to be with or without but the few times that I've been without mine, I've felt a lot more vulnerable out there.