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  1. I'm Gareth. I live in the UK & I'm married with two boys aged 4 & 6.

    I've just found out that my wife has been defrauding the company she
    works for, has lost her job and criminal proceedings will be issued
    against her unless the amount obtained is paid back in full ASAP.

    The amount owing is £45,000(around $90,000). I've been doing my sums
    and I reckon we could remortgage the house and get an extra £30,000
    ($60,000) but that still leaves us £15,000($30,000 ) short.

    Although my wife earned a good wage, she is a compulsive spender. To
    be honest, if it wasnt for the boys I dont know what I would do. My
    biggest fear obviously is loosing the house.

    I am at my wits end. I have had to sell the kids presents plus any
    other things lying around the house that we have to get rid of.

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    I have heard of an American woman who set up a website where people
    could make donations and this eventually cleared her debt.

    Do you guys think this might work? I havent a clue what to do next and
    my brain is so frazzled, these are the kind of ideas I have been
    reduced to.

    I'm ashamed to have to do this but if you feel you could make a
    donation through your Paypal account the email address to send money
    to is [email hidden]

    Thanks for your time everyone

    Gareth

  2. On 10/12/2007 19:50, [email hidden] said,

    Quoted message said:

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    You don't have a canoe, by any chance?

    --
    Paul Boyd
    http://www.paul-boyd.co.uk/

  3. Quoted message said:

    I'm Gareth. I live in the UK & I'm married with two boys aged 4 & 6.

    I've just found out that my wife has been defrauding the company she
    works for, has lost her job and criminal proceedings will be issued
    against her unless the amount obtained is paid back in full ASAP.

    1) Ask her what she did with the money.
    2) She stole it, she can pay it back.
    3) Ditch the [censored].

    --
    Mike
    Van Tuyl titanium Dura ace 10
    Fausto Coppi aluminium Ultegra 10
    Raleigh Record sprint mongrel
    Huissoon project bike (in bits, natch)

  4. On Mon, 10 Dec 2007 20:43:14 +0000, Paul Boyd <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    On 10/12/2007 19:50, [email hidden] said,

    Quoted message said:

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    You don't have a canoe, by any chance?

    You are responsible for me spraying my monitor with a mouthful of
    coffee.

  5. Quoted message said:

    I'm Gareth. I live in the UK & I'm married with two boys aged 4 & 6.

    Ooh.

    Quoted message said:

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    You need a lawyer. Cant you ask one of your mates at www.nilsc.org.uk?

    Are they aware of your activities?

    Tim
    --
    Sent from Birmingham, UK... Check out www.nervouscyclist.org
    'I find sometimes it’s easy to be myself, but sometimes I find it’s
    better to be somebody else.' - Dave Matthews 'So Much To Say'
    My 'reply to' address is valid, mail to the posting address is dumped

  6. <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    I'm Gareth. I live in the UK & I'm married with two boys aged 4 & 6.

    I've just found out that my wife has been defrauding the company she
    works for, has lost her job and criminal proceedings will be issued
    against her unless the amount obtained is paid back in full ASAP.

    The amount owing is £45,000(around $90,000). I've been doing my sums
    and I reckon we could remortgage the house and get an extra £30,000
    ($60,000) but that still leaves us £15,000($30,000 ) short.

    Although my wife earned a good wage, she is a compulsive spender. To
    be honest, if it wasnt for the boys I dont know what I would do. My
    biggest fear obviously is loosing the house.

    I am at my wits end. I have had to sell the kids presents plus any
    other things lying around the house that we have to get rid of.

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    Cut up her credit cards, close the joint account. Sell the car. Buy a
    bike.

  7. burtthebike said:


    <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    I'm Gareth. I live in the UK & I'm married with two boys aged 4 & 6.

    I've just found out that my wife has been defrauding the company she
    works for, has lost her job and criminal proceedings will be issued
    against her unless the amount obtained is paid back in full ASAP.

    The amount owing is £45,000(around $90,000). I've been doing my sums
    and I reckon we could remortgage the house and get an extra £30,000
    ($60,000) but that still leaves us £15,000($30,000 ) short.

    Although my wife earned a good wage, she is a compulsive spender. To
    be honest, if it wasnt for the boys I dont know what I would do. My
    biggest fear obviously is loosing the house.

    I am at my wits end. I have had to sell the kids presents plus any
    other things lying around the house that we have to get rid of.

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    Cut up her credit cards, close the joint account. Sell the car. Buy a
    bike.

    Oldest profession?

  8. Quoted message said:

    I'm Gareth. I live in the UK & I'm married with two boys aged 4 & 6.

    I've just found out that my wife has been defrauding the company she
    works for, has lost her job and criminal proceedings will be issued
    against her unless the amount obtained is paid back in full ASAP.

    The company she works for will start criminal proceedings against her
    even if she pays back the money, they have no choice.

    Quoted message said:

    The amount owing is £45,000(around $90,000). I've been doing my sums
    and I reckon we could remortgage the house and get an extra £30,000
    ($60,000) but that still leaves us £15,000($30,000 ) short.

    I seriously doubt that your bank will remortgage your house to pay back
    illegally gained monies, especially when this will not settle the debt,
    giving her old company a legal claim on your property.

    Quoted message said:

    Although my wife earned a good wage, she is a compulsive spender. To
    be honest, if it wasnt for the boys I dont know what I would do. My
    biggest fear obviously is loosing the house.

    Your house was bought with the profits of crime, why should you be
    allowed to keep it?

    Quoted message said:

    I am at my wits end. I have had to sell the kids presents plus any
    other things lying around the house that we have to get rid of.

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    Get a divorce, and quick.

  9. Al C-F said:
    burtthebike said:


    <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    I'm Gareth. I live in the UK & I'm married with two boys aged 4 & 6.

    I've just found out that my wife has been defrauding the company she
    works for, has lost her job and criminal proceedings will be issued
    against her unless the amount obtained is paid back in full ASAP.

    The amount owing is £45,000(around $90,000). I've been doing my sums
    and I reckon we could remortgage the house and get an extra £30,000
    ($60,000) but that still leaves us £15,000($30,000 ) short.

    Although my wife earned a good wage, she is a compulsive spender. To
    be honest, if it wasnt for the boys I dont know what I would do. My
    biggest fear obviously is loosing the house.

    I am at my wits end. I have had to sell the kids presents plus any
    other things lying around the house that we have to get rid of.

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    Cut up her credit cards, close the joint account. Sell the car. Buy a
    bike.

    Oldest profession?

    Not that sort of bike!!!

  10. "Al C-F" <[email hidden]> wrote in
    message news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    burtthebike said:


    <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    I'm Gareth. I live in the UK & I'm married with two boys aged 4 & 6.

    I've just found out that my wife has been defrauding the company she
    works for, has lost her job and criminal proceedings will be issued
    against her unless the amount obtained is paid back in full ASAP.

    The amount owing is £45,000(around $90,000). I've been doing my sums
    and I reckon we could remortgage the house and get an extra £30,000
    ($60,000) but that still leaves us £15,000($30,000 ) short.

    Although my wife earned a good wage, she is a compulsive spender. To
    be honest, if it wasnt for the boys I dont know what I would do. My
    biggest fear obviously is loosing the house.

    I am at my wits end. I have had to sell the kids presents plus any
    other things lying around the house that we have to get rid of.

    Do you guys have any ideas?

    Cut up her credit cards, close the joint account. Sell the car. Buy a
    bike.

    Oldest profession?

    He already _is_ a lawyer (allegedly).

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