The *gang* are misled in thier posting of forgiveness.
*Forgiveness requires that the offending party repent.*
*If the anti-semites within MHA are going to be unrepentant about their words
and deeds, then I have no reason to forgive*
(This is false)
In Matthew 18:21-34, Jesus tells the disciples the parable of the unforgiving
debtor. (Read the passage) The rabbis taught that Jews should forgive those who
offend them three times. Peter, in trying to be especially generous, asked
Jesus if seven (the "perfect" number) was enough times to forgive someone. But
Jesus answered, "Seventy times seven," meaning that we shouldn't even keep
track of how many times we forgive someone. We should always forgive those who
are truly repentant, no matter how many times they ask
Jesus Forgave
the paralyzed man lowered on a stretcher through the roof Matthew 9:2-8
the woman caught in adultery John 8:3-11
the woman who anointed His feet with oil Luke 7:47-50
Peter, for denying he knew Jesus John 18 and 21
the thief on the cross Luke 23:39-43
the people who crucified Him Luke 23:34
Because God has forgiven all our sins, we should not withhold forgiveness from
others. Realizing how completely Christ has forgiven us should produce a free
and generous attitude of forgiveness toward others. When we don't forgive
others, we are setting ourselves outside and above Christ's law of love.
If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive
you. Matthew 6:14 (NRSV)
AFTER trimming my rosebush this spring, I came away with a thorn buried deep in
my index finger. It was tiny and almost invisible; but each time I grasped
something in my left hand, I was painfully reminded of its presence. Removing
it took time. The procedure was painful, but what a relief it was for the
finger to heal! Soon I forgot about the thorn and looked forward to the first
fragrant rose.
Holding a grudge can be like having a thorn in our heart. After a while, we may
think it does not matter; but like an invisible barb, the grudge will cause us
intermittent pain. We wouldn't think of leaving a thorn in our finger, but we
may harbor bitterness and anger associated with a past hurt for years.
To forgive can be a great relief, but it takes conscious effort on our part.
Praying for those who have hurt us and asking God to change our heart can free
us from the pain of negative feelings and memories. Forgiveness brings peace
and allows us to enjoy the blessings of everyday life.
Forgiveness brings peace to our hearts.
The Lord promises to do these things with our sins:
Forgive them all (I John 1:9)
Cast them into the sea (Micah 7:9)
Take them away (Isaiah 6:7)
Cover them up (Psalm 32:1)
Blot them out (Acts 3:19)
Put them away (Hebrews 9:26)
Remember them no more (Hebrews 8:12)
The last reference to forgiveness is in 1 John 1:9. (Read the verse) Confession
is supposed to free us to enjoy fellowship with Christ. It should ease our
consciences and lighten our cares. But some Christians do not understand how it
works. They feel so guilty that they confess the same sins over and over, and
then wonder if they might have forgotten something. Other Christians believe
God forgives them when they confess, but if they died with unconfessed sins,
they would be forever lost. These Christians do not understand that God wants
to forgive us. When we come to Christ, He forgives all the sins we have
committed or will ever commit. We don't need to confess the same exact sins all
over again, and we don't need to fear that He will cast us out if we don't keep
our slate perfectly clean at all moments. Of course we want to continue to
confess our sins, but not because we think failure to do so will make us lose
our salvation. Our hope in Christ is secure. Instead, we confess our sins so we
can enjoy maximum fellowship and joy with Him.
True confession also involves a commitment not to continue in sin. We are not
genuinely confessing our sins before God if we plan to commit the sin again and
just want temporary forgiveness. We must pray for strength to defeat the
temptation the next time it appears.
We can always be forgiven, but we cannot always escape the consequences.
To be a Christian means to forgive the inexcusable because the inexcusable has
been forgiven in us.
Forgiveness is an act of love. And to love deeply is to forgive someone no
matter what. This is what we're called to do. 1) Forgive, 2) Reconcile, and 3)
Love. They are all choices and actions.
Although we are continually sinning, God is continually forgiving us.
Take the initiative to love and forgive others.
After forgiveness, relationships are often much stronger.