"Melanie" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Quoted message said:Ed, you wrote:
You are effecting a letter writing style as opposed to a newsgroup
posting
style.
Reply:
No, on many ng, the "style" you referred to is actually a rule. Its
certainly something unique to the internet, to assist individuals with
lower end computers, or who are very busy and have very little time,
to be able to participate in a discussion.
Yes, newsgroup posting is all about rules, which I observe and you don't.
Quoted message said:The fact that some ng readers don't do their homework and don't read
to inform themselves shouldn't cause disrespect for the vast majority
who do Ed. I do hear in this that you think I edited you too much.
So I'll try and include a little more of what I am responding to so
you won't be so lost.
You do not edit me at all. In fact, you do not include anything of what I
have said (except previously for one very brief snippet). You respond as if
I had written you a letter, which I haven't (I assure you, a letter would
be vastly different than a posting). I have written you a newsgroup posting
which I know the whole world is going to read along with you. My main
concern is always for the universe of anonymous readers, not for the
particular correspondent to whom I am responding. I think that is the main
difference between what you are doing and what I am doing.
Quoted message said:Ed, you also wrote:
But you are not contentious like I am and so others are not jumping
in on your messages and taking issue with everything you say.
Reply:
Some of what you say Ed doesn't have anything to do with bent bikes,
and that is why this NG exists. Everybody has political opinions of
one kind or another, but I personally don't think they belong here.
Nor do personal insults, because as you say "Everyone is reading what
we say". (well probably not, many NG readers either stop reading or
participating in a news group full of off topic posts, spam or flame
wars. Why do you think so many regulars left the newsgroup?)
A conversation will go the way it will go and those who do not like the way
it is going can leave the conversation and if they want to leave the
newsgroup, that is just fine with me too. We are well rid of the "regulars"
that were formerely here. They had outworn any welcome they ever had here
and were getting downright incestous in their postings. The newsgroup is a
far better place for their having left.
Quoted message said:You wrote: "I am the opposite of you. "
No, Ed, I think you WANT to be opposite of EVERYONE to get them to
respond to you-- watching your posts over the years, I hypothesize you
go outside the rules and etiquette because you want attention.
Perhaps you are lonely and this is the only way to get attention so
folks will respond to you-- let you know that you matter, and that you
are thought about...."
Actually, I do disagree with most on this newsgroup about most things. But I
do not mind being contentious and disagreeable, most especially when it
comes to politics. I have noted that no one is ever trying to be friendly to
me, so why should I bother with them in that regard. No, I like argument and
I enjoy controversy. I wish it could all be on a higher level, but I am
willing to get down in the trenches with the majority of low life to be
found here on ARBR.
Quoted message said:The thing is Ed, you do matter, even if you were to stay on topic and
try and think about the majority of readers who do read your posts.
You have so much to contribute from your life experience, your rides,
and your bikes. You have wisdom.
Ah, sweet amelioration! But you are one in million. I am having to deal with
blooming idiots of the first rank. But it is nothing but fun and games for
me and when I tire of it I will leave and go on to other things.
Quoted message said:But it gets lost when in setting out to deliberately inflame people.
You lose your ability to persuade, to get respect and change lives and
minds, when you set up to be deliberately off topic and contrarian all
the time.
I am not really trying to persuade anyone of anything. That is for the
young. I only began posting to this group in the first place because of all
the liberal cant and hypocrisy that I detected here. And then there were
the Bush bashers whose only aim in life was to bash Bush. My role here is
limited and I am content to play out the hand I have been dealt.
Quoted message said:I don't think its a gender thing: I think it goes to maturity, and
the patience to be open minded and respectful.
It has ever been one of the interests in my life to see how different men
and women are from one another. Gender explains an awful lot. We men are
killers and women are not. They are concerned with new life almost to the
exclusion of everything else. We men only pretend to be concerned with new
life. But we are killers and we all know it.
Quoted message said:OTOH, I have heard that extreme exercise can bring extremely high
levels of testosterone, and this can make man or woman extremely
aggressive and disagreeable.
Women athletes are highly abnormal and most likely have a hormonal
imbalance. Many woman athletes look more like men than some men do
Quoted message said:Maybe its a hormonal thing. Perhaps rest would help you?
I will soon be resting in my grave for all eternity.
Quoted message said:You too could be peacemaker, and maybe even persuade folks that you
are right, that is if you wanted to...
Nope, not interested!
Quoted message said:Its up to you I suppose. If you did that, even more people would
listen to you Ed. Why not share one of your great ride stories with
us?
I am here for off-topic only to keep ARBR cleansed of dirty rotten liberal
posts. I would rather rule in Hell with Mr. Sherman than serve in Heaven
with you! See what I mean about us men being killers?
Quoted message said:All the best Ed,
Same to you kiddo!
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Best Regards,
Ed Dolan - Minnesota