I went through most of my weight loss without too many comments. I think it
took 50lbs to get the first one! Now that summer is over I'm doing a bunch of
back to school stuff with the kids, and can't go five minutes without somebody
commenting! Naturally, when I answered the "how did you do it" question, the
response was almost always the same. An excited face, expecting a miracle cure
answer, which quickly collapses into a frown and 'oh, I couldn't do that ... no
bread?' or some such comment. I just smile and don't say anything. Even though
the obvious answer is that when choosing between being obese and giving up
bread, the answer *should* be obvious. LOL! I even went swimming at the girl
scout kickoff party, and had a great time. (I jumped off the high-dive, that
impressed a bunch of 8 & 9 year olds!) I know I'm still fat, but it's not
enough to slow me down anymore, and I know it too will be gone soon enough. I
saw the other moms who were my old size, and it made me sad. This time last
year I too would have been parked in a chair in the shade, watching everyone
else have fun, and feeling self-conscious. Made me want to go tell them "I know
how to help you!" LOL! It does make me 100% determined to NEVER put myself back
in that place again. It's an ugly, sad, lonley, and very frustrating place.
LCing since 12/01/03-
Me- 5'7" 265/171/140
& hubby- 6' 310/190/180
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