tom, I know what you mean with the recovery rides becoming another training session. Whenever I go outdoors I hit hills, so immediately go to 230W+ just to get up them riding at 40 rpm! I have about 8minutes of that in total to get onto decent roads, so venturing outside for a recovery ride is always a training load. As I said before, I also find I can't ride easily enough not to incur more fatigue to the point now where I think a day off or just easy on the turbo is better for limiting fatigue before hard interval days. I have read on your easy days you should let kids and old women on bikes with shopping baskets blow by you!! That may be extreme but it does demonstrate the pace and kind of self-control you need to exert to not 'race' every day.
I find the opposite Markster, diet goes to pot when I'm tired and my appetite is suppressed which only makes me feel worse if I don't eat as I should, rather than how I feel.
tom, I wouldn't be too hard on yourself with diet. Reduce consumption of tea, coffee and chocolate if it's a problem (ie. you are drinking/eating a lot each day), but stopping altogether makes it hard and it's unlikely your will power will let you continue this for long. 1-2 cups of coffee per day are fine. My advice, based on what I have done, is to swap out one item of poor food per week with something more nutritious. For example, don't buy dessert this week, buy fruit. Next week, give the burgers a miss. Week after maybe try to include salad in more of your sandwiches. Little changes like that add up quickly and will transform your diet permanently over a period of 2-3months. Give yourself a pat on the back each week/2weeks you make a change and don't be too hard on yourself. One thing to remember is we follow a healthier lifestyle than 98-99% of the population :-)
The recovery rides is a good suggestion Markster. I normally schedule 30minutes, but as you say, 20 minutes is enough to get your legs warmed up and feeling less stiff. If I don't have time for the recovery rides (very busy days), I just skip them and don't fret over missing them. I consider a complete rest day or an easy 20-30mins on the turbo the same.
Tom, I think your fear of taking a day completely off is typical of a lot of us (myself included). It's hard to believe your not improving with more time on the bike, but the opposite is true. Train hard when you train, then rest completely (or very very easily) on the rest days. It takes time and experience (with the bad results of doing otherwise) to see this does work. If you *knew* your performances you improve with 2 days off the bike each week then hard training on other days, wouldn't you do it?? I love riding too, but racing performance is more important to me, so I learn to live with the days off :-)