Hi Laureen,
Dropped 30:
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I have 3 parties saturday night, 1 on sunday and I am going to
be a witch - the sort that would wear fishnet stockings ;-) I
am able to
wear a cute costume for the 1st time in almost 5 years!!
DH will be Shaggy from scooby doo - even in that baggy outfit
you can tell he lost 25lbs!
Please take some pics of you and the DH in costume for us. On
Halloween I hand out candy and admire all the costumes that the
kids show up in. Maybe next year (if I have a house!) I'll throw
a
party and have the teenagers hand out the candy to the kids. :-)
Carmen, why is there a possibilty you wont have a house???
When Dropped 30 said she thought I lived in an apartment and was
looking to buy a house she was correct. The other part of the story
is that DH and I put an offer on a house the first few days of August.
Background: Nice house at the end of a cul-de-sac, 2200 square feet, a
family of three people and two cats will all be able to have ample
room. Two car garage one side of which would be a wonderful workshop
for DH and I. Two ventless gas fireplaces and a big Florida room. On
one side of the house is a wooded lot. There's a neighbor behind some
trees on the other side. The rear of the property is a steep slope
and also butts up against a city nature park (miles of trees, no
houses). The back yard is, as stated earlier, very steep. It's
tiered to account for this, and the bottom tier has an inground 14 by
32 foot pool, Grecian style. The pool needs a new liner - it's
clearly not been used for years, since the liner is literally in
tatters. We decide to buy the house despite the pool. We planned to
remove the pool liner and the concrete deck ourselves, then hire a
soil engineer to tell us the proper way to fill the hole so that the
soil would be stable (remember it's very steep) and capable of
supporting a structure should we ever desire one on that tier.
Next step, we make an offer. The counter is far too high. I decide
to not waste time, so I attach an explanatory note to the next offer
that explains that the reason we think the house hasdn't sold in 10
months on the market (in an average market time of 90 days area) is
the pool. People who want a pool would be daunted by the sheer amount
of work required to rehabilitate the pool, and people who didn't want
one would be daunted by the amount of work required to reclaim the
land. Apparently the couple hadn't ever considered that. Of two
potential counters I offered them (they get a higher price but reclaim
the land the way we want it done within 6 months of closing OR we do
the work but pay a lower price) they choose to sell the house for a
lower price and we take care of the pool. Fine and dandy.
Enter the VA appraisor. He appraises the house for just a bit more
than agreed-upon price (good) BUT says the sellers have to either make
the pool operational again or fill it in before he can approve it.
Says it's a safety issue. Aargh! The seller wants to sell quite
badly, so they look at getting the pool filled in. They ask through
our agent if we'd kick in for the cost. They plan to just fill up the
pool with fill and fill dirt, leave the pool in the ground and the
concrete decking in place too. We say "No" to kicking in on it since
we'll then have to take all the damn stuff back OUT of the pool,
remove the pool and decking and then get a soil engineer in to help us
reclaim the land properly anyway - ending up as more work and cost for
us than the original plan. The sellers decide they really want to
sell so they go ahead anyway. The first contractor they contacted put
them off and eventually stopped returning their calls. By then the
first contract period was about to expire. We agreed to sign a
one-month extension, but also said we would not sign another one. We
were assured that the sellers would be closing by the 26th, because
they were going out of town then.
Time passes. Two days ago our agent calls and says their agent says
they haven't got the pool filled and it's because the contractor says
there has to be X number of dry days before they can get their truck
back in there and blah, blah, blah. In other words, they *still*
can't close. Not funny at all. I told our agent that if they
couldn't have it done by the 31st don't bother doing it on our
account. We were holding firm on the "no more extensions" statement.
Two months is enough time to get the job done - especially since they
were only going to do a fill-in. If it had been Howard and I we'd
have done it with pickup trucks and wheelbarrows, but it would have
been *done*. The message was sent to the sellers and they went out of
town for their trip. We are out two months of our time and the bank
fees to boot.
It almost cost us our present apartment too. The day after we heard
from our agent, I got a call from a lady at the cable company. She
wanted to know why she had an order for cable to be turned on at our
address when we hadn't cancelled ours yet. Did we forget to do it in
the middle of a move perhaps? Uh-oh. We had given notice at the
apartment based on the fact we'd been assured the closing would be by
the end of the month! We'd had no idea until the day before that the
deal would fall through. The apartment management had re-rented our
apartment (they're nice apartments and a great complex) with no
trouble at all. Well, it turns out that they had had an unexpected
vacancy earlier in the month - an eviction of a two bedroom. The
management completely re-did that one - new carpet, new ceramic floor
tiles, the works. The worst that would happen is we'd have to move to
the other apartment. The main difference is the one we're in is a
deluxe two-bedroom, with a laundry room instead of closet and a bigger
living area also. ~1000 sq feet total as opposed to the regular
two-bedroom with ~875 sq feet. The management tried to contact the
guy who was due to move into our apartment next week, but that ended
up being difficult because he is a soldier and in air assault school
(think going every minute and under tight controls). They finally got
hold of him this afternoon and *thankfully* he agreed to take the
regular two-bedroom apartment instead of ours.
I've come to the conclusion that one of Howard's oncologists had it
right when he asked us if we were crazy to go house-hunting in the
middle of Howard's chemo. We weren't when we started but I came close
the day the cable lady called! <G>
So....by next year I want to have a house. ;-)
Take care,
Carmen