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"yeahyeahyeah" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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When guys get so "shocked" that, for example, Lance may prefer blondes
(who may resemble Mom) I really have to laugh.

I'm a woman -- (I created a new email account for this post, trust
me!) -- and have found that every man seems to be drawn to a
particular type of woman. I'm a redhead. When I'm out and about, a
disproportionate number of redheaded guys will check me out. Why?
Gee, I probably look just like Mom did once.

How many times have I seen guys place an ad like this on a dating
site: "I only want a blonde -- 5'5" to 5'8" -- 105 to 120 pounds --
can have blue or green eyes only -- NO BROWN EYES, PLEASE." Why such
an overwhelmingly narrow focus? Hmmmm.

Anyhow, my experience is that each guy has a template of sorts that he
compares each woman to. If the woman fits the detailed "looks" list,
she's in.

So leave Lance alone. Every single guy I've ever met does the same
thing, in his own way.

Henry as a woman. Cute!

(yeahyeahyeah) said:

Why such an overwhelmingly narrow focus?

Dumbass,

They want a duplicate of the one they lost their virginity with.

-Gerard

"yeahyeahyeah" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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When guys get so "shocked" that, for example, Lance may prefer blondes
(who may resemble Mom) I really have to laugh.

I'm a woman -- (I created a new email account for this post, trust
me!) -- and have found that every man seems to be drawn to a
particular type of woman. I'm a redhead. When I'm out and about, a
disproportionate number of redheaded guys will check me out. Why?
Gee, I probably look just like Mom did once.

How many times have I seen guys place an ad like this on a dating
site: "I only want a blonde -- 5'5" to 5'8" -- 105 to 120 pounds --
can have blue or green eyes only -- NO BROWN EYES, PLEASE." Why such
an overwhelmingly narrow focus? Hmmmm.

Anyhow, my experience is that each guy has a template of sorts that he
compares each woman to. If the woman fits the detailed "looks" list,
she's in.

So leave Lance alone. Every single guy I've ever met does the same
thing, in his own way.

Nice post, Sheryl. The redhead thing almost worked.

Bob C.

Gerard Lanois said:

(yeahyeahyeah) said:

Why such an overwhelmingly narrow focus?

Dumbass,

They want a duplicate of the one they lost their virginity with.

-Gerard

Oh God no!! I am quite happy to never see her again. unpleasant
memories, please dont ask.

Stan Cox

p.s. I am quite aware I might not be considered an average guy....more
of a below average guy 🙂

On 31 Jul 2004 08:23:32 -0700, [email hidden] (yeahyeahyeah)

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When guys get so "shocked" that, for example, Lance may prefer blondes
(who may resemble Mom) I really have to laugh.

I'm a woman -- (I created a new email account for this post, trust
me!) -- and have found that every man seems to be drawn to a
particular type of woman. I'm a redhead. When I'm out and about, a
disproportionate number of redheaded guys will check me out. Why?
Gee, I probably look just like Mom did once.

My wife looks very very different than my mother.

JT

"yeahyeahyeah" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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When guys get so "shocked" that, for example, Lance may prefer blondes
(who may resemble Mom) I really have to laugh.

I'm a woman -- (I created a new email account for this post, trust
me!) -- and have found that every man seems to be drawn to a
particular type of woman. I'm a redhead. When I'm out and about, a
disproportionate number of redheaded guys will check me out. Why?
Gee, I probably look just like Mom did once.

How many times have I seen guys place an ad like this on a dating
site: "I only want a blonde -- 5'5" to 5'8" -- 105 to 120 pounds --
can have blue or green eyes only -- NO BROWN EYES, PLEASE." Why such
an overwhelmingly narrow focus? Hmmmm.

Anyhow, my experience is that each guy has a template of sorts that he
compares each woman to. If the woman fits the detailed "looks" list,
she's in.

So leave Lance alone. Every single guy I've ever met does the same
thing, in his own way.

I agree, we all like a certain type. But for some reason, north american
athletes all seem to like perky, anglo-saxon type blondes and they all seem
to look sort of similar. I don't know what the big thing is with blondes.
Maybe it's blond pubic hair. Geez, big deal,it's [censored] hair color guys!

"Marlene Blanshay" <[email hidden]> wrote in message

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I agree, we all like a certain type. But for some reason, north american
athletes all seem to like perky, anglo-saxon type blondes and they all

seem

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to look sort of similar. I don't know what the big thing is with blondes.
Maybe it's blond pubic hair. Geez, big deal,it's [censored] hair color guys!

Come on, Marlene. Even you know the cuffs rarely match the collar.

Marlene Blanshay said:

I don't know what the big thing is with blondes.
Maybe it's blond pubic hair. Geez, big deal,it's [censored] hair color guys!

being a blonde, i'll cheer you up by relating that men will go out of
their way to tell me that they don't like blondes.

i don't actually care because i figured out that men will often still
[censored] you no matter how short you fall from matching their weirdo
preferences. as my bf says, "a willing woman is hot." i suppose getting
them to marry you is another story, but i haven't researched that area
too intensely

i wish i could find it online because i have a terrible memory, but i
"remember" some study where they had a bunch of guys wear t shirts for a
day. then they asked women to smell the shirts (without seeing the men)
and to pick the one they thought smelled the most sexually attractive.
and the women picked the men who smelled similar to their fathers.

heather "who's your daddy" h

h squared said:

i don't actually care because i figured out that men will often still
[censored] you no matter how short you fall from matching their weirdo
preferences. as my bf says, "a willing woman is hot." i suppose getting
them to marry you is another story, but i haven't researched that area
too intensely

It's been a million years since I was single but...

As I recall, the statement by your bf is correct, but incomplete.
Nothing would make a 4'5", 300 lb woman hot. Within the acceptable
range, however, I think he's pretty much on the mark.

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Stan Cox said:

Gerard Lanois said:

(yeahyeahyeah) said:

Why such an overwhelmingly narrow focus?

Dumbass,

They want a duplicate of the one they lost their virginity with.

-Gerard

Oh God no!! I am quite happy to never see her again. unpleasant
memories, please dont ask.

Only one?

h squared said:

Marlene Blanshay said:

I don't know what the big thing is with blondes.
Maybe it's blond pubic hair. Geez, big deal,it's [censored] hair color guys!

being a blonde, i'll cheer you up by relating that men will go out of
their way to tell me that they don't like blondes.

i don't actually care because i figured out that men will often still
[censored] you no matter how short you fall from matching their weirdo
preferences. as my bf says, "a willing woman is hot." i suppose getting
them to marry you is another story, but i haven't researched that area
too intensely

i wish i could find it online because i have a terrible memory, but i
"remember" some study where they had a bunch of guys wear t shirts for a
day. then they asked women to smell the shirts (without seeing the men)
and to pick the one they thought smelled the most sexually attractive.
and the women picked the men who smelled similar to their fathers.

heather "who's your daddy" h

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0060984031/102-5366357-8764930

"Carl Sundquist" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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"Marlene Blanshay" <[email hidden]> wrote in message

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I agree, we all like a certain type. But for some reason, north

american

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Quoted message said:

athletes all seem to like perky, anglo-saxon type blondes and they all

seem

Quoted message said:

to look sort of similar. I don't know what the big thing is with

blondes.

Quoted message said:

Quoted message said:

Maybe it's blond pubic hair. Geez, big deal,it's [censored] hair color

guys!

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Come on, Marlene. Even you know the cuffs rarely match the collar.

Yeah,'EVEN' me, whaddo I know, I'm just a clueless brunette.LOL.

ANd that's even funnier. Guys will be all hot over blondes and fetishize
them even if it's FAKE! And you don't even need to see the 'cuffs'. Just
look at the eyebrows or eyelashes. Arm hair sometimes, although I actually
have blond arm hair, so go figure that out. I was blonde as a child, maybe
that's why.

"Tim Lines" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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h squared said:

i don't actually care because i figured out that men will often still
[censored] you no matter how short you fall from matching their weirdo
preferences. as my bf says, "a willing woman is hot." i suppose getting
them to marry you is another story, but i haven't researched that area
too intensely

It's been a million years since I was single but...

As I recall, the statement by your bf is correct, but incomplete.
Nothing would make a 4'5", 300 lb woman hot. Within the acceptable
range, however, I think he's pretty much on the mark.

--

Well, it may not be your cup of tea, but a woman like that could be hot for
SOMEONE. ANd even fat women can be willing. It's just that you might not
find her to be hot.

In article <[email hidden]>,

Marlene Blanshay said:

"Tim Lines" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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h squared said:

i don't actually care because i figured out that men will often still
[censored] you no matter how short you fall from matching their weirdo
preferences. as my bf says, "a willing woman is hot." i suppose getting
them to marry you is another story, but i haven't researched that area
too intensely

It's been a million years since I was single but...

As I recall, the statement by your bf is correct, but incomplete.
Nothing would make a 4'5", 300 lb woman hot. Within the acceptable
range, however, I think he's pretty much on the mark.

--

Well, it may not be your cup of tea, but a woman like that could be hot for
SOMEONE. ANd even fat women can be willing. It's just that you might not
find her to be hot.

They say that alcohol can be helpful in those situations. Lots of
alcohol...

--
tanx,
Howard

So far, so good, so what?

remove YOUR SHOES to reply, ok?

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From: "Marlene Blanshay" [email hidden]

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Yeah,'EVEN' me, whaddo I know, I'm just a clueless brunette.LOL.

ANd that's even funnier. Guys will be all hot over blondes and fetishize
them even if it's FAKE! And you don't even need to see the 'cuffs'. Just
look at the eyebrows or eyelashes. Arm hair sometimes, although I actually
have blond arm hair, so go figure that out. I was blonde as a child, maybe
that's why.

Sorry when I googled it up it gave me the article, but on going back it asks
for registration.
www.globeandmail.com/servlet/ArticleNews/
front/RTGAM/20021002/wblond1002/Front/homeBN/breakingnews

Blondes aren't going away

Canadian Press
Toronto — It's almost an irresistible story for journalists: the World Health
Organization publishes a study predicting the gene responsible for natural
blond hair will be extinct by the year 2202.

One of the original reports:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/2284783.stm

Bill C

Marlene Blanshay said:

ANd that's even funnier. Guys will be all hot over blondes and fetishize
them even if it's FAKE! And you don't even need to see the 'cuffs'. Just
look at the eyebrows or eyelashes. Arm hair sometimes

Sometimes back hair.

h squared said:

Marlene Blanshay said:

I don't know what the big thing is with blondes.
Maybe it's blond pubic hair. Geez, big deal,it's [censored] hair color
guys!

being a blonde, i'll cheer you up by relating that men will go out of
their way to tell me that they don't like blondes.

i don't actually care because i figured out that men will often still
[censored] you no matter how short you fall from matching their weirdo
preferences. as my bf says, "a willing woman is hot." i suppose getting
them to marry you is another story, but i haven't researched that area
too intensely

i wish i could find it online because i have a terrible memory, but i
"remember" some study where they had a bunch of guys wear t shirts for a
day. then they asked women to smell the shirts (without seeing the men)
and to pick the one they thought smelled the most sexually attractive.
and the women picked the men who smelled similar to their fathers.

heather "who's your daddy" h

I thought they picked men who were genetically dissimilar to themselves.

--
Bob M
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On Sun, 1 Aug 2004 00:25:42 -0400, Marlene Blanshay <[email hidden]>

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"yeahyeahyeah" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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When guys get so "shocked" that, for example, Lance may prefer blondes
(who may resemble Mom) I really have to laugh.

I'm a woman -- (I created a new email account for this post, trust
me!) -- and have found that every man seems to be drawn to a
particular type of woman. I'm a redhead. When I'm out and about, a
disproportionate number of redheaded guys will check me out. Why?
Gee, I probably look just like Mom did once.

How many times have I seen guys place an ad like this on a dating
site: "I only want a blonde -- 5'5" to 5'8" -- 105 to 120 pounds --
can have blue or green eyes only -- NO BROWN EYES, PLEASE." Why such
an overwhelmingly narrow focus? Hmmmm.

Anyhow, my experience is that each guy has a template of sorts that he
compares each woman to. If the woman fits the detailed "looks" list,
she's in.

So leave Lance alone. Every single guy I've ever met does the same
thing, in his own way.

I really don't have such a narrow focus. For instance, my mother is
brunette, but I'd love to go out with a true redhead (but never have and
likely never will). I personally look more for personality, as looks are
just looks, but any type of serious long term relationship is going to
need personality.

--
Bob M
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Bob M said:

I thought they picked men who were genetically dissimilar to themselves.

you mean men are trying to marry women who remind them of mom while on
the other hand women are trying to get men who are genetically
dissimilar to themselves? i don't have a clue how it really works, but
the amount of frustration involved with that scenario seems pretty
realistic to me.

heather