My precious darling boy...

In article <[email hidden]>,

DappleAndWasser said:

can cry any time that he wants and he will be comforted, as
long as his crying is not trying to manipulate others. Just
because he cries and is comforted does not mean that he is
going to get whatever he wants.

He is so incredibly precious.

....etc etc etc.

What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway? Were you
concerned that someone here might have swallowed a toxic
substance and had no ipecac available?

(As a counteragent to the posting, I suggest "Benjy: A
Ferocious Fairy Tale" by Edwin O'Connor. It's out of print,
but your library might have it. Hilarous, and Benjy's mother
will remind you of Roger Bird.)

-- David Wright :: alphabeta at prodigy.net These are my
opinions only, but they're almost always correct. "If I
have not seen as far as others, it is because giants were
standing on my shoulders." (Hal Abelson, MIT)

I suggest it to be different in the western style, I know
families living in southeastern Asia, visited their homes,
noticed even though they had many bedrooms empty but many
times, many time the child would sleep with mom right up to
20 years old. I heard this is very common and can go on
until later on in life. I had to laugh, I helped some Asian
students with their studies here in the west, I tried to
explain to one what a nursing home was, the old folks home
as we sugar coat it. She didn't understand why I had empty
rooms but mamma had to stay at the nursing home. She also
made a dime income in the west and she sent a dime over to
mamma and papa. Even though the parents pay dearly for their
childs expenses here in the west, the Asian child still sent
as much as she could to the parents. Feels an owing to the
parents for birth and university etc. This lasts forever.
Totally different in the west. I think the western human
being requires more nurturing and longer than any other
organism or life on earth.

"DappleAndWasser" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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can cry any time that he wants and he will be comforted,
as long as his crying is not trying to manipulate others.
Just because he cries and is comforted does not mean that
he is going to get whatever he wants.

He is so incredibly precious. Sometimes he will just cry
"I need love" immediately upon discovering that his
manipulative crying pisses me off, and then he will get
all of the love and affection that he wants, but he will
still not get that candy that he wanted. LOVE IS NOT
PERMISSIVENESS. Love definitely includes hugs and kisses.

(And, BTW, he did not get circumcized. I told the hospital
that he could be circumcized, but only over my dead body.)

signed: Mitchell's incredibly proud and lucky Daddy.

P.S. Is it OK to worship the ground that your children
walk on? Is it OK to cover them with kisses? Is it
OK to love your 5 year old so much that he wants to
ride "Daddy-back" all day long? I sure hope so
because I would not want to be politically
incorrect.

P.S.S. It seems that our culture is struggling between the
duality of loving/affection and order/discipline. I
have risen above that duality and have mastered it. I
pour love and affection on my children and I also keep
them in line. Does anyone have a problem with that?

[email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message news:<[email hidden]>...

Quoted message said:

What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

Actually, it was in response to someone concerned
about circumcision, but this board does not always
respond as expected.

It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show
that they are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only
pretend to care about other people. Their real purpose is to
destroy and hurt because they have black hearts and are paid
by other evil scum-bags to discredit anything that shows
promise or light or goodness.

In article <[email hidden]>,

DappleAndWasser said:

[email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
news:<[email hidden]>...

Quoted message said:

What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about
circumcision, but this board does not always respond as
expected.

You can say that again -- since your posting wasn't a follow-
up to another and the mention of circumcision came out of
the clear blue.

Quoted message said:

It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and
show that they are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who
only pretend to care about other people.

It did nothing of the sort. It was a specious bit of treacle
that had nothing to do with alternative medicine. It was
just you, boasting about what a wonderful parent you are.
Except for the part where you got to beat your tiny chest
about how you kept those bad doctors (or whoever it was)
from circumcizing your son.

[If they wanted to circumcize your daughter, I'd be very
much opposed to that.]

Quoted message said:

Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because they have
black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

Your posting showed none of the three. Man, you
*couldn't* pay me to read that kind of [censored]. I'm not that
in need of money.

-- David Wright :: alphabeta at prodigy.net These are my
opinions only, but they're almost always correct. "If I
have not seen as far as others, it is because giants were
standing on my shoulders." (Hal Abelson, MIT)

"Jan" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Quoted message said:

Subject: Re: My precious darling boy... From:
[email hidden] (DappleAndWasser) Date: 5/31/2004
8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time Message-id:
<[email hidden]>

[email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
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Quoted message said:

What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about
circumcision, but this board does not always respond as
expected.

It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and
show that they are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot
who only pretend to care about other people. Their real
purpose is to destroy and hurt because they have black
hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to discredit
anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think
emotions are a

weakness.

Quoted message said:

Their loss.

That's [censored]. Do you imagine that Mark Probert loves his
children with less fervor than DandW loves his own? Do you
think that Hulda Clark has more capacity to appreciate the
beauty of a sunset than does orac? Does the astronomer feel
awe when contemplating the Milky Way, or do you surmise that
he coldly sees only flaming bags of gas?

You could not be more wrong, Jan. Again, [censored]!

--Rich

"Jan" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Quoted message said:

Subject: Re: My precious darling boy... From:
[email hidden] (DappleAndWasser) Date: 5/31/2004
8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time Message-id:
<[email hidden]>

[email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
news:<[email hidden]>...

Quoted message said:

What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about
circumcision, but this board does not always respond as
expected.

It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and
show that they are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot
who only pretend to care about other people. Their real
purpose is to destroy and hurt because they have black
hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to discredit
anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think
emotions are a

weakness.

You are nuts. Emotions are a strength, and, for you to say
that on Memorial Day, is despicable.

It is people like you who make me feel that I should have
gone to Canada.

Quoted message said:

Their loss.

Take care Roger and God Bless.

Jan

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Rich Shewmaker said:

"Jan" <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:20040601021256.20909.00000198@mb-
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Quoted message said:

Subject: Re: My precious darling boy... From:
[email hidden] (DappleAndWasser) Date:
5/31/2004 8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time Message-id:
<[email hidden]>

[email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
news:<[email hidden]>...
>
> What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about
circumcision, but this board does not always respond as
expected.

It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and
show that they are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot
who only pretend to care about other people. Their real
purpose is to destroy and hurt because they have black
hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to discredit
anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think
emotions are a weakness. Their loss.

That's [censored]. Do you imagine that Mark Probert loves his
children with less fervor than DandW loves his own? Do you
think that Hulda Clark has more capacity to appreciate the
beauty of a sunset than does orac? Does the astronomer feel
awe when contemplating the Milky Way, or do you surmise
that he coldly sees only flaming bags of gas?

I mostly see flaming bags of gas when I contemplate Roger
Bird or Jan Drew.

-- David Wright :: alphabeta at prodigy.net These are my
opinions only, but they're almost always correct. "If I
have not seen as far as others, it is because giants were
standing on my shoulders." (Hal Abelson, MIT)

(Jan) said:

The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think
emotions are a weakness. Their loss.

Well, well, well... Jan Drew talks about a "gang". THE gang,
the REAL one, is the naturopath mafia, which cashes in the
big bucks...

And Jan Drew is their advertizing agency.

Jan Drew seeds hatred and spreads false information, and
plain lies, day for day.

More about Jan Drew :

geocities.comQuackery.htmlOpen ↗

To fall for the lies of Jan Drew can be a terrible risk for
the life of you and your children.

Regards,

Aribert Deckers
--
Aktion "Hilfe für Florian und andere"
Gemeinsam gegen Leukämie

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