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  1. can cry any time that he wants and he will be comforted, as long as
    his crying is not trying to manipulate others. Just because he cries
    and is comforted does not mean that he is going to get whatever he
    wants.

    He is so incredibly precious. Sometimes he will just cry "I need
    love" immediately upon discovering that his manipulative crying pisses
    me off, and then he will get all of the love and affection that he
    wants, but he will still not get that candy that he wanted. LOVE IS
    NOT PERMISSIVENESS. Love definitely includes hugs and kisses.

    (And, BTW, he did not get circumcized. I told the hospital that he
    could be circumcized, but only over my dead body.)

    signed: Mitchell's incredibly proud and lucky Daddy.

    P.S. Is it OK to worship the ground that your children walk on? Is
    it OK to cover them with kisses? Is it OK to love your 5 year old so
    much that he wants to ride "Daddy-back" all day long? I sure hope so
    because I would not want to be politically incorrect.

    P.S.S. It seems that our culture is struggling between the duality of
    loving/affection and order/discipline. I have risen above that
    duality and have mastered it. I pour love and affection on my
    children and I also keep them in line. Does anyone have a problem
    with that?

  2. In article <[email hidden]>,

    DappleAndWasser said:

    can cry any time that he wants and he will be comforted, as long as
    his crying is not trying to manipulate others. Just because he cries
    and is comforted does not mean that he is going to get whatever he
    wants.

    He is so incredibly precious.

    .....etc etc etc.

    What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway? Were you concerned
    that someone here might have swallowed a toxic substance and had no
    ipecac available?

    (As a counteragent to the posting, I suggest "Benjy: A Ferocious Fairy
    Tale" by Edwin O'Connor. It's out of print, but your library might
    have it. Hilarous, and Benjy's mother will remind you of Roger Bird.)

    -- David Wright :: alphabeta at prodigy.net
    These are my opinions only, but they're almost always correct.
    "If I have not seen as far as others, it is because giants
    were standing on my shoulders." (Hal Abelson, MIT)

  3. I suggest it to be different in the western style, I know families living in
    southeastern Asia, visited their homes, noticed even though they had many
    bedrooms empty but many times, many time the child would sleep with mom
    right up to 20 years old. I heard this is very common and can go on until
    later on in life.
    I had to laugh, I helped some Asian students with their studies here in the
    west, I tried to explain to one what a nursing home was, the old folks home
    as we sugar coat it. She didn't understand why I had empty rooms but mamma
    had to stay at the nursing home.
    She also made a dime income in the west and she sent a dime over to mamma
    and papa. Even though the parents pay dearly for their childs expenses here
    in the west, the Asian child still sent as much as she could to the parents.
    Feels an owing to the parents for birth and university etc. This lasts
    forever. Totally different in the west. I think the western human being
    requires more nurturing and longer than any other organism or life on earth.

    "DappleAndWasser" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    can cry any time that he wants and he will be comforted, as long as
    his crying is not trying to manipulate others. Just because he cries
    and is comforted does not mean that he is going to get whatever he
    wants.

    He is so incredibly precious. Sometimes he will just cry "I need
    love" immediately upon discovering that his manipulative crying pisses
    me off, and then he will get all of the love and affection that he
    wants, but he will still not get that candy that he wanted. LOVE IS
    NOT PERMISSIVENESS. Love definitely includes hugs and kisses.

    (And, BTW, he did not get circumcized. I told the hospital that he
    could be circumcized, but only over my dead body.)

    signed: Mitchell's incredibly proud and lucky Daddy.

    P.S. Is it OK to worship the ground that your children walk on? Is
    it OK to cover them with kisses? Is it OK to love your 5 year old so
    much that he wants to ride "Daddy-back" all day long? I sure hope so
    because I would not want to be politically incorrect.

    P.S.S. It seems that our culture is struggling between the duality of
    loving/affection and order/discipline. I have risen above that
    duality and have mastered it. I pour love and affection on my
    children and I also keep them in line. Does anyone have a problem
    with that?

  4. [email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message news:<[email hidden]>...

    Quoted message said:


    What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

    Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    but this board does not always respond as expected.

    It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that they
    are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to care
    about other people. Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because
    they have black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
    discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

  5. Quoted message said:

    Subject: Re: My precious darling boy...
    From: [email hidden] (DappleAndWasser)
    Date: 5/31/2004 8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time
    Message-id: <[email hidden]>

    [email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
    news:<[email hidden]>...

    Quoted message said:


    What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

    Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    but this board does not always respond as expected.

    It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that they
    are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to care
    about other people. Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because
    they have black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
    discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

    The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think emotions are a weakness.
    Their loss.

    Take care Roger and God Bless.

    Jan

  6. "Jan" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Subject: Re: My precious darling boy...
    From: [email hidden] (DappleAndWasser)
    Date: 5/31/2004 8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time
    Message-id: <[email hidden]>

    [email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
    news:<[email hidden]>...

    Quoted message said:


    What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

    Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    but this board does not always respond as expected.

    It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that they
    are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to care
    about other people. Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because
    they have black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
    discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

    The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think emotions are a


    weakness.

    Quoted message said:

    Their loss.

    That's [censored]. Do you imagine that Mark Probert loves his children with
    less fervor than DandW loves his own? Do you think that Hulda Clark has more
    capacity to appreciate the beauty of a sunset than does orac? Does the
    astronomer feel awe when contemplating the Milky Way, or do you surmise that
    he coldly sees only flaming bags of gas?

    You could not be more wrong, Jan. Again, [censored]!

    --Rich

  7. Quoted message said:

    [email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
    news:<[email hidden]>...

    Quoted message said:


    What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

    Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    but this board does not always respond as expected.

    It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that they
    are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to care
    about other people. Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because
    they have black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
    discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

    <Blushing Crimson>
    <Sound of EOM Electronically crediting my bank account for this post>
    <Cha-Ching!>

  8. Quoted message said:


    "Jan" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Subject: Re: My precious darling boy...
    From: [email hidden] (DappleAndWasser)
    Date: 5/31/2004 8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time
    Message-id: <[email hidden]>

    [email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
    news:<[email hidden]>...
    >
    > What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

    Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    but this board does not always respond as expected.

    It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that they
    are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to care
    about other people. Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because
    they have black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
    discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

    The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think emotions are a


    weakness.

    Quoted message said:

    Their loss.

    That's [censored]. Do you imagine that Mark Probert loves his children with
    less fervor than DandW loves his own? Do you think that Hulda Clark has more
    capacity to appreciate the beauty of a sunset than does orac? Does the
    astronomer feel awe when contemplating the Milky Way, or do you surmise that
    he coldly sees only flaming bags of gas?

    Well, in fairness, when I see Jan Drew, Gymmie Bob, rb, or DrC, I'm seeing bags
    of steaming feces. Of course, I only see the good in people, so I'm
    overlooking a lot of their egregious faults.

    Quoted message said:


    You could not be more wrong, Jan. Again, [censored]!

    Hear, hear! She thinks that having a REAL education makes a person less human
    & less humane. No wonder she likes Hulda so damn much.

    Quoted message said:

    --Rich

  9. "Jan" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Subject: Re: My precious darling boy...
    From: [email hidden] (DappleAndWasser)
    Date: 5/31/2004 8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time
    Message-id: <[email hidden]>

    [email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
    news:<[email hidden]>...

    Quoted message said:


    What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

    Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    but this board does not always respond as expected.

    It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that they
    are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to care
    about other people. Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because
    they have black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
    discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

    The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think emotions are a


    weakness.

    You are nuts. Emotions are a strength, and, for you to say that on Memorial
    Day, is despicable.

    It is people like you who make me feel that I should have gone to Canada.

    Quoted message said:

    Their loss.

    Take care Roger and God Bless.

    Jan

  10. In article <[email hidden]>,

    DappleAndWasser said:

    [email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
    news:<[email hidden]>...

    Quoted message said:


    What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

    Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    but this board does not always respond as expected.

    You can say that again -- since your posting wasn't a follow-up
    to another and the mention of circumcision came out of the clear
    blue.

    Quoted message said:

    It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that
    they are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to
    care about other people.

    It did nothing of the sort. It was a specious bit of treacle that had
    nothing to do with alternative medicine. It was just you, boasting
    about what a wonderful parent you are. Except for the part where you
    got to beat your tiny chest about how you kept those bad doctors (or
    whoever it was) from circumcizing your son.

    [If they wanted to circumcize your daughter, I'd be very much opposed
    to that.]

    Quoted message said:

    Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because they have black
    hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to discredit anything
    that shows promise or light or goodness.

    Your posting showed none of the three. Man, you *couldn't* pay me to
    read that kind of [censored]. I'm not that in need of money.

    -- David Wright :: alphabeta at prodigy.net
    These are my opinions only, but they're almost always correct.
    "If I have not seen as far as others, it is because giants
    were standing on my shoulders." (Hal Abelson, MIT)

  11. In article <[email hidden]>,

    Rich Shewmaker said:


    "Jan" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Subject: Re: My precious darling boy...
    From: [email hidden] (DappleAndWasser)
    Date: 5/31/2004 8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time
    Message-id: <[email hidden]>

    [email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
    news:<[email hidden]>...
    >
    > What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?

    Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    but this board does not always respond as expected.

    It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that they
    are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to care
    about other people. Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because
    they have black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
    discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

    The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think emotions are a
    weakness. Their loss.

    That's [censored]. Do you imagine that Mark Probert loves his children with
    less fervor than DandW loves his own? Do you think that Hulda Clark has more
    capacity to appreciate the beauty of a sunset than does orac? Does the
    astronomer feel awe when contemplating the Milky Way, or do you surmise that
    he coldly sees only flaming bags of gas?

    I mostly see flaming bags of gas when I contemplate Roger Bird or Jan
    Drew.

    -- David Wright :: alphabeta at prodigy.net
    These are my opinions only, but they're almost always correct.
    "If I have not seen as far as others, it is because giants
    were standing on my shoulders." (Hal Abelson, MIT)

  12. Quoted message said:

    In article <[email hidden]>,

    Rich Shewmaker said:


    "Jan" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    >Subject: Re: My precious darling boy...
    >From: [email hidden] (DappleAndWasser)
    >Date: 5/31/2004 8:56 PM Pacific Standard Time
    >Message-id: <[email hidden]>
    >
    >[email hidden] (David Wright) wrote in message
    >news:<[email hidden]>...
    >>
    >> What is this emetic glurge doing on m.h.a, anyway?
    >
    >Actually, it was in response to someone concerned about circumcision,
    >but this board does not always respond as expected.
    >
    >It also served the purpose of drawing out debunkers and show that they
    >are basically an evil, mean-spirited lot who only pretend to care
    >about other people. Their real purpose is to destroy and hurt because
    >they have black hearts and are paid by other evil scum-bags to
    >discredit anything that shows promise or light or goodness.

    The *gang* behavior here is very sad, They also think emotions are a
    weakness. Their loss.

    That's [censored]. Do you imagine that Mark Probert loves his children with
    less fervor than DandW loves his own? Do you think that Hulda Clark has more
    capacity to appreciate the beauty of a sunset than does orac? Does the
    astronomer feel awe when contemplating the Milky Way, or do you surmise that
    he coldly sees only flaming bags of gas?

    I mostly see flaming bags of gas when I contemplate Roger Bird or Jan
    Drew.

    I think the phrase you want is "Steaming Bags of Feces"....

    <Sam Kinison voice> Say It! Say It!!!!!

    Quoted message said:

    -- David Wright ::

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