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  1. Hi all,

    I usually lurk, but my morning commute story from today is a good one, and
    my SO who I usually share my stories with is out of town, so . . .

    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red. Looked to me like a fairly new rider as the bike looked
    quite new, as did the rack, trunk, and accessories he had along with it -
    for you gearheads, looked like a Cannondale Bad Boy with disc brakes with a
    little bell on the handlebar (I didn't hear a bell when he passed me at the
    red light, though he dinged it for a cyclist we passed later on). So, I
    catch up to him and as I'm passing, I look over and say "You need to obey
    the traffic laws." I didn't say it angrily or flip him off or anything like
    that, but just made a plain statement. Apparently, he didn't hear me the
    first time, so I turn around and state it again, at which point I ride off.
    I wasn't going much faster than him, but fast enough that at the end of this
    particular stretch of road (~3/4 miles), I would've put about 60-70 yards on
    him probably.

    Well, a few moments later, he passes me on my left and moves over back into
    the bike lane right in front of me, at which point I say - "Since you can go
    so fast, you can stop at red lights." Still no reply, which is fine, and
    passing me is fine as well since I just sat on his wheel for the rest of
    that stretch of road. It was quite clear though that he was putting out
    more effort than normal as his pace dropped 5-6 mph from after passing me to
    when he turned off in a 1/2 mile or so (and No, I don't think he was slowing
    down on purpose, since he seemed to be putting quite a bit of effort into it
    still, and not just sitting up or coasting). No problem though for me - I
    just sat there on the wheel, as I wasn't going to pull his ass anywhere.
    Funny though - if that's the way other cyclist pay you back, I might be
    tempted to [censored] more ppl off just so I can get the free pull.

    Also, when he turned off, it was through a red light and around a car
    waiting for the left turn in front of oncoming traffic (though a little ways
    off). I'm torn, as it's nice to see cyclists on the road commuting and
    whatnot, but as more people move to cycling, I think there'll be more jerks
    giving cyclists bad names on the road. Licenses for cycling seems stupid to
    me, but it seems there needs to be a way to educate new cyclist somehow -
    I'm not as concerned for their safety as I am the retaliation from drivers
    who get annoyed by them.

    Oh well - Great Riding,
    Geoff

  2. Geoff S said:

    Hi all,

    I usually lurk, but my morning commute story from today is a good one, and
    my SO who I usually share my stories with is out of town, so . . .

    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red. Looked to me like a fairly new rider as the bike looked
    quite new, as did the rack, trunk, and accessories he had along with it -
    for you gearheads, looked like a Cannondale Bad Boy with disc brakes with a
    little bell on the handlebar (I didn't hear a bell when he passed me at the
    red light, though he dinged it for a cyclist we passed later on). So, I
    catch up to him and as I'm passing, I look over and say "You need to obey
    the traffic laws." I didn't say it angrily or flip him off or anything like
    that, but just made a plain statement. Apparently, he didn't hear me the
    first time, so I turn around and state it again, at which point I ride off.
    I wasn't going much faster than him, but fast enough that at the end of this
    particular stretch of road (~3/4 miles), I would've put about 60-70 yards on
    him probably.

    Well, a few moments later, he passes me on my left and moves over back into
    the bike lane right in front of me, at which point I say - "Since you can go
    so fast, you can stop at red lights." Still no reply, which is fine, and
    passing me is fine as well since I just sat on his wheel for the rest of
    that stretch of road. It was quite clear though that he was putting out
    more effort than normal as his pace dropped 5-6 mph from after passing me to
    when he turned off in a 1/2 mile or so (and No, I don't think he was slowing
    down on purpose, since he seemed to be putting quite a bit of effort into it
    still, and not just sitting up or coasting). No problem though for me - I
    just sat there on the wheel, as I wasn't going to pull his ass anywhere.
    Funny though - if that's the way other cyclist pay you back, I might be
    tempted to [censored] more ppl off just so I can get the free pull.

    Also, when he turned off, it was through a red light and around a car
    waiting for the left turn in front of oncoming traffic (though a little ways
    off). I'm torn, as it's nice to see cyclists on the road commuting and
    whatnot, but as more people move to cycling, I think there'll be more jerks
    giving cyclists bad names on the road. Licenses for cycling seems stupid to
    me, but it seems there needs to be a way to educate new cyclist somehow -
    I'm not as concerned for their safety as I am the retaliation from drivers
    who get annoyed by them.

    Oh well - Great Riding,
    Geoff

    Just wondering if some of the contributers to the wrong way riding
    thread of last week are going to suggest that you should have pulled
    ahead of him and blocked his way--all in the spirit of education of
    course.

  3. Geoff S said:

    Hi all,

    I usually lurk, but my morning commute story from today is a good one, and
    my SO who I usually share my stories with is out of town, so . . .

    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red. Looked to me like a fairly new rider as the bike looked
    quite new, as did the rack, trunk, and accessories he had along with it -
    for you gearheads, looked like a Cannondale Bad Boy with disc brakes with a
    little bell on the handlebar (I didn't hear a bell when he passed me at the
    red light, though he dinged it for a cyclist we passed later on). So, I
    catch up to him and as I'm passing, I look over and say "You need to obey
    the traffic laws." I didn't say it angrily or flip him off or anything like
    that, but just made a plain statement. Apparently, he didn't hear me the
    first time, so I turn around and state it again, at which point I ride off.
    I wasn't going much faster than him, but fast enough that at the end of this
    particular stretch of road (~3/4 miles), I would've put about 60-70 yards on
    him probably.

    Well, a few moments later, he passes me on my left and moves over back into
    the bike lane right in front of me, at which point I say - "Since you can go
    so fast, you can stop at red lights." Still no reply, which is fine, and
    passing me is fine as well since I just sat on his wheel for the rest of
    that stretch of road. It was quite clear though that he was putting out
    more effort than normal as his pace dropped 5-6 mph from after passing me to
    when he turned off in a 1/2 mile or so (and No, I don't think he was slowing
    down on purpose, since he seemed to be putting quite a bit of effort into it
    still, and not just sitting up or coasting). No problem though for me - I
    just sat there on the wheel, as I wasn't going to pull his ass anywhere.
    Funny though - if that's the way other cyclist pay you back, I might be
    tempted to [censored] more ppl off just so I can get the free pull.

    Also, when he turned off, it was through a red light and around a car
    waiting for the left turn in front of oncoming traffic (though a little ways
    off). I'm torn, as it's nice to see cyclists on the road commuting and
    whatnot, but as more people move to cycling, I think there'll be more jerks
    giving cyclists bad names on the road. Licenses for cycling seems stupid to
    me, but it seems there needs to be a way to educate new cyclist somehow -
    I'm not as concerned for their safety as I am the retaliation from drivers
    who get annoyed by them.

    Oh well - Great Riding,
    Geoff

    FWIW, I think you approached it the wrong way. First off, if he wasn't
    aware of you, he probably didn't hear you the first time as his mind
    was elsewhere. When I'm cycling by myself, the last thing I'm
    expecting is for someone to talk to me.

    More importantly, repeated unsolicited advice from strangers is likely
    to be ignored. I'd suggest, for future situations, that you attempt to
    strike up a conversation and get to know the cyclist. This may take
    multiple meetings. If he is a noob and not a complete dolt, he'll ask
    for advice about commuting, once he knows that you're an old hand at
    it. At that point, you can strongly advise following all traffic laws.

    Free advice, worth every penny.

    Jeff

  4. "Geoff S" <[email hidden]> wrote in
    news:1152293877.712599@sj-nntpcache-3:

    Quoted message said:

    I'm not as concerned for their safety as I am the retaliation from
    drivers who get annoyed by them.

    Hey, your story was funny, but this strikes me as a non-productive
    attitude. If you aren't concerened about helping others learn, then maybe
    they won't, and then they will just keep on pissing off drivers who will go
    on to retaliate. Your worst fear! But, if you do take the time to care and
    help, then the good karma gets spread all around and fluffy bunnies play
    happily in fields of daisies.

    --
    fnood fneep gnip gnop
    http://greep.flood.nit
    [email hidden]

  5. Geoff S wrote:
    .. .

    Quoted message said:


    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red.

    If somebody treats a red as a yield and breaks the law, albeit safely,
    I STFU. If somebody runs a light, causing cars to jam their brakes, and
    creates actual risk, I usually catch up with them and say something
    nice like, "You f***ing blind, [censored]!?" Then I proceed merrily on my
    way. There's never any reason to get patronizing and pedantic when
    you're capable of cursing like an adult. :-P

  6. Geoff S said:

    As I was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red.

    Quoted message said:

    So, I
    catch up to him and as I'm passing, I look over and say "You need to obey
    the traffic laws."

    Quoted message said:

    Apparently, he didn't hear me the
    first time, so I turn around and state it again, at which point I ride off.

    Quoted message said:

    I say - "Since you can go
    so fast, you can stop at red lights."

    Quoted message said:

    No problem though for me - I
    just sat there on the wheel, as I wasn't going to pull his ass anywhere.

    Nice. Sanctimonious and vindictive. Personally, I hate it when some
    random person drafts me without asking. That's much higher on my list of
    "don'ts" than running red lights.

    Quoted message said:

    I'm not as concerned for their safety as I am the retaliation from drivers
    who get annoyed by them.

    So, all the crappy driver's behavior comes from "lawless" cyclists? And
    you can tell that how?

  7. Nice - selective quotation.

    Peter Cole said:


    Nice. Sanctimonious and vindictive.

    True, I was a bit annoyed at him running the light and then cutting me off.
    Perhaps not the best attitude I took in the first place, as others
    suggested, but that was my initial reaction.

    Quoted message said:

    Personally, I hate it when some random person drafts me without asking.
    That's much higher on my list of "don'ts" than running red lights.

    Well, look at it this way - if I pass someone who is going, on average,
    faster or as fast as I am, and then move right in front of them rather than
    putting some distance between us before moving over, I can only expect that
    they'll sit on my wheel for a bit. They're not going to just stop pedaling
    or slow down b/c I passed them. As one who also dislikes random ppl
    drafting me, I make it habit not to pass ppl who I realize I won't be able
    to drop after a short bit. Usually, not a problem since you probably won't
    catch up to them, but if you do - say, at a light - I let them have their
    space and won't sit on their wheel. The move today by the other cyclist was
    clearly vindictive, as well, not to say that eye-for-an-eye is a good
    policy. At the same time though, he was moving faster than me when he
    passed (obviously), and then (after cutting me off) as fast as me, and then
    for a short bit slower than my usual pace. Had he not turned off, I would
    have passed and tried to put some distance on him.

    Quoted message said:


    So, all the crappy driver's behavior comes from "lawless" cyclists? And
    you can tell that how?

    This statement is rediculous. I never said "all." Can I make a statement
    that there are drivers out there who dislike cyclists due in part to the
    law-breaking that they observe? Yes, I've spoken to quite a few. Can I say
    that there are drivers out there who might retaliate b/c of these
    observations, in one form or another? Perhaps not, but with all the road
    rage and car-on-car (read: cage-on-cage) stuff one reads and hears about,
    probably.

    Sure, I need to work on my approach to these cyclists, and with more on the
    road that advice is ever more emphasized.

    Cheers!
    Geoff

  8. Geoff S said:

    Hi all,

    I usually lurk, but my morning commute story from today is a good
    one, and my SO who I usually share my stories with is out of town, so
    . . .
    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red. Looked to me like a fairly new rider as the bike
    looked quite new, as did the rack, trunk, and accessories he had
    along with it - for you gearheads, looked like a Cannondale Bad Boy
    with disc brakes with a little bell on the handlebar (I didn't hear a
    bell when he passed me at the red light, though he dinged it for a
    cyclist we passed later on). So, I catch up to him and as I'm
    passing, I look over and say "You need to obey the traffic laws." I
    didn't say it angrily or flip him off or anything like that, but just
    made a plain statement. Apparently, he didn't hear me the first
    time, so I turn around and state it again, at which point I ride off.
    I wasn't going much faster than him, but fast enough that at the end
    of this particular stretch of road (~3/4 miles), I would've put about
    60-70 yards on him probably.
    Well, a few moments later, he passes me on my left and moves over
    back into the bike lane right in front of me, at which point I say -
    "Since you can go so fast, you can stop at red lights." Still no
    reply, which is fine, and passing me is fine as well since I just sat
    on his wheel for the rest of that stretch of road. It was quite
    clear though that he was putting out more effort than normal as his
    pace dropped 5-6 mph from after passing me to when he turned off in a
    1/2 mile or so (and No, I don't think he was slowing down on purpose,
    since he seemed to be putting quite a bit of effort into it still,
    and not just sitting up or coasting). No problem though for me - I
    just sat there on the wheel, as I wasn't going to pull his ass
    anywhere. Funny though - if that's the way other cyclist pay you
    back, I might be tempted to [censored] more ppl off just so I can get the
    free pull.
    Also, when he turned off, it was through a red light and around a car
    waiting for the left turn in front of oncoming traffic (though a
    little ways off). I'm torn, as it's nice to see cyclists on the road
    commuting and whatnot, but as more people move to cycling, I think
    there'll be more jerks giving cyclists bad names on the road. Licenses for
    cycling seems stupid to me, but it seems there needs to
    be a way to educate new cyclist somehow - I'm not as concerned for
    their safety as I am the retaliation from drivers who get annoyed by
    them.

    Unless what he's doing endangers /you/, I suggest MYOB.

    Sorni

  9. "landotter" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:


    Geoff S wrote:
    . .

    Quoted message said:


    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red.

    If somebody treats a red as a yield and breaks the law, albeit safely,
    I STFU. If somebody runs a light, causing cars to jam their brakes, and
    creates actual risk, I usually catch up with them and say something
    nice like, "You f***ing blind, [censored]!?" Then I proceed merrily on my
    way. There's never any reason to get patronizing and pedantic when
    you're capable of cursing like an adult. :-P

    That's a good way to rile up a psycho and escalate a traffic issue into a
    violent situation.

  10. Gooserider said:

    "landotter" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:


    Geoff S wrote:
    . .

    Quoted message said:


    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red.

    If somebody treats a red as a yield and breaks the law, albeit safely,
    I STFU. If somebody runs a light, causing cars to jam their brakes, and
    creates actual risk, I usually catch up with them and say something
    nice like, "You f***ing blind, [censored]!?" Then I proceed merrily on my
    way. There's never any reason to get patronizing and pedantic when
    you're capable of cursing like an adult. :-P

    That's a good way to rile up a psycho and escalate a traffic issue into a
    violent situation.

    They'll have to catch me first. The risk is worth the catharsis.

    Always check for guns or bulky clothing first, as you never
    know--getting a spear in the neck is soooo not aero.

  11. In article <[email hidden]>,
    [email hidden] says...

    Quoted message said:


    Always check for guns or bulky clothing first, as you never
    know--getting a spear in the neck is soooo not aero.


    ^^^^^
    What, you ride with Vikings and longshoremen? And I thought Chicago was
    tough...

    --

    __o Kristian Zoerhoff
    _'\(,_ [email hidden]
    (_)/ (_)

  12. On Fri, 7 Jul 2006 10:37:57 -0700, "Geoff S" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    Hi all,

    I usually lurk, but my morning commute story from today is a good one, and
    my SO who I usually share my stories with is out of town, so . . .

    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red. Looked to me like a fairly new rider as the bike looked
    quite new, as did the rack, trunk, and accessories he had along with it -
    for you gearheads, looked like a Cannondale Bad Boy with disc brakes with a
    little bell on the handlebar (I didn't hear a bell when he passed me at the
    red light, though he dinged it for a cyclist we passed later on). So, I
    catch up to him and as I'm passing, I look over and say "You need to obey
    the traffic laws." I didn't say it angrily or flip him off or anything like
    that, but just made a plain statement. Apparently, he didn't hear me the
    first time, so I turn around and state it again, at which point I ride off.
    I wasn't going much faster than him, but fast enough that at the end of this
    particular stretch of road (~3/4 miles), I would've put about 60-70 yards on
    him probably.
    ...

    I run red lights routinely. My commute is 80 minutes. Stopping for
    every red light (I'm in NYC) would add another half hour to the total
    and I just can't kill another hour each day. Believe it or not, the
    lights are timed for cars, not bikes. I can make maybe three or four
    lights at a time, then I hit a red. Of course, virtually all of our
    lights are one ways and I try to stay on whichever side of the road is
    cleared by turning cars.

    I am very respectful of pedestrians and cars who have the right of way
    or even don't have the right of way. But I'm not going to sit at a
    light just to cool my heels.

  13. Geoff S said:


    I'm torn, as it's nice to see cyclists on the road commuting and
    whatnot, but as more people move to cycling, I think there'll be more jerks
    giving cyclists bad names on the road. Licenses for cycling seems stupid to
    me, but it seems there needs to be a way to educate new cyclist somehow -

    Once cycling becomes more commonplace, you'll see cycle training of
    children and similar things become more commonplace. Right now it's a
    minority, mostly solo activity. There will always be people who act
    like horses patoots, the best you can hope is to make them a minority
    and hope they are cited by the police if they do anything too
    egregious.

    Quoted message said:

    I'm not as concerned for their safety as I am the retaliation from drivers
    who get annoyed by them.

    Doubtful. There seems to be a large body of experience showing that
    people who attack other people with their vehicles rarely even have that
    much justification. It's simply a case of xenophobia in most cases.
    Attacking the *other* because it's *other*. The motivations given later
    for the attack usually smack of rationalization after the fact.

    --
    Dane Buson - [email hidden]
    "When two people are under the influence of the most violent,
    most insane, most delusive, and most transient of passions,
    they are required to swear that they will remain in that
    excited, abnormal and exhausting condition until death do
    them part." -George Bernard Shaw

  14. Kristian M Zoerhoff said:

    In article <[email hidden]>,
    [email hidden] says...

    Quoted message said:


    Always check for guns or bulky clothing first, as you never
    know--getting a spear in the neck is soooo not aero.


    ^^^^^
    What, you ride with Vikings and longshoremen? And I thought Chicago was
    tough...

    Just being hyperbolic. :P

    I commuted for quite a few years in the Chicago core. From 97 to 01 or
    so. It aint tough unless you messenger, otherwise a fantastic city for
    cyclists. Winter especially. Riding with fenders beats the [censored] out of
    getting wet feet waiting for the bus or freezing to death on a train
    platform.

  15. <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:


    More importantly, repeated unsolicited advice from strangers is likely
    to be ignored.

    Or, worse, get you in an argument you'd rather not have.

  16. In article <1152293877.712599@sj-nntpcache-3>,

    Geoff S said:

    Hi all,

    I usually lurk, but my morning commute story from today is a good one, and
    my SO who I usually share my stories with is out of town, so . . .

    AsI was waiting at a red light today, a fairly big guy rides by going
    through the red. Looked to me like a fairly new rider as the bike looked
    quite new, as did the rack, trunk, and accessories he had along with it -
    for you gearheads, looked like a Cannondale Bad Boy with disc brakes with a
    little bell on the handlebar (I didn't hear a bell when he passed me at the
    red light, though he dinged it for a cyclist we passed later on). So, I
    catch up to him and as I'm passing, I look over and say "You need to obey


    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    Quoted message said:

    the traffic laws."


    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    Such imperative sentences can be confrontational. Which can
    be good if you really wanna start something. But I think you
    were sincerely trying for a softer, more diplomatic approach.

    Quoted message said:

    I didn't say it angrily or flip him off or anything like
    that, but just made a plain statement. Apparently, he didn't hear me the
    first time, so I turn around and state it again, at which point I ride off.
    I wasn't going much faster than him, but fast enough that at the end of this
    particular stretch of road (~3/4 miles), I would've put about 60-70 yards on
    him probably.

    Well, a few moments later, he passes me on my left and moves over back into
    the bike lane right in front of me, at which point I say - "Since you can go


    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    Quoted message said:

    so fast, you can stop at red lights." Still no reply, which is fine, and


    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    And maybe that might have sounded a little sarcastic to the
    red light runner guy.

    Quoted message said:

    passing me is fine as well since I just sat on his wheel for the rest of
    that stretch of road. It was quite clear though that he was putting out
    more effort than normal as his pace dropped 5-6 mph from after passing me to
    when he turned off in a 1/2 mile or so (and No, I don't think he was slowing
    down on purpose, since he seemed to be putting quite a bit of effort into it
    still, and not just sitting up or coasting). No problem though for me - I
    just sat there on the wheel, as I wasn't going to pull his ass anywhere.
    Funny though - if that's the way other cyclist pay you back, I might be
    tempted to [censored] more ppl off just so I can get the free pull.

    Some of my routes have cyclists' pushbutton-controlled traffic lights.
    I rather like having someone ahead of me to push the buttons for me.

    Quoted message said:

    Also, when he turned off, it was through a red light and around a car
    waiting for the left turn in front of oncoming traffic (though a little ways
    off). I'm torn, as it's nice to see cyclists on the road commuting and
    whatnot, but as more people move to cycling, I think there'll be more jerks
    giving cyclists bad names on the road.

    Some folks just ride the same way as they drive -- selfishly and
    inconsiderately. I often see them at stop lines waiting for
    cross traffic, where, instead of forming an orderly queue (or
    at least a masse start,) they butt-in in front of whomever's at
    the front of the line, until some of 'em are actually infringing
    on the cross-traffic. Then they've gotta ride around in stoopid
    little circles (sometimes not so little, to the chagrine of other
    street users) to avoid getting hit while waiting for the light
    to change. There's a strange property of bicycles, where a lot
    of people -- including some fellow riders -- just don't like
    seeing a bicycle in front of them.

    Quoted message said:

    Licenses for cycling seems stupid to
    me, but it seems there needs to be a way to educate new cyclist somehow -
    I'm not as concerned for their safety as I am the retaliation from drivers


    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    Quoted message said:

    who get annoyed by them.


    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    That seems to be a common intuitive conclusion a lot of people
    reach, but I seriously question its validity.

    cheers,
    Tom

    --
    -- Nothing is safe from me.
    Above address is just a spam midden.
    I'm really at: tkeats [curlicue] vcn [point] bc [point] ca

  17. Bill Sornson said:


    Unless what he's doing endangers /you/, I suggest MYOB.

    Sorni

    That's also my attitude. I rarely say anything critical to other bike
    riders. The most frequent occasion is kids riding at night with no lights
    or reflectors, who are a huge danger to themselves. My remarks emphasize
    their invisibility, something like: "You should know I could barely see
    you. You really need to get a tail light."

  18. If someone on a bicycle does something that immediately puts me at risk
    (wrong way, no lights on a narrow dark bike path, etc.) I frequently say
    something, more as a means of venting my irritation than anything else.
    I seriously doubt that any of the people I've yelled "right side of the
    road" or "get some lights" at gave a damn about my advice. It's probably
    just as well that the people I yelled this at were going in the opposite
    direction.

    I would be rather annoyed if someone chased me down and bothered me
    repeatedly with unwanted advice, no matter how well intentioned or
    valuable the advice was. If you do this enough times someone is probably
    going to respond with physical violence.

    Just my $.02 worth.

    mark

  19. Ron Wallenfang said:

    "Bill Sornson" wrote:

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Unless what he's doing endangers /you/, I suggest MYOB.

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    That's also my attitude. I rarely say anything critical to other bike
    riders. The most frequent occasion is kids riding at night with no
    lights or reflectors, who are a huge danger to themselves. My
    remarks emphasize their invisibility, something like: "You should
    know I could barely see you. You really need to get a tail light."

    Yup. Even then I might say instead, "You might want to get a...." or "You
    should get a..." rather than "need to".

    No one likes to be lectured...unless they're around Frank F., that is! LOL

  20. Geoff S said:

    "Peter Cole" <[email hidden]> wrote:

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    So, all the crappy driver's behavior comes from "lawless" cyclists? And
    you can tell that how?

    This statement is rediculous. I never said "all." Can I make a statement
    that there are drivers out there who dislike cyclists due in part to the
    law-breaking that they observe? Yes, I've spoken to quite a few. Can I say
    that there are drivers out there who might retaliate b/c of these
    observations, in one form or another? Perhaps not, but with all the road
    rage and car-on-car (read: cage-on-cage) stuff one reads and hears about,
    probably.

    This is pure speculation on your part. My suspicion is that your opinion
    is just made-up justification for your sanctimoniousness. Perhaps the
    vindictiveness you imagine in car drivers is just a reflection of your own.

    I hold drivers responsible for their behavior, period. If a cyclist
    endangers me, I'll express myself -- fair, I think, since we're both
    likely equally at risk.

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