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  1. My sister Janet is engaged to be married the end of this August. My
    sister and I decided to throw an engagement party at her house in two
    weeks. I will cover the cost of most of the food, as my engagement gift
    to my sister and her fiance, Rob.

    So, I guess its time to start planning the menu and logistics. I made
    invitations on my Mac and mailed them out two weeks ago. So far, it
    looks like we'll have a gathering of about twenty people at Jan and
    Rob's house on May 7th for this party.

    The party will be a lunch buffet affair and there will be chairs and
    those folding TV tables available for people. My sister's going to make
    southwest corn soup that was a hit at her last party. She's also going
    to make baked ziti. My parents will bring a cold cuts tray and homemade
    pasta salad. I am still uncertain about what I will make. I definitely
    want to have a few low-carb items for the diabetics in the family.

    My kitchen is very small and my sister said she will be unable to do any
    party preparations the day before the party due to work constraints, so
    we need to keep things simple. I have scheduled May 6th (Friday) off
    from work, so I will have some extra prep time at my place. I also want
    to spend more time enjoying the company of our guests, not in the
    kitchen. We will have plenty of hot plates and crock pots, which I will
    borrow from work.

    I figured that I would serve the following dishes:

    The health salad from the 2nd Ave. Deli's cookbook. Its delicious.

    A friend of mine makes delicious meatballs, so I have recruited him to
    make about four pounds worth.

    There's a chick wings store near my parents' house that sells awesome
    garlic chicken wings, so I figured I would order a bucket of them for
    the party. I make great chicken wings, but these are better and the
    convenience can't be beat.

    We will have a green salad, and cheese and vegetable plates. I already
    bought a selection of cheeses from Murray's cheese shop recently. We'll
    also have a platter with tortilla chips with salsa and dip.

    None of us are big dessert people, but my folks insist on bringing an
    engagement cake, whatever that is. One of my aunts is going to make
    low-carb cheese cakes. Her cheese cakes are pretty tasty.

    My parents, who have this illusion that they are in charge of planning
    this party are discouraging anyone from bringing children to the party.
    My sister and I, who are really responsible for this party are
    encouraging people to bring their kids. So I figured I will probably buy
    a pack or two of hot dogs for the kids. The kids in our family eat like
    birds, so they'll be fine with hot dogs and chips.

    The menu seems a bit bare. Does anyone have any suggestions for any
    dishes that are easy to prepare that I could serve? We'll have the usual
    kitchen stuff such as an oven (electric), range, several crock pots, and
    a microwave oven, although easy preparation is important. I am tossing
    around the idea of making stuffed mushrooms, but its a lot of work and I
    am not sure how many people will like mushrooms.

    We will serve bloody mary drinks, beer and soft drinks. My folks dropped
    off a few bottles of soda at my sister's house and paper goods last
    night.

  2. Stan Horwitz wrote:

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    Quoted message said:


    The menu seems a bit bare. Does anyone have any suggestions for any
    dishes that are easy to prepare that I could serve?

    I don't think it sounds "bare" at all. Count up the number of menu
    items you mentioned and picture trying to fit them all on a serving
    table. Unless a lot more show up than the 20 people you expect, I think
    it sounds bountiful.

    If you want to add something, what about a platter with strawberries and
    maybe melon balls or cubes with that yogurt and brown sugar mix to dip
    them in? Or some cocktail-sixed bagels with cream cheese and smoked
    salmon on the side to top them?

    You sound like a very kind, concerned brother.

    gloria p

  3. that sounds like a great variety. a side note since you mentioned it:
    why not have a kid free party?

    kids take a lot of time in life, and at events, and at an egagement
    party it would give adults a great time to focus on each other,
    especially if there's some that aren't seen often

    why not plan a day for them at baseball game or park with a neighbor or
    other close friend?

    just a thought - best wishes with the menu! the cheese cake sounds
    great

  4. As far as I can tell, the only thing you are missing is fresh fruit.
    Sounds like a lovely party - enjoy!

    -L.

  5. "-L." <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:

    As far as I can tell, the only thing you are missing is fresh fruit.
    Sounds like a lovely party - enjoy!

    -L.

    Funny -- fresh fruit and devilled eggs were the only things I could
    think of, too. A lot of times, when we're having a buffet for a
    get-together, I try to think of what's missing, and it's always devilled
    eggs (unless there are vegetarians coming, in which case I make a
    zucchini-basil frittata).

    Fresh fruit is a given at our parties, with all the kids. Even if we
    don't have a big fruit salad or fruit platter, one really nice, fresh
    fruit goes over well....strawberries in season, or fresh pineapple.

    Sounds like it will be a great party, Stan!

  6. In article <[email hidden]>, Stan Horwitz

    Quoted message said:

    The party will be a lunch buffet affair and there will be chairs and
    those folding TV tables available for people. My sister's going to make
    southwest corn soup that was a hit at her last party.

    I'm going to stick my neck out here and suggest you omit the soup -- it
    will require another dish on which to put food and a second run at the
    buffet -- the logistics are putting me off. And you'd have fewer dishes
    to be concerned about, too. J M O. How about fruit kabobs, Stan?
    Pretty. Make them ahead of time and arrange on a platter. Pineapple
    chunk. strawberry, grape--something like that. Drizzle with a bit of OJ.
    --
    -Barb, <http://www.jamlady.eboard.com> Updates in mid-April.
    "I read recipes the way I read science fiction: I get to the end and
    say,'Well, that's not going to happen.'" - Comedian Rita Rudner,
    performance at New York, New York, January 10, 2005.

  7. One time on Usenet said:

    My sister Janet is engaged to be married the end of this August.

    Congratulations!!

    <snip>

    Quoted message said:

    My parents, who have this illusion that they are in charge of planning
    this party are discouraging anyone from bringing children to the party.
    My sister and I, who are really responsible for this party are
    encouraging people to bring their kids. So I figured I will probably buy
    a pack or two of hot dogs for the kids. The kids in our family eat like
    birds, so they'll be fine with hot dogs and chips.

    As the mom of a 7-year-old, I think this sounds fine. Especially since
    you've got some other finger foods if they're still hungry (particularly
    the veggie plate; the kids I know love those).

    Quoted message said:

    The menu seems a bit bare.

    Of course it does, because you're a caring host. But trust me, it's
    anything but spare. I will echo others though, in saying that a nice
    fruit plate would go great -- otherwise, you seem to have all the bases
    covered. If you overdo it, you'll just have mounds of leftovers to deal
    with afterward.

    Quoted message said:

    Does anyone have any suggestions for any
    dishes that are easy to prepare that I could serve? We'll have the usual
    kitchen stuff such as an oven (electric), range, several crock pots, and
    a microwave oven, although easy preparation is important. I am tossing
    around the idea of making stuffed mushrooms, but its a lot of work and I
    am not sure how many people will like mushrooms.

    I wouldn't, not for a large buffet-style gathering. They're more
    of a "dinner for 2-6" kind of thing, IMO. Again, congrats to your
    sis, Stan... :-)

    --
    Jani in WA ~ mom, vid gamer, novice cook ~
    "The ships hung in the sky in much the same
    way that bricks don't" - D. Adams, HGTTG

  8. james said:

    that sounds like a great variety. a side note since you mentioned it:
    why not have a kid free party?

    kids take a lot of time in life, and at events, and at an egagement
    party it would give adults a great time to focus on each other,
    especially if there's some that aren't seen often

    why not plan a day for them at baseball game or park with a neighbor or
    ot

    Another note on this:

    I'd say invite the kids, but hire a couple of neighbourhood teenagers
    who'd be interested in taking the kids off separately for their fun
    and games. That gives the parents time to socialize, and the kids
    don't end up bored stiff and squirmy. The kids will pop back in to the
    main party when they are interested, and can be off doing their own
    thing when they are not.

    We did this last fall at my sister's wedding, as many of her friends
    and family have small children. It was a small wedding (sixty people)
    in my parent's backyard. The kids were happy (depending on age) to
    spend time colouring, watching videos, reading, hanging out or off in
    the park with one of the teens and a soccer ball. (they had a most
    excellent pick-up game) We had one room designated as a nap and
    nursing area, and another as the official quiet space. The adults were
    happy to be attending a special event where they could relax without
    worrying about having to get home in time to relieve the babysitter.

    We found our teens through my parent's church. They held their first
    aid certificates, had completed the local Y's babysitting course, and
    were into sports. It was a very satisfactory arrangement.

    The menu sounds great.

    Shirley Hicks
    Toronto, Ontario

  9. In article <[email hidden]>,

    Melba's Jammin said:

    In article <[email hidden]>, Stan Horwitz

    Quoted message said:

    The party will be a lunch buffet affair and there will be chairs and
    those folding TV tables available for people. My sister's going to make
    southwest corn soup that was a hit at her last party.

    I'm going to stick my neck out here and suggest you omit the soup -- it
    will require another dish on which to put food and a second run at the
    buffet -- the logistics are putting me off. And you'd have fewer dishes
    to be concerned about, too. J M O. How about fruit kabobs, Stan?
    Pretty. Make them ahead of time and arrange on a platter. Pineapple
    chunk. strawberry, grape--something like that. Drizzle with a bit of OJ.

    The idea of soup is my sister's. She loves that southwest chicken soup.
    I agree that its not the best item for this kind of party and I told her
    so a few weeks ago, but its what she wants to make, and she's the boss
    for this party.

    I like the idea of fruit kabobs. That idea hadn't occurred to me.

    Thanks.

  10. In article <[email hidden]>,

    james said:

    that sounds like a great variety. a side note since you mentioned it:
    why not have a kid free party?

    kids take a lot of time in life, and at events, and at an egagement
    party it would give adults a great time to focus on each other,
    especially if there's some that aren't seen often

    why not plan a day for them at baseball game or park with a neighbor or
    other close friend?

    just a thought - best wishes with the menu! the cheese cake sounds
    great

    If we go with my mom's suggestion of no kids, it will eliminate the
    opportunity for some of those we invited to attend because they will
    have to make arrangements to hire a baby sitter. I am also harkening to
    the memories I had as a kid where the adults would have a party and I
    wasn't invited to it. I always found that to be rude as a kid and I
    still do as an adult. It would be different if it was just me and my
    sister inviting some friends over one night to watch a movie or
    something, but for a family gathering such as this, it seems fair to
    welcome kids to the party if their parents want to bring them.

  11. In article <[email hidden]>,

    Quoted message said:
    james said:

    that sounds like a great variety. a side note since you mentioned it:
    why not have a kid free party?

    kids take a lot of time in life, and at events, and at an egagement
    party it would give adults a great time to focus on each other,
    especially if there's some that aren't seen often

    why not plan a day for them at baseball game or park with a neighbor or
    ot

    Another note on this:

    I'd say invite the kids, but hire a couple of neighbourhood teenagers
    who'd be interested in taking the kids off separately for their fun
    and games. That gives the parents time to socialize, and the kids
    don't end up bored stiff and squirmy. The kids will pop back in to the
    main party when they are interested, and can be off doing their own
    thing when they are not.

    I will just sit the kids in front of my sister's Xbox and put on a kid
    friendly video game. That will keep them busy for hours! Its a proven
    solution and it costs nothing.

  12. In article <[email hidden]>,

    Puester said:


    I don't think it sounds "bare" at all. Count up the number of menu
    items you mentioned and picture trying to fit them all on a serving
    table. Unless a lot more show up than the 20 people you expect, I think
    it sounds bountiful.

    If you want to add something, what about a platter with strawberries and
    maybe melon balls or cubes with that yogurt and brown sugar mix to dip
    them in? Or some cocktail-sixed bagels with cream cheese and smoked
    salmon on the side to top them?

    You sound like a very kind, concerned brother.

    Thanks. I like the idea of deviled eggs and fruit. If my wallet is not
    suffering too much, I might make some shrimp salad. I am not a fan of
    shrimp salad, nor is my sister, but it seems to be popular with a lot of
    other people in our family.

    Thanks to everyone who replied thus far. I appreciate all of your ideas.

  13. One time on Usenet said:

    In article <[email hidden]>,

    james said:

    that sounds like a great variety. a side note since you mentioned it:
    why not have a kid free party?

    kids take a lot of time in life, and at events, and at an egagement
    party it would give adults a great time to focus on each other,
    especially if there's some that aren't seen often

    <snip>

    Quoted message said:

    If we go with my mom's suggestion of no kids, it will eliminate the
    opportunity for some of those we invited to attend because they will
    have to make arrangements to hire a baby sitter. I am also harkening to
    the memories I had as a kid where the adults would have a party and I
    wasn't invited to it. I always found that to be rude as a kid and I
    still do as an adult. It would be different if it was just me and my
    sister inviting some friends over one night to watch a movie or
    something, but for a family gathering such as this, it seems fair to
    welcome kids to the party if their parents want to bring them.

    FWIW, I agree with you, Stan...

    --
    Jani in WA ~ mom, vid gamer, novice cook ~
    "The ships hung in the sky in much the same
    way that bricks don't" - D. Adams, HGTTG

  14. "Stan Horwitz" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    My sister Janet is engaged to be married the end of this August. My
    sister and I decided to throw an engagement party at her house in two
    weeks. I will cover the cost of most of the food, as my engagement gift
    to my sister and her fiance, Rob.

    <snip>

    Quoted message said:

    We will serve bloody mary drinks, beer and soft drinks. My folks dropped
    off a few bottles of soda at my sister's house and paper goods last
    night.

    Stan,

    You got lots of food. Not to worry

    I've had 3 of those parties at the house and what you need most of all is enough
    to dink.

    Have a Martini Bar and a little to munch on and you'll do just fine especially
    if this is a young processional crowd.

    The latest around here is a cosmopolitan using raspberry vodka in a long stem
    glass

    1 1/2 oz. Raspberry Vodka
    1/4 oz. Grand Marnier
    1/4 oz. Crabberry Juice
    1/4 oz. Lime Juice

    Glass type: Cocktail
    Directions: Shake with ice and strain into a chilled cocktail glass.

    Don't have the glasses ? Rent em. they ain't that much.

    Enjoy

    Dimitri

  15. On Tue, 26 Apr 2005 15:32:27 GMT, "Dimitri" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    The latest around here is a cosmopolitan using raspberry vodka in a long stem
    glass

    1 1/2 oz. Raspberry Vodka
    1/4 oz. Grand Marnier
    1/4 oz. Crabberry Juice
    1/4 oz. Lime Juice

    Glass type: Cocktail
    Directions: Shake with ice and strain into a chilled cocktail glass.

    Don't have the glasses ? Rent em. they ain't that much.

    Enjoy

    Dimitri


    Man that sounds good. I'm keeping this recipe for later use.

    Ginny < going shopping for Raspberry Vodka tomorrow

  16. "Ginny Sher" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    On Tue, 26 Apr 2005 15:32:27 GMT, "Dimitri" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    The latest around here is a cosmopolitan using raspberry vodka in a long stem
    glass

    1 1/2 oz. Raspberry Vodka
    1/4 oz. Grand Marnier
    1/4 oz. Crabberry Juice
    1/4 oz. Lime Juice

    Glass type: Cocktail
    Directions: Shake with ice and strain into a chilled cocktail glass.

    Don't have the glasses ? Rent em. they ain't that much.

    Enjoy

    Dimitri


    Man that sounds good. I'm keeping this recipe for later use.

    Ginny < going shopping for Raspberry Vodka tomorrow

    They are very very good we had them at the recent dinner party.

    ;-)

    Dimitri

  17. On Wed, 27 Apr 2005 13:43:19 GMT, "Dimitri" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:


    "Ginny Sher" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    On Tue, 26 Apr 2005 15:32:27 GMT, "Dimitri" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    The latest around here is a cosmopolitan using raspberry vodka in a long stem
    glass

    1 1/2 oz. Raspberry Vodka
    1/4 oz. Grand Marnier
    1/4 oz. Crabberry Juice
    1/4 oz. Lime Juice

    Glass type: Cocktail
    Directions: Shake with ice and strain into a chilled cocktail glass.

    Don't have the glasses ? Rent em. they ain't that much.

    Enjoy

    Dimitri


    Man that sounds good. I'm keeping this recipe for later use.

    Ginny < going shopping for Raspberry Vodka tomorrow

    They are very very good we had them at the recent dinner party.

    ;-)

    Dimitri

    Do you use fresh lime juice or sweetened Rose's Lime Juice?

    Thanks,
    Ginny

    Quoted message said:
  18. "Ginny Sher" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    Do you use fresh lime juice or sweetened Rose's Lime Juice?

    Thanks,
    Ginny

    Roses is a little too sweet IMHO although you can use it. Fresh lime is a PITA
    ergo about a year ago I discovered "bottled Key Lime Juice". I now use that for
    almost everything.

    Dimitri

  19. On Wed, 27 Apr 2005 15:19:34 GMT, "Dimitri" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:


    "Ginny Sher" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    Do you use fresh lime juice or sweetened Rose's Lime Juice?

    Thanks,
    Ginny

    Roses is a little too sweet IMHO although you can use it. Fresh lime is a PITA
    ergo about a year ago I discovered "bottled Key Lime Juice". I now use that for
    almost everything.

    Dimitri


    Hmmm, if you say so. My only experience with that stuff left me very
    disappointed. I was using it for a Key Lime Pie and I've heard since
    from people in rfc, that it isn't real key lime juice at all. I don't
    know if that is true, but I know I didn't like it. Maybe I'll try
    reall limes first and move onto Rose's if the results aren't good.
    I've got kind of a sweet tooth, so I would probably enjoy the
    sweetened stuff.

    Ginny

  20. On Mon, 25 Apr 2005 22:46:11 -0400, Stan Horwitz <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    In article <[email hidden]>,

    james said:

    that sounds like a great variety. a side note since you mentioned it:
    why not have a kid free party?

    kids take a lot of time in life, and at events, and at an egagement
    party it would give adults a great time to focus on each other,
    especially if there's some that aren't seen often

    why not plan a day for them at baseball game or park with a neighbor or
    other close friend?

    just a thought - best wishes with the menu! the cheese cake sounds
    great

    If we go with my mom's suggestion of no kids, it will eliminate the
    opportunity for some of those we invited to attend because they will
    have to make arrangements to hire a baby sitter. I am also harkening to
    the memories I had as a kid where the adults would have a party and I
    wasn't invited to it. I always found that to be rude as a kid and I
    still do as an adult. It would be different if it was just me and my
    sister inviting some friends over one night to watch a movie or
    something, but for a family gathering such as this, it seems fair to
    welcome kids to the party if their parents want to bring them.

    Although I agree that if you and your sister want the kids there, it's
    fine, I wouldn't describe a kids-free party as rude. When I was
    growing up we had kids' events, adult parties, and family parties.

    Sue(tm)
    Lead me not into temptation... I can find it myself!

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