some people are born with the fat gene. they just gotta eat or they have
slow metabolism and the fat keeps piling on. yes, they are born afflicted
with fatitis.
similarly, some people are born with the gay gene. try as they might to be
normal, they just gotta bugger that butt.
the problem with the term 'homophobia' is two-fold. distaste for gay behavior
isn't irrational but healthy, normal, and natural. just as
people just think a guy buggering another guy just sooo icky. i mean what's up
with that [censored], bro?(no pun intended). also, the term 'homophobia' suggests that
most of us fear gay MEN. hardly. if a gay guy wants to pick a fight with a
straight guy, the latter would kick the former's ass(unless the gay dude happens
to be one of the bodybuilder types, in which case the straight guy better just
run like hell). however, the revulsion is toward gayness, not gay PEOPLE. i feel
that way. gay people are nice people. good people. i just don't like they gay
[censored] they are always trying to pull.
and i feel the same way about fatsos. fat people are good people. good, friendly,
often jolly people. but, their fatness is an unpleasant sight to see. and it's
abnormal and unhealthy. i'd rather watch two healthy gay guys do it than two
straight fatties. it's worse if only one person is fat while the other is normal.
the mental image of a sumo wrestler with his petite japanese wife... spare me!
anyway, the point is 'homophobia' or 'fatophobia' is not really about phobia,
which means deep, irrational dread or fear. it's harboring distate for the
abnormal, unnatural, and unhealthy. also, we can dislike the gayness or fatness
but still admire the person thus afflicted.