A quick summary.
Changing from 2001? Ultegra to Dura Ace 10 Speed about 400 grams.
Changing just your ultegra brakes to Cat usa titanium brakes 240 grams. Or your new DA 10 speed brakes to cat 190 grams. There are some part titanium canecreek brakes that will save you 100 grams and are cheaper than cat usa brakes. An not to forget the are ultra expensive carbonbrakes that weigh 70 grams pr pair...
Changing your stem,bar,post. to lightwiegt aluminium or carbon (some top end aluminium stuff is still lighter than carbon and cheaper) about a 150 -200 grams.
Your standard wheelset is about 1900-2000 grams here you can really save weight and up performance in theory down to 990 grams. ( you can save almost a 1000 grams!) But take in consideration your own weight as those ultra light wheels often are sensitive to heavy riders and also they are not for a seasons training they are for racing use them in training and they wont last long. You can get more durable wheelsets at about 1500 grams thus saving you 350-500 grams depending on initial wheelset weight.
Your standard bontrager saddle is around 290-300 grams. You can get an affordable Selle Italia SLR at 135 grams or Go lower to around 70 grams with more expensive all carbon saddles. Saving 180-230 grams.
Tires (those rotationg grams) You can save 15-100 grams on the right tires depending on what you are using. Some TT tires weight down to 150 grams this ofcourse affects durability so again not something you use for those training miles. Saving 50-170 grams.
Low weight cables like nokon saves you 40% of standard weight cables (new DA 10 excluded) 15-30 grams.
Pedals standard 300 grams. You can buy them as low as 120 grams (the orb) 150 Crank Bros tripple ti and so on.
saving 150-170 grams.
So if money is no option you could save as much as about 2.2 kilos. But then agian if money was no option I would also buy a Scott CR1 team issue frame and save 400 grams on the frame compared to your "old" oclv.
Also detalis like all nuts and bolkts can be replaced by carbon or titanium bolts. Chain, cassette, chainrings can be bought i aluminium and even carbon now for even more weightsaving but they are not very durable. Thsi could take another 400 grams off the bike upping it to 2.6 kg! approximately.
The more affordable version would be Wheelset, saddle, and maybe brakes or pedals saving you around 800-900 grams.
Except for the wheels this lightening of your bike makes no sense unless you are in such a great shape that you couldn´t afford to loose a few pounds yourself
If you are not completely trimmed loosing a few pounds would be the cheapest weightsaving by far.