"Carmen" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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Quoted message said:
JC Der Koenig said:If she's really that beset with her other problems then she should
put her weightloss efforts on hold, instead of pretending and making
excuses.
Regardless of what else is going on in her life, Lori cannot stop
eating. Humans are funny like that. Since that's the case, she's
certainly better off eating properly some of the time as opposed to
none of the time.
If your SO's health and life was slipping away in front of your eyes
and doing so in a way nobody could stop what would *you* do? Would
you completely give up on taking care of yourself? Would you not
allow the situation to divert any additional portion of your attention
from yourself to help your SO? Or would you try to do everything
perfectly at once and find out you're human after all?
Carmen
I appreciate the support from all who gave it. I am doing well and so is
Curt at this time. 3 weeks ago it was a different story. when he feels good,
I feel good. When he gets scared, I get scared.
It is also an added expense for me to eat so out of whack with the rest of
the family and that has been an issue here too. Curt is self-employed so if
he isn't feeling good enough to work, then I am the only contributor to the
family funds.
Now he is off ice fishing again. and that man has EVERY gadget and gizmo
they make for fishing.
I am feeling good today, I'm off to work out as soon as Sam, my 13 yr old
son gets home from school. 45 min.
take care all who have offered support whether on this forum or through your
prayers.
--
Lori
(Atkins 1/16/2003) 220-144 from Jan to Nov
170/160/145
restart Jan 1. 2005
Devoted wife of Curtis diagnosed with Metastatic Prostate Cancer 12/31/2004
(at age 40 and 1 day)
failed Hormone deprivation therapy in 9 mo (instead of the usual 18-24 mo)
now on Radiation for pain (done)
starting Chemo for the rest of his life in 3-6 wks. (this starts the 2 yr
clock ticking so he is trying to delay this step)
http://community.webshots.com/user/lorismiller