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Quoted message said:when I was in high school and college. I would ride 6 or 7
days a week.
I
Quoted message said:would race.
I never got tired. I always enjoyed my ride, even if I got
dropped. Now
I
Quoted message said:am pushing 30. Have a job, a wife and two kids. I ride
MAYBE twice a
week.
Quoted message said:I ride to work but I don't consider 8 miles roundtrip to
be much of a
ride.
Quoted message said:
I love my life now. I am not wishing to change my
situation. I guess I
am
Quoted message said:just remembering how fun that was. Now I cant wait to get
my kids on
bikes
Quoted message said:and ride around the neighborhood.
You may be one of the many people who have trouble doing
much leisure activity with small children, a spouse, and
maybe a career to get moving. That was me. There are
priorities in life, and there's practically nothing that's
more important than being there for your small children.
If it's any consolation, and there's no guarantee it will
be, there are lots of things to look forward to. In my case,
some highlights were:
* rides to the playground
* carrying a child around the neighborhood on my shoulders
as a way of getting some exercise in.
* the first time my daughter could be stoker on the tandem
* my daughters using their position as stoker to "pretend to
pedal", thinking they were getting away with something
(since Dad didn't let on). They's also use that time to
ask all their "Daddy, why" questions.
* your kid rescuing an old clunker, and having it be a
"project" to get it working again.
And, yeah, putting on a few more pounds.
When the kids get older, they will need / want less
immediate attention and you will recover leisure time. It
seems like a long time away now, but it's not really so
long. Raise your children, be kind to your wife, get a ride
when you can, and enjoy what there is to enjoy.