OK, I think this is really stupid, but I'm not sure I can convince my buddy unless I get input and words of encouragement from the women.
My buddy is just getting into (road) biking and I can't get him to wear biking shorts, he's concerned about his "bulge" showing and thinks he'll feel embarrassed in front of women, walking around in them during rest stops, etc.
Of course I tell him that I wear them, all men riders wear them and that "if your bulge shows, uh, so what? it's normal human anatomy... women are not going to think it's odd that you actually show evidence of what you're supposed to have between your legs. ...women don't try to hide evidence that they have breasts by smashing flat."
I mean Hell, if you (women) see a guy's bulge in his bike shorts, speedos, tight jeans, etc.. I don't think it's a scarey thing, right? hopefully it's somewhat nice to see that he's filling out his shorts nicely.
Anyway, any words of encouragement you can give to my silly, conservative friend would be appreciated.
Thanks Ladies!
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