Maggie wrote:
:: "Roger Zoul" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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:::: I'm sorry, but your thinking is very, very flawwed. You are giving
:: in to
::: this notion that you can't do this or that because of age. It's not
::: true. Sure, you shouldn't, after sitting on your butt for years,
::: expect you get up one day and compete in strong fashion in
::: volleyball against 20 yos. It's silly to even think that. But you
::: can train yourself, re-gain/increase fitness in that sport. Get
::: your weight under control, start weight lifting, and start playing
::: volleyball on a regular basis (don't do marathon sessions as you
::: are getting back into it). You can increase your ability in that
::: sport enough to enjoy it. You may never be on an olympic team, but
::: then again you likely would not have been in your prime, either.
:::
::: In what sport are you too old to particiate in at 35? Are you
::: referring to professionally, against others at any age? Have you
::: ever heard of big George Foreman?
::
:: As for the above question....Yes I was speaking of professionally.
:: Professional sports I know are quite different from recreational
:: sports. I also heard of George Foreman....he really has a great
:: grill.
:: Love it.
::
:: Seriously, I still believe there are things I can not do at my age.
What things? Out run a 20 year old in a sprint. Perhaps not. But barring
physical limitations, you can run a sprint. And a marathon. You may not
win, but you can do it, if factors other than mere age don't limit you.
:: No matter how hard I train, how often I get off my ass and exercise
:: or
:: how much weight I lift. You cannot compare a person in their fifties
:: with a person in their twenties. It's impossible in my opinion.
Sure you can compare them. In many cases the 20 yo will outdo the 50 yo.
But not in all cases and activities, and not for all 50 yo. And no one says
you have to compete or play with 20 yo. Find someone your age.
:: Maybe
:: men want to do this, but I doubt if many women want to compare
:: themselves to 20 years olds. That's why God said....Go forth and bear
:: children while you are young and can deal with it.
Did God say that?
I am not whining
:: about my age when I talk about it, I am trying to accept it
:: graciously. I don't want to be like some of my friends having plastic
:: surgery because that's the only way they can fight nature. I am
:: surrounded by people in their twenties because my kids are in their
:: twenties. There is no way I could keep up with them.
You dont' have to keep up with them. But you also don't have to give up,
either. You can regain a lot of what you were able to do when you were in
your twenties, if you really want to and if there are no other factors which
prevent it.
You may call
:: this
:: a defeatist attitude, but I call it realistic. I see how easy it is
:: for them to bounce back from things. My husband is 57 and he has
:: exercised faithfully all his life and still lifts weights and
:: exercises every morning. He also agrees that he is no match for his
:: sons or any man who is 20 something and in shape. I don't think there
:: has been a day in his life since the age of 15 that he has not
:: exercised and lifted. Yet still he will admit he has slowed down
:: quite
:: a bit.
I have an uncle who is 70 now. I'm 46. I'm not sure I'd want to take him on
in anything other than riding a bike for 80+ miles. I'm pretty sure he
can't do that right now. Also, he'd whup up on most 20 yo I see today. If
you're talking about a professioinal boxer or other type of athelete, then
maybe not. But your average 20 yo wouldn't stand a chance.
:: I think age is supposed to bring the wisdom to know we are not
:: 20 any longer.
Sure. But it also doesn't mean just automatically assuming you can't do
anything, either, and it certainly doesn't mean you should just give up.
Wisdom would say knowing your limitations and not exceeding them. It also
would say you should start out slowly and build up and also allow plenty of
time for recovery, because you're older.
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