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  1. I went to a birthday party on Saturday. I was very disciplined as I
    only ate the low-carb stuff. There was a ball of cheese spread and
    instead of using crackers, I used slices of cheddar cheese and put
    cheese spread on them...ha! Some people commented that "you're going to
    get a heart attack by eating so much fat", while these same "health
    experts" were stuffing their face with crackers.

    When it came time to eating birthday cake, I cut myself a very thin
    sliver of it. Someone said I should eat more, and I said the cake is
    good but I don't want to eat more.

    I did make a mistake in my choice of beer though. I drank 5 Heinekens
    and I found out later that they contain 9.7 grams of carb each. Next
    time, I'll stick to Coors Light (5 grams of carb each).

    The difficult thing about refusing carbs in social situations is that
    some people take offense to that.

  2. "HIT Fanatic" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    I went to a birthday party on Saturday. I was very disciplined as I
    only ate the low-carb stuff. There was a ball of cheese spread and
    instead of using crackers, I used slices of cheddar cheese and put
    cheese spread on them...ha! Some people commented that "you're going to
    get a heart attack by eating so much fat", while these same "health
    experts" were stuffing their face with crackers.

    When it came time to eating birthday cake, I cut myself a very thin
    sliver of it. Someone said I should eat more, and I said the cake is
    good but I don't want to eat more.

    I did make a mistake in my choice of beer though. I drank 5 Heinekens
    and I found out later that they contain 9.7 grams of carb each. Next
    time, I'll stick to Coors Light (5 grams of carb each).

    The difficult thing about refusing carbs in social situations is that
    some people take offense to that.

    That piece of cake and all the beers are more carbs than I eat in a week!
    If you're going to succeed you must recognoze that most of the people you
    encounter will NOT be supportive of what you're doing. For the most part
    they are totally ignorant of exactly what "healthy" eating is. You can
    ignore them, laugh it off, or attempt to educate them. Our own personal
    health and lifestyle should be way more important than what they say or
    think about you.
    --
    *Atkins guy, 50 lbs permanently off over 6 years!

    JK Sinrod Sinrod Stained Glass Studios
    www.sinrodstudios.com
    Coney Island Memories
    www.sinrodstudios.com/coneymemories

  3. "jk" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "HIT Fanatic" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    I went to a birthday party on Saturday. I was very disciplined as I
    only ate the low-carb stuff. There was a ball of cheese spread and
    instead of using crackers, I used slices of cheddar cheese and put
    cheese spread on them...ha! Some people commented that "you're going to
    get a heart attack by eating so much fat", while these same "health
    experts" were stuffing their face with crackers.

    When it came time to eating birthday cake, I cut myself a very thin
    sliver of it. Someone said I should eat more, and I said the cake is
    good but I don't want to eat more.

    I did make a mistake in my choice of beer though. I drank 5 Heinekens
    and I found out later that they contain 9.7 grams of carb each. Next
    time, I'll stick to Coors Light (5 grams of carb each).

    The difficult thing about refusing carbs in social situations is that
    some people take offense to that.

    That piece of cake and all the beers are more carbs than I eat in a


    week!

    I was assuming the OP was maintaing thier weight loss - no way you're gonna
    lose eating cake (even a sliver) and drinking all that beer!! (unless it's
    my DH who lost 25 on LC - but a loose LC WOE!!!)

    Quoted message said:

    If you're going to succeed you must recognoze that most of the people you
    encounter will NOT be supportive of what you're doing. For the most part
    they are totally ignorant of exactly what "healthy" eating is. You can
    ignore them, laugh it off, or attempt to educate them. Our own personal
    health and lifestyle should be way more important than what they say or
    think about you.
    --
    *Atkins guy, 50 lbs permanently off over 6 years!

    JK Sinrod Sinrod Stained Glass Studios
    www.sinrodstudios.com
    Coney Island Memories
    www.sinrodstudios.com/coneymemories

  4. HIT Fanatic <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:<[email hidden]>...

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    When it came time to eating birthday cake, I cut myself a very thin
    sliver of it.

    I did make a mistake in my choice of beer though.

    If I'm gonna kick myself out of ketosis, I'll eat the darn crackers
    along with the beer and cake. There's no half-way here - you either
    eat & drink low carb, or you don't, the way I see it. To me, a cheat
    is a cheat is a cheat. If I'm gonna fall off the wagon, I'm gonna fall
    hard and enjoy myself. Doesn't make any sense to me to start limiting
    bad foods at a party, if bad foods are going to be consumed in any
    way. I consider the party to be a total loss and tomorrow another
    chance to start fresh - so I'll eat whatever the heck I want. What's
    the dif if you eat 100 carbs vs. 200 carbs? It's too many either way.

    Lee

  5. The last time I had 200 carbs I felt very sick for a few days. My guess is
    that 200 carbs forces the metabolism to abandon ketosis and switch back to a
    carb based process. The transition into or out of this seems to be
    unpleasant. 100 would be less likely to cause trouble, but I have not tried
    it. One occasion of 60 carbs seems to not make me sick.

    With recent overeating at a family event my family was all napping after the
    big lunch. I was still energized. Watching people's reactions to mixed
    carbs and fat is interesting. I ate a lot too, but all low carb.

    "Lee" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    HIT Fanatic <[email hidden]> wrote in message


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    When it came time to eating birthday cake, I cut myself a very thin
    sliver of it.

    I did make a mistake in my choice of beer though.

    If I'm gonna kick myself out of ketosis, I'll eat the darn crackers
    along with the beer and cake. There's no half-way here - you either
    eat & drink low carb, or you don't, the way I see it. To me, a cheat
    is a cheat is a cheat. If I'm gonna fall off the wagon, I'm gonna fall
    hard and enjoy myself. Doesn't make any sense to me to start limiting
    bad foods at a party, if bad foods are going to be consumed in any
    way. I consider the party to be a total loss and tomorrow another
    chance to start fresh - so I'll eat whatever the heck I want. What's
    the dif if you eat 100 carbs vs. 200 carbs? It's too many either way.

    Lee

  6. Don't you exercise? In maintenance carbs are allowed. For an active
    lifestyle carbs are ok in balance. Carbs are not evil in and of themselves.
    I started on Atkins, moved into Paleo, then settled on TKD, and now I eat
    slightly differently depending on my exercise load and on the time of day
    even sometimes. Ketosis is not magic, and there is in fact a healthy middle
    ground between ketosis and the "carb based process". It does make a
    difference how many carbs you consume at a party - it can be the difference
    between just needing a bit more exercise the next day and losing your
    discipline entirely for days. Diabetics and extreme cases aside, it's
    perfectly fine to eat that piece of cake as long as you can handle it
    mentally and don't freak out. It's premium fuel for the next day's
    exercise.

    -Tony

    Cubit wrote in message ...

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    The last time I had 200 carbs I felt very sick for a few days. My guess is
    that 200 carbs forces the metabolism to abandon ketosis and switch back to


    a

    Quoted message said:

    carb based process. The transition into or out of this seems to be
    unpleasant. 100 would be less likely to cause trouble, but I have not


    tried

    Quoted message said:

    it. One occasion of 60 carbs seems to not make me sick.

    With recent overeating at a family event my family was all napping after


    the

    Quoted message said:

    big lunch. I was still energized. Watching people's reactions to mixed
    carbs and fat is interesting. I ate a lot too, but all low carb.

    "Lee" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    HIT Fanatic <[email hidden]> wrote in message


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    When it came time to eating birthday cake, I cut myself a very thin
    sliver of it.

    I did make a mistake in my choice of beer though.

    If I'm gonna kick myself out of ketosis, I'll eat the darn crackers
    along with the beer and cake. There's no half-way here - you either
    eat & drink low carb, or you don't, the way I see it. To me, a cheat
    is a cheat is a cheat. If I'm gonna fall off the wagon, I'm gonna fall
    hard and enjoy myself. Doesn't make any sense to me to start limiting
    bad foods at a party, if bad foods are going to be consumed in any
    way. I consider the party to be a total loss and tomorrow another
    chance to start fresh - so I'll eat whatever the heck I want. What's
    the dif if you eat 100 carbs vs. 200 carbs? It's too many either way.

    Lee

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    "Tony" qtrader2@(remove)hotmail.com

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    Diabetics and extreme cases aside, it's
    perfectly fine to eat that piece of cake as long as you can handle it
    mentally and don't freak out.

    I see what you're saying, but some people can't handle many carbs, period. I'm
    not one of them -- in maintenance, I'm eating around 90-100 carbs per day. But
    I'm fortunate in that regard, and we're all different. I also don't like
    falling back on the exercise argument. Most of us exercise to the best of our
    abilities and as fits in with our work and family lives. It's usually easier
    to tailor the diet to the level of exercise rather than the other way around.

    I think most of us can figure out how to make allowances for a couple of bites
    of birthday cake without gaining back all the weight we've lost. But there are
    some people who even in maintenance are going to top out at around 30-40 carbs
    per day, and that cake will mean a lot more to them than it will to someone who
    can handle 100 carbs per day.

    So I don't think the concern is something we can easily dismiss. Nor do I
    think someone who has a piece of birthday cake (or three pints of ice cream
    when fighting the [censored] next door, as was discussed in another thread) is
    automatically doomed to failure. You fall off the wagon, you dust yourself and
    get back on. Some people will be more bruised from that fall than others, and
    that's part of the learning experience we all go through with this WOE.

    Daria
    166/under 145/under 145
    sugar-free since 2/1/04
    low-carb since 2/17/04

  8. HIT Fanatic <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:<[email hidden]>...

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    I went to a birthday party on Saturday. I was very disciplined as I
    only ate the low-carb stuff. There was a ball of cheese spread and
    instead of using crackers, I used slices of cheddar cheese and put
    cheese spread on them...ha! Some people commented that "you're going to
    get a heart attack by eating so much fat", while these same "health
    experts" were stuffing their face with crackers.

    When it came time to eating birthday cake, I cut myself a very thin
    sliver of it. Someone said I should eat more, and I said the cake is
    good but I don't want to eat more.

    I did make a mistake in my choice of beer though. I drank 5 Heinekens
    and I found out later that they contain 9.7 grams of carb each. Next
    time, I'll stick to Coors Light (5 grams of carb each).

    The difficult thing about refusing carbs in social situations is that
    some people take offense to that.

    I think you have the right approach. Stay on diet all the time when
    possible. There will be instances where it is just easier to go with
    the flow and have some carbs. Just don't go completely crazy. Minimize
    the carbs as much as you can under the circumstances knowing that
    tommorrow is another day. Then go right back to low-carb.

    Hey, ya gotta live a bit once in a while. Personally, I find that if
    and when I do go high-carb, I feel like [censored] and can't wait to return
    to low-carb.

    TC

  9. DG511 wrote in message <[email hidden]>...

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    Quoted message said:

    "Tony" qtrader2@(remove)hotmail.com

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    Diabetics and extreme cases aside, it's
    perfectly fine to eat that piece of cake as long as you can handle it
    mentally and don't freak out.

    I see what you're saying, but some people can't handle many carbs, period.


    I'm

    Quoted message said:

    not one of them -- in maintenance, I'm eating around 90-100 carbs per day.


    But

    Quoted message said:

    I'm fortunate in that regard, and we're all different. I also don't like
    falling back on the exercise argument. Most of us exercise to the best of


    our

    Quoted message said:

    abilities and as fits in with our work and family lives. It's usually


    easier

    Quoted message said:

    to tailor the diet to the level of exercise rather than the other way


    around.

    I completely agree that tailoring the diet to the exercise is far better,
    and that was why I took up the TKD approach. I was just saying that it
    might be better for most people to allow themselves to eat that piece of
    cake and some crackers with their cheese than to think any diversion is a
    "cheat" and therefore all is lost and you might as well pig out because you
    cheated. On big holidays like Christmas and thanksgiving when I know lots
    of family will be around along with copious snack foods, I plan 1) a walk of
    some kind that day for whoever wants to go with me (usually 1/2 the people
    feel like it!), and 2) a longer than normal run the next day.

    Quoted message said:

    I think most of us can figure out how to make allowances for a couple of


    bites

    Quoted message said:

    of birthday cake without gaining back all the weight we've lost. But there


    are

    Quoted message said:

    some people who even in maintenance are going to top out at around 30-40


    carbs

    Quoted message said:

    per day, and that cake will mean a lot more to them than it will to someone


    who

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    can handle 100 carbs per day.

    Of course I agree; there are people who can hardly eat their metabolism is
    so broken. It might be that even these people can benefit from eating carbs
    specifically after exercise; it makes you recover better, feel stronger,
    and more likely to be active in general.

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    So I don't think the concern is something we can easily dismiss. Nor do I
    think someone who has a piece of birthday cake (or three pints of ice cream
    when fighting the [censored] next door, as was discussed in another thread)


    is

    Quoted message said:

    automatically doomed to failure. You fall off the wagon, you dust yourself


    and

    Quoted message said:

    get back on. Some people will be more bruised from that fall than others,


    and

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    that's part of the learning experience we all go through with this WOE.

    Yes, most people won't fall off. I think that especially for people who
    exercise vigorously *when* you eat your carbs is far more important than how
    many you eat. One can burn fat and also have one's glycogen stores full at
    the same time. A healthy metabolism will not burn the carbs first, but will
    store them as an explosive emergency fuel. This is why TKD works very well
    for those who like to exercise at a high level. In the 90 minutes after
    intense exercise, a very high percentage of any simple carbs you eat will be
    stored as glycogen. In fact, during this timeframe, the simple carbs are
    better because they will be absorbed quickly. During this time carbs and a
    little protein are good, fats will inhibit the glycogen building process.
    Starting 90 minutes after exercise this capacity to metabolize carbs into
    glycogen goes down dramatically. A little later, 2+ hours after exercise,
    it's best to switch to eating more protein, fats, and complex carbs. Before
    and during exercise is also a "safe" time metabolically to eat more carbs,
    as long as you don't overdo it.

    -Tony

    Quoted message said:

    Daria
    166/under 145/under 145
    sugar-free since 2/1/04
    low-carb since 2/17/04

  10. This is a very interesting topic for me. I find that there is an unseen
    hand manipulating my calories over long periods, such as a month or two.
    Day to day I feel I'm in control, but a review of the Fitday data says
    otherwise.

    Since I am in a weightloss phase, I seem to never find food "revolting."

    "Ignoramus12052" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:
    Cubit said:

    The last time I had 200 carbs I felt very sick for a few days. My guess


    is

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    that 200 carbs forces the metabolism to abandon ketosis and switch back


    to a

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    carb based process. The transition into or out of this seems to be
    unpleasant. 100 would be less likely to cause trouble, but I have not


    tried

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    it. One occasion of 60 carbs seems to not make me sick.

    With recent overeating at a family event my family was all napping after


    the

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    big lunch. I was still energized. Watching people's reactions to mixed
    carbs and fat is interesting. I ate a lot too, but all low carb.

    I am curious, after that, did you perhaps feel not hungry for a long
    time?

    When I overeat on LC, usually, thoughts about food are revolting for
    just long enough for calories to even out.

    i

  11. [email hidden] (Lee) wrote in message news:<[email hidden]>...

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    HIT Fanatic <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:<[email hidden]>...

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    When it came time to eating birthday cake, I cut myself a very thin
    sliver of it.

    I did make a mistake in my choice of beer though.

    If I'm gonna kick myself out of ketosis, I'll eat the darn crackers
    along with the beer and cake. There's no half-way here - you either
    eat & drink low carb, or you don't, the way I see it. To me, a cheat
    is a cheat is a cheat. If I'm gonna fall off the wagon, I'm gonna fall
    hard and enjoy myself. Doesn't make any sense to me to start limiting
    bad foods at a party, if bad foods are going to be consumed in any
    way. I consider the party to be a total loss and tomorrow another
    chance to start fresh - so I'll eat whatever the heck I want. What's
    the dif if you eat 100 carbs vs. 200 carbs? It's too many either way.

    But the OP was eating low carb. OK, he could have made better choices
    on his beer but he's eating way under 100g (assuming he ate no other
    carby stuffs on that day) and as long as it's under 100g it's low
    carb. Whether he kicks himself out of ketosis or not it depends on
    the OP's tolerance of carbs. I'd recommend the OP to do more exercise
    the next day and try to burn off the carb store (in his liver) quicker
    and he'll be back on track. There's no need to encourage him to go
    all the way and eat 200 carbs at a party really.

  12. With all due respect, I disagree on every point.

    Quoted message said:

    Don't you exercise?

    YMCA twice a week...

    Quoted message said:

    In maintenance carbs are allowed.

    I average 27 net carbs per day. I like Dr. Taller's diet better than
    Atkins.

    Quoted message said:

    For an active lifestyle carbs are ok in balance.

    IMHO it is the "balancing" of carbs and fat that is implicated in
    cardiovascular disease. I feel one should not alternate or mix.

    Quoted message said:

    Carbs are not evil in and of themselves.

    My bet is that carbs bypass the natural nutritional process. Carbs are
    evil.

    Quoted message said:

    I started on Atkins, moved into Paleo, then settled on TKD, and now I eat
    slightly differently depending on my exercise load and on the time of day
    even sometimes.

    I have the highest respect for those like Iggy who experiment with athletic
    activities while low carbing. I suspect that it is largely unexplored.

    Quoted message said:

    Ketosis is not magic, and there is in fact a healthy middle
    ground between ketosis and the "carb based process".

    I feel the middle ground is the danger zone.

    Quoted message said:

    Diabetics and extreme cases aside, it's
    perfectly fine to eat that piece of cake as long as you can handle it
    mentally and don't freak out. It's premium fuel for the next day's
    exercise.

    So many people fail to maintain the LC Way Of Life. The statistics for
    weight regain are scary.

    It is possible that there is an imprinting process for food at an early age.
    Most people go back to eating the way they were taught as children. The
    reversion process gets rationalized. When people say that special carbs are
    OK, I think it is the first step to returning to the unhealthy "normal"
    diet.

  13. I don't binge, as such. I dine out with friends about once a week, and I
    generally clean my plate, except for anything carby. This makes my dining
    out days have high calories. Typically, the day might be 2100 to 2500
    calories.

    On days I eat at home I try to keep the calories very low without getting
    hungry. This often comes out in the 800 to 1200 calorie range.

    The spooky part is that my 2 month calorie averages in Fitday always come
    out around 1400 calories per day. I did not pick the 1400 number as a goal.
    Some internal calorie regulation system must be manipulating my mind to
    achieve this.

    My theory is that low carb high fat causes the internal subconscious calorie
    regulator to set a lower calorie goal.

    "Ignoramus12052"

    Quoted message said:

    Do you mean that you are still eating too much LC food, or that you
    binge once in a while?

  14. HIT Fanatic said:


    The difficult thing about refusing carbs in social situations is that
    some people take offense to that.

    The trick I use is to pass the cake and when someone specifically
    offers a slice to me I say "No thank you". Not another word other
    than that. It gives folks no objection to try to handle. Trying
    to get past an objection is a challenge but trying to get past
    "No thank you" is rude.

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