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  1. On Wed, 2 Jun 2004 11:38:19 -0400, "psycholist" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    I live in a very rural area and I'm a high-mileage roadie.

    The other day I was driving down one of the main 2-lane highways that cuts
    through our little area. There weren't any other cars on the stretch of
    road I was traveling.

    I came upon two cyclists on road gear and decked out as if they were
    reasonably experienced riders. They were riding 2-abreast. They were just
    dawdling along. The rider on the left was weaving all over. We were
    approaching a crossroad, so I was afraid to pass because, the way they were
    riding, I couldn't be sure they wouldn't make a turn right in front of me.
    Neither rider seemed interested in showing me any consideration whatsoever.
    Despite the very open road, I had to just sit in behind them and wait. It's
    not that it was any big deal to wait 15 seconds until we got past that
    intersection, but I couldn't imagine being THAT rude and inconsiderate of
    traffic.

    I'd submit that it took you far longer to compose your original post
    than it did to wait for those two rude, inconsiderate riders to clear
    the intersection. And I'd hate to guess what multiple of that 15
    second delay you've spent, let alone the rest of us, on follow-ups.

    Based on the terrible, terrible anguish you've suffered by being
    delayed for an entire 15 seconds on an otherwise empty road, when
    you've chosen to live 20 miles away from your job and regularly cycle
    to and from work... you're being unreasonable. Maybe you need a nap.
    You'll feel better when you're rested.

    Pat

    Email address works as is.

  2. Matt O'Toole said:

    Some French cars even have two horns -- tooty
    country horns (Hallo!) and blaring city horns (Get out of my way!) Southerners
    don't seem to use horns unless they're really [censored], so I wouldn't try a
    "friendly" toot around here. This is unfortunate -- the usual annoyed redneck
    tactic is to creep up behind a cyclist and rev the engine! I'd much prefer a
    friendly toot.

    He he--we know all about that here in Nashville. 😄

    Apropo the "friendly" horn--I have one of those mini bike bells mounted
    stealth-style on my quill stem (as to not interfere with the oh-so-elegant
    looks of my road bike 😉) and I find it to be indispensable when riding
    paths or even passing riders on the street. A happy ping-piiiiiing is much
    more jolly than a breathless "passing on the left!". Highly recommended.

  3. psycholist said:

    They knew I was there. They just apparently didn't care.

    That's possible.

    OTOH, they may have figured there was no reason for you not to pass.
    You say there was an intersection up ahead, and you feared they'd turn
    in front of you. They (or actually, the guy on the left) may have
    thought "Obviously I'm not going to turn, since I'm not signaling." And
    they may have wondered why you weren't passing.

    Unless the cyclists were looking back at you and giving you the finger,
    I'd say this is more likely a very minor miscommunication, rather than
    an outright act of rudeness. Admittedly, I wasn't there - but I've seen
    similar events from various perspectives.

    Hell, two days ago I had a motorist who backed up traffic by refusing to
    pass me, despite having _plenty_ of room. They passed only when I made
    insistent motions directing them to do so. What were they thinking? I
    don't know. Perhaps they were thinking something like what you were.

    Look, to put this in context: Have you never walked through a mall and
    had people obstruct you for a few seconds? Was this really that much worse?

    --
    --------------------+
    Frank Krygowski [To reply, remove rodent and vegetable dot com,
    replace with cc.ysu dot edu]

  4. psycholist said:

    You sound all high and mighty in the posts you've made on this thread. Had
    you been there, you'd have clearly seen that there was no excuse for this
    riders behavior.

    From my perspective, most people are being quite calm. You actually
    seem offended because we don't share your outrage.

    But we don't share your outrage partly because we've seen motorists
    unjustifiably outraged by our perfectly legal, responsible riding.
    We're really not sure that this isn't just another example. Sorry, but
    we weren't there.

    Quoted message said:

    He wasn't riding as far to the right as pracitcable by ANY
    stretch of anyone's imagination.

    You should understand that the law in almost all states is not quite
    clear. Traffic laws generally state 1) bicyclists are to ride as near
    to the right as practicable, and 2) they shall ride no more than two
    abreast.

    Obviously, those two statements are in conflict. It's almost as if the
    legislators expected us to be reasonable about this!

    Quoted message said:

    And don't try to tell me what I assume.
    I assume that sharing the road is supposed to be just that ... sharing. I'm
    a cyclist and I try to ride with consideration for the cars that also are
    entitled to the road. This particular cyclist that I encountered acted like
    the road was all his and screw everybody else. I'm learning from some of
    the unbelieveable posts on this thread that there are a whole lot of you out
    there who apparently feel all people in cars are evil and that people on
    bicycles can do no wrong.

    <sigh>

    Think: If this 15 second incident is enough to really stress you, then
    your life is very good indeed.

    So relax.

    Alternately, take a week and write down every time a motorist drives
    less-than-perfectly. Meditate on the relative number of incidents, and
    their potential importance.

    --
    --------------------+
    Frank Krygowski [To reply, remove rodent and vegetable dot com,
    replace with cc.ysu dot edu]

  5. In article <[email hidden]>,

    maxo said:

    Apropo the "friendly" horn--I have one of those mini bike bells mounted
    stealth-style on my quill stem (as to not interfere with the oh-so-elegant
    looks of my road bike 😉) and I find it to be indispensable when riding
    paths or even passing riders on the street. A happy ping-piiiiiing is much
    more jolly than a breathless "passing on the left!". Highly recommended.

    Maybe cars should be equipped with bells instead of horns :-)

    cheers,
    Tom

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  6. Thu, 03 Jun 2004 00:44:27 -0400, <[email hidden]>,

    Frank Krygowski said:

    Alternately, take a week and write down every time a motorist drives
    less-than-perfectly. Meditate on the relative number of incidents, and
    their potential importance.

    Or count the seconds lost driving behind someone hunting for a parking
    space. They're not signalling, keeping pace or paying attention to
    traffic building behind them. They're unpredictable and you generally
    can't pass them until everybody else has passed you. Then you have to
    wait while they figure out how to berth the damn scud.

    Knowing now about all those homicidal drivers bent on revenge it makes
    me worry for my life every time I think to dare parallel parking.
    --
    zk

  7. Rick Onanian said:

    I'm often startled by even a minor blip from a horn, and often
    offended, even if I think it wasn't supposed to be offensive.

    Anyone else notice that toward the end of a ride -- especially a long and/or
    hard ride -- the "startle response" is greatly suppressed? More than a few
    times I've had yahoos yell, honk, pass too close or whatever and I just sort
    of look at them as they pull away without even a hint of a flinch or
    emotion. Guess it's survival mode time...

    Bill "wish I were always that calm and imperturbable" S.

  8. No. I wrote that 'the book' (you might cure your parochial point of view)
    demonstrates in math/engineering language that a cyclist cannot generally
    delay a motorist. I wrote that the mad motorist cures his 'delay' with a
    momentary and vigorous application of the exhaust overpressure control pedal
    (a.k.a. accelerator).

    I would like the law enforced even handedly. There are many times the
    number of cyclists of motorists.

    It is not illegal to be rude and your idea of a 'cure' for rudeness may
    become inculcated in the law and not to our betterment. You are selfish,
    self-righteous and narrowly focused.

    "psycholist" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    |
    | "Doug Huffman" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    | news:[email hidden]...
    | > I keyed on, "I couldn't imagine being THAT rude and inconsiderate of|
    | > traffic." And remembered Chapter Eight of Bicycle Transportation. Seems
    | to
    | > indicate that 'THAT' isn't very inconsiderate and even less than your
    | > 'fifteen seconds'. Did you blast the exhaust over pressure pedal,
    a.k.a.
    | > 'throttle' at them as you passed?
    | >
    | > Chill. Ride
    |
    | I don't understand. Are you saying there's some book out there that says
    | it's OK to do what these riders were doing? If so, then it's stupid and
    | it's going to get somebody killed. I was quite patient with it. I didn't
    | honk, toot, gesture. I waited patiently until it was safe to pass, then I
    | passed. But all the rude rider needed to do was ease over to single file
    | for a second. It wouldn't have delayed him one bit and it would have
    | allowed me to pass.
    |
    | The law where I live as that bicycles are to ride as far to the right as
    | practicable. He wasn't doing that. Not even close. He was simply being
    | rude and arrogant or he was clueless and he needs to get a clue. I was
    | quite tempted to stop farther up the road and await his arrival so I could
    | give him one. But my wife was along and she would not have approved.
    | Incidentally, her comment to me as we passed the riders was, "I hope you
    | don't ride like that." I assured her I didn't.
    |
    | Bob C.
    |
    |

  9. "R15757" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    << ...Why don't you just move entirely into the opposing lane as if you


    were

    Quoted message said:

    passing a slow moving 8 ft wide tractor?

    Wayne >>

    Why doesn't the jackass just move over a few feet?
    What is so f***ing precious about being on a bike that
    you can't move over a few feet?

    We move over because we can. If there is enough
    space in the lane for the passing car and a skinny-ass
    bike, make it work. It's righteous to act as if there
    were other people on the planet besides yourself.
    Cooperate and make room, if possible, and if not, take
    your lane and most drivers will understand.

    Robert

    Thank God there's at least one reasonable person here who understands!

    Bob C.

  10. "Patrick Lamb" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    On Wed, 2 Jun 2004 11:38:19 -0400, "psycholist" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    I live in a very rural area and I'm a high-mileage roadie.

    The other day I was driving down one of the main 2-lane highways that


    cuts

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    through our little area. There weren't any other cars on the stretch of
    road I was traveling.

    I came upon two cyclists on road gear and decked out as if they were
    reasonably experienced riders. They were riding 2-abreast. They were


    just

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    dawdling along. The rider on the left was weaving all over. We were
    approaching a crossroad, so I was afraid to pass because, the way they


    were

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    riding, I couldn't be sure they wouldn't make a turn right in front of


    me.

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Neither rider seemed interested in showing me any consideration


    whatsoever.

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    Despite the very open road, I had to just sit in behind them and wait.


    It's

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    not that it was any big deal to wait 15 seconds until we got past that
    intersection, but I couldn't imagine being THAT rude and inconsiderate of
    traffic.

    I'd submit that it took you far longer to compose your original post
    than it did to wait for those two rude, inconsiderate riders to clear
    the intersection. And I'd hate to guess what multiple of that 15
    second delay you've spent, let alone the rest of us, on follow-ups.

    Based on the terrible, terrible anguish you've suffered by being
    delayed for an entire 15 seconds on an otherwise empty road, when
    you've chosen to live 20 miles away from your job and regularly cycle
    to and from work... you're being unreasonable. Maybe you need a nap.
    You'll feel better when you're rested.

    Pat

    Email address works as is.

    Believe me ... the incident itself caused me very little anxiety. I merely
    felt it would be constructive to share the experience and perhaps enlighten
    some folks that the need to share the road is a 2-way street. But I've been
    amazed at the responses I've received from people who a) weren't there, but
    know better than I do what happened and/or b) feel the cyclist couldn't
    possibly have done anything wrong.

    In my view, the reasonable response to my post by a reasonable person would
    be something like, "yes, we all have a responsibility to share the road and,
    if it's no skin off our backs to move over and make room, we should do so."
    But I've continued to read and respond on this thread because I've been so
    amazed at the people who feel that there absolutely MUST be a rational
    reason for the cyclist to have behaved the way he did. A cyclist simply
    COULDN'T be rude and inconsiderate ... especially not where a driver in a
    motor vehicle is involved ... even if the driver in the motor vehicle is a
    VERY experienced cyclist, himself.

    At least now I understand why I see so many people on club rides and at
    centuries and stuff acting like complete asses by riding as if they own the
    road.

    Thanks to so many of you for confirming my opening premise ... that we are
    our own worst enemies.

    I'm done.

    Bob C.

  11. psycholist said:

    "Patrick Lamb" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    On Wed, 2 Jun 2004 11:38:19 -0400, "psycholist" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    I live in a very rural area and I'm a high-mileage roadie.

    The other day I was driving down one of the main 2-lane highways
    that cuts through our little area. There weren't any other cars on
    the stretch of road I was traveling.

    I came upon two cyclists on road gear and decked out as if they were
    reasonably experienced riders. They were riding 2-abreast. They
    were just dawdling along. The rider on the left was weaving all
    over. We were approaching a crossroad, so I was afraid to pass
    because, the way they were riding, I couldn't be sure they wouldn't
    make a turn right in front of me. Neither rider seemed interested
    in showing me any consideration whatsoever. Despite the very open
    road, I had to just sit in behind them and wait. It's not that it
    was any big deal to wait 15 seconds until we got past that
    intersection, but I couldn't imagine being THAT rude and
    inconsiderate of traffic.

    I'd submit that it took you far longer to compose your original post
    than it did to wait for those two rude, inconsiderate riders to clear
    the intersection. And I'd hate to guess what multiple of that 15
    second delay you've spent, let alone the rest of us, on follow-ups.

    Based on the terrible, terrible anguish you've suffered by being
    delayed for an entire 15 seconds on an otherwise empty road, when
    you've chosen to live 20 miles away from your job and regularly cycle
    to and from work... you're being unreasonable. Maybe you need a
    nap. You'll feel better when you're rested.

    Pat

    Email address works as is.

    Believe me ... the incident itself caused me very little anxiety. I
    merely felt it would be constructive to share the experience and
    perhaps enlighten some folks that the need to share the road is a
    2-way street. But I've been amazed at the responses I've received
    from people who a) weren't there, but know better than I do what
    happened and/or b) feel the cyclist couldn't possibly have done
    anything wrong.

    In my view, the reasonable response to my post by a reasonable person
    would be something like, "yes, we all have a responsibility to share
    the road and, if it's no skin off our backs to move over and make
    room, we should do so." But I've continued to read and respond on
    this thread because I've been so amazed at the people who feel that
    there absolutely MUST be a rational reason for the cyclist to have
    behaved the way he did. A cyclist simply COULDN'T be rude and
    inconsiderate ... especially not where a driver in a motor vehicle is
    involved ... even if the driver in the motor vehicle is a VERY
    experienced cyclist, himself.

    At least now I understand why I see so many people on club rides and
    at centuries and stuff acting like complete asses by riding as if
    they own the road.

    Thanks to so many of you for confirming my opening premise ... that
    we are our own worst enemies.

    I'm done.

    Bob C.

    Well done. I've enjoyed following this thread and I am also surprised by the
    illiteracy shown.

    --
    Perre

    You have to be smarter than a robot to reply.

  12. Finally! It is amazing! 'Asses' and 'enemies' because we disagree with you
    and some are principled disagreements. Provincial, parochial,
    self-righteous and ignorant. Over and out!

    "psycholist" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...
    |
    |
    | At least now I understand why I see so many people on club rides and at
    | centuries and stuff acting like complete asses by riding as if they own
    the
    | road.
    |
    | Thanks to so many of you for confirming my opening premise ... that we are
    | our own worst enemies.
    |
    | I'm done.
    |
    | Bob C.
    |
    |

  13. Psycholist said:

    I came upon two cyclists on road gear and decked out as if they were
    reasonably experienced riders. Bob C.

    Have you ever heard the extression "All the gear and no idea".

    Sounds like it suits you mobile obsticles.

    --

  14. On Thu, 03 Jun 2004 02:10:36 GMT, "Matt O'Toole" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    To me, a revving engine sounds like an attempt to intimidate -- especially when
    practiced by drivers of large pickup trucks and muscle cars, which themselves
    are meant to be intimidating (usually, at least a little) -- and are usually the
    ones who do this.

    This is as much a hasty generalization as my gut-wrench reaction to
    horns. I drive a full-size pickup, and know loads of others who do.
    I have absolutely no interest in intimidating. I drive it for many
    reasons; I could go on for pages, but categories include comfort,
    work, play, and soon I may be towing a large camper with it too.

    Some day, I'd love to drive a 1968 Camaro, with a big V8 and loud
    exhaust, but it would most definitely be for fun.

    I find that people driving retired police cars often admit that they
    drive them for the intimidation factor; that's the car of choice for
    those who enjoy that sort of thing.

    I do care what others think of what I drive in the following ways:
    - I don't want to be prejudged as a jerk or idiot, or scumbag kid
    (econobox lowered with wheels sticking out a foot and a huge wing,
    while the body rusts)
    - With some vehicles, I do enjoy getting compliments on how it
    looks (for example, added chrome on the pickup)
    --
    Rick Onanian

  15. S o r n i said:

    Anyone else notice that toward the end of a ride -- especially a long and/or
    hard ride -- the "startle response" is greatly suppressed? More than a few

    It would be nice to say this is a calming effect of riding, but for
    me, it's a "I'm too damn tired to pedal, let alone flinch" effect.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  16. maxo said:

    A happy ping-piiiiiing is much
    more jolly than a breathless "passing on the left!". Highly recommended.

    Spoken "beep beep" is often enjoyed as humor. I suspect that
    occasionally somebody is offended, as if I said "get out of the
    way", but I think most understand...and I give 'em a goofy grin to
    go along with it.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  17. On Wed, 2 Jun 2004 19:11:44 -0400, "GRL" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    What annoys the hell out of me is to be riding along at a nice clip and you
    will come up on some idiot bikers (two or more is common) who have decided
    to stop and service a bike or just have a little discussion while laying at
    least one bike on the trail (it seems kick stands are extinct) blocking 2/3
    of the trail oblivious to the world around them. There is a nice wide

    I hate that too. A couple weeks ago, I approached a mother and
    daughter with their bikes parked across the path. They were equipped
    with kickstands, and used them to park exactly perpendicular, one
    bike staggered forward to be sure of blocking the whole path, while
    they stood on the remaining foot of pavement reading a plaque. You
    might think the mother would like to instill some manners into her
    child, or at least not demonstrate how to be rude (without noting
    that it is, in fact, rude).

    Of course, the usual complaint stands about induhvidiual
    rollerbladers taking the _whole_ width of the path, because they
    don't want to come within a foot of the edge...the skate right on
    the centerline, using up half of each lane, leaving insufficient
    room for a bicyclist to pass.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  18. On Wed, 02 Jun 2004 19:38:36 -0400, Badger_South <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    This happens to me a lot too. Even after three gentle 'admonishments' (and seeming agreement)
    this group of three teenagers still kept stopping on the trail in a bunch, and
    at blind corners, as well. Not much you can do, but sigh, and go on around them.

    Crash into them. Be riding a very heavy beater bike at the time.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  19. On Wed, 2 Jun 2004 21:16:49 -0400, "psycholist" <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    lane. Why don't you just move entirely into the opposing lane as if you

    Because AS I SAID, there was a crossroad ahead and I couldn't be sure what
    the clown in the middle was going to do. I didn't want to pass him in the

    Also, you said he was weaving side-to-side; IME, a cyclist doing
    that is just as likely to weave all the way to the other side,
    except if he sees _oncoming_ traffic. There's no excuse for weaving;
    nobody, regardless of transportation mode, should be doing it.
    --
    Rick Onanian

  20. "Rick Onanian" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    On Wed, 02 Jun 2004 19:38:36 -0400, Badger_South <[email hidden]>

    Quoted message said:

    This happens to me a lot too. Even after three gentle 'admonishments'


    (and seeming agreement)

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    this group of three teenagers still kept stopping on the trail in a


    bunch, and

    Quoted message said:
    Quoted message said:

    at blind corners, as well. Not much you can do, but sigh, and go on


    around them.

    Quoted message said:


    Crash into them. Be riding a very heavy beater bike at the time.

    I've used the technique of giving a very loopy expression (coupled with a
    crazed grin) and yelling, "Coming through! COMING THROUGH!" I guess the
    vision of a more demented version of their mothers, on a bicycle, is enough
    to get them to pull over and get out of my way.

    --
    Warm Regards,

    Claire Petersky
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