Quoted message said:Ah, but language, there's the rub. French unfortunately is a kind of
zero-tolerance language. It's hard to speak it well, and trivially easy
to speak it badly. Italians are generally happy to put up with peoples'
attempts on their beautiful language, the French reputedly less so for
their very different but equally beautiful language.
Especially coming from English, French can be a bit tough because, as you
point out, there are very strict rules to follow. One doesn't casually
pluralize things by putting an "s" at the end, for example. And in the US
you can go into a deli and, when greeted, reply "I'd like a ham sandwich"
and all would be fine... NOT what is done in France. You would start by
saying "Bonjour" (assuming it's early in the day), then say what you would
like, and absolutely positively you MUST end it with "si'l vous plais"
(please). To do otherwise is just wrong. In English, it's all about the tone
that conveys civility. The rules are nowhere near as important as the tone.
Quoted message said:I'm pretty fluent in Italian, less so in French, but I must admit that
once you get outside of Paris the French have almost always been very
helpful, and quite willing to help even if you're struggling with the
language. It helps quite a bit if you're a cyclist.
It helps TREMENDOUSLY if you're a cyclist! You can go into any local
bar/tavern/pub in the sticks, ask for "eaue ordinaire" (plain water) and
they'll be happy to fill your bottles for you. One woman humorously asked if
I wanted "Vin Rue" (red wine).
Another time I'd headed down the wrong road for about 10km or so, and went
into a bar to ask directions. The woman at the bar (lots of women tending
bars in France, by the way) kinda freaked out at the idea I was so far off
course and thought I'd never make it to where I had to go before dark.
Almost seemed like she was going to drive me there, but I told her no
problem, not a big deal (and in fact got in way before dark).
And yet another pleasant bar experience climbing the Tourmalet. I took a
breather at a bar/cafe about 2/3rds up on the Luz Ardiden side, and brought
a bottle of water from their display to the counter. The guy took it from me
and replaced it with one from his indoor cooler, which was quite a bit
colder. He might have even given me a glass with three ice cubes, although
if he had, I couldn't admit it, since that's apparently a high crime in
France.
--Mike Jacoubowsky
Chain Reaction Bicycles
www.ChainReaction.com
Redwood City & Los Altos, CA USA