So I recently purchased a bicycle primarily as a form of exercise, but the best motivation for me is having somewhere to go. I started out on my first couple of rides staying timidly on the sidewalk (I know, shame on me) until today when I was finally chastised for it by a man downtown.
From now on, if I intend to ride, I plan to do so in the streets like any good cyclist. I've spent hours today reading up on cyclist safety, watching videos, and studying diagrams for all sorts of situations that I don't even plan to encounter yet as I only plan on commuting to and from the park for now (about six miles getting there and back). And although I know I need to be assertive and take the road when I need it, I see far too many cyclists in my area who let themselves be squished into the curb or on the sidewalk.
Any words of wisdom for gaining confidence to rule the road? Should I stubbornly take the lane when I know I need it? Should I wait until I have a rearview mirror before attempting complicated left turns? How do -you- handle taking heat from drivers who think you belong on the sidewalk? I have issues with social anxiety, but I don't want to let my fear of what others may think of me get in the way of my love for cycling.
Also, since I work nights I plan on eventually getting lights and working on someday riding to and from work when I have stamina and experience. But beyond night riding, I have a fear of the bridge I would need to cross. With two narrow, shoulderless lanes, a sidewalk on only one side, and 35mph on a relatively steep incline/decline... I'm clueless as to how to conquer getting over it. Of the two bridges I can opt to take, it is the shortest and the slowest. I simply don't know if I should grit through it and take the lane going as fast as my feet will take me, then pull to the shoulder once I've cleared it... Or take the safe route, dismount, and walk my bike down the sidewalk. I live in a bike friendly area, but that doesn't mean the drivers are bike friendly. And considering that the bridge is a drawbridge... I worry about impatient drivers. I saw a cyclist crossing once who was squeezed against the rail that lines the sidewalk with maybe a foot on either side of him and I know I'd nearly have a heart attack if that were me. I know the correct approach is to take my legal right to have the lane, but is that really the safest?
It would be great to hear from experienced riders, and maybe get some words of wisdom. Thanks in advance!