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Actively confronting ignorance/hostility

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  1. Some unicyclists, when faced with 'unicycle comments', bad
    jokes or hostility, veer towards accepting it as inevitable;
    others can't help seeing it as really annoying.

    I must confess, I tend more towards the latter, in that I
    find comparisons with circuses, shouted comments etc,
    unnacceptable. However, there is wisdom in a degree of
    acceptance, as it leads to less stress.

    Increasingly though, I've been thinking of ways to
    constructivly challenge the preconceptions that lie behind
    such behaviour, some of which I've posted before.

    I thought it would be useful to start a thread on which
    others can post their ideas/experiences of dealing with
    negative attitudes in a constructive way that educates the
    non unicycling public; and also post experiences of pitfalls
    resulting from such an approach.

    This was triggered by an incident on my ride today, and I'll
    kick off the thread by posting details below.

    --
    onewheeldave - Semi Skilled Unicyclist

    "He's also been known to indulge in a spot of flame juggling - but it's
    the Muni that really fires him up."

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  2. My 29-er riding has been going well, after almost a month
    of consistent daily riding I'm more confident both on the
    road and off.

    A nice side effect has been that negative comments, already
    quite low, have dropped even lower now I'm on the 29-er. I
    guess it's something to do with the height,
    skill/confidence and general serious look (high speed,
    helmet/padding, lights etc).

    However today, I was faced with this: -

    riding on the pavement (sidewalk) I saw two young men ahead,
    and adjusted direction to pass them as they came towards me.

    The one closest was speaking on a mobile and, as I passed I
    heard him saying there was a unicyclist who he was GOING TO
    KICK! (capitals indicate the fact that he shouted the last
    part whilst thrusting his face towards me).

    People jumping towards me or pretending to push me I see as
    a problem because, although usually a joke it's difficult
    not to react because one day it may be carried out.

    On passing a flurry of thoughts went through my head but I
    think it was mainly instinct that led me to react. This took
    the form of immediately dismounting and striding towards him
    with the intention of explaining that what he had just done
    was dangerous.

    However, I must have gone in looking a bit aggressive
    because his mouth opened, his hands went up and he
    immediately blurted out that he 'wasn't really going to kick
    me!'; he looked as though he expected me to punch him.

    I stopped and said that it was a pretty stupid thing to do
    to someone on a unicycle, and, as he again explained that he
    hadn't meant it, cut him off by saying that I understood
    that now, but that I had only a split second to decide, at
    the time, whether he was joking or whether he was going to
    actually do it.

    He still looked scared and was stuck on again saying that he
    didn't mean what he said so I just held up my hands told him
    it was OK and walked off.

    Looking back, I thing there are two lessons from the
    incident: -

    1. Some behaviour is out of order and, if you're up to
    it, there's good reason to not just ride by as if it
    didn't happen.

    2. Be aware that jumping off a high wheel and bearing down
    on someone whilst wearing a big helmet and padded up with
    wrist guards etc, is open to misinterpretation. Whilst
    some may see this as good because people may take more
    notice if they are feeling threatened, my feelings are
    that it's not a good impression to give because: -

    a) it's bad for the image of unicycling (although it does
    counter the image of unicyclists as clowns/hippy types)
    b) it's going to make the person feel bullied
    c) one day you may encounter someone who's well up for a
    scrap and end up getting hurt

    It's important to realise that when someone does something
    like this as a joke, they generally expect you to see it as
    a joke as well, and will not be expecting you to get off and
    head towards them; equally, it's important for us to do our
    best to spread the word that certain types of 'jokey'
    behaviour are unwelcome and potentially quite dangerous.

    --
    onewheeldave - Semi Skilled Unicyclist

    "He's also been known to indulge in a spot of flame juggling - but it's
    the Muni that really fires him up."

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  3. one time i smoked a guy with my piece because he said i was
    holding my crotch.

    --
    muniracer - Hell On Wheel

    The Hell on Wheel Unicycle Gang owns you!!

    www.hellonwheel.cjb.net
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