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  1. Son arrived home from college not long ago. He is quite shaken. He just
    missed being splatted by a car speeding through the village.

    He had lights on bike (lit and multitudinous) and was wearing reflective
    gilet with three wide nads of reflective around the body and reflective
    stripes over the shoulder. The Unfit Family cycle in hours of darkness using
    the 'lit up like a Christmas tree/low-flying UFO' principle.

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the private lane
    we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming - signals right - moves to
    centre of road (but still LH of central line) - hears engine roaring up from
    behind swiftly followed by squeal of brakes as tw@t speeds through village
    and overtakes the cyclist who is signalling to make a RH turn...

    Thankfully son had his wits about him and *didn't* attempt the RH turn... if
    he had, I'd likely be minus a son by now.

    Sad to say in the heat of the moment, son didn't get the twunts registration
    number.

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

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  2. wafflycat' w*a*ff£y£cat*@£btco*nn£ect.com said:

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the
    private lane we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming -
    signals right - moves to centre of road (but still LH of central
    line) - hears engine roaring up from behind swiftly followed by
    squeal of brakes as tw@t speeds through village and overtakes the
    cyclist who is signalling to make a RH turn...

    Sorry to hear that. I have not-so-fond memories of a cabbie in
    Wivenhoe that did that to me.

    To tie in with another thread, you just have to be grateful the
    moton wasn't looking at his speedometer, or otherwise he would have
    been destined to hit your son (if at a legal speed) ...

    Brendan
    --
    Brendan Halpin, Department of Sociology, University of Limerick, Ireland
    Tel: w +353-61-213147 f +353-61-202569 h +353-61-338562; Room F2-025 x 3147
    [email hidden] http://www.ul.ie/sociology/brendan.halpin.html

  3. On Fri, 3 Nov 2006 17:08:47 -0000 someone who may be "wafflycat"
    <w*a*ff£y£cat*@£btco*nn£ect.com> wrote this:-

    Quoted message said:

    Thankfully son had his wits about him and *didn't* attempt the RH turn... if
    he had, I'd likely be minus a son by now.

    And he would undoubtedly have been blamed (by the police and/or
    courts) for doing something as "unusual" as turning right. Cyclists
    have been blamed for turning right before.

    Quoted message said:

    Sad to say in the heat of the moment, son didn't get the twunts registration
    number.

    Hopefully he won't have another chance to remember to do this on
    another occasion.

    Quoted message said:

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    Glad to hear he is alright.

    --
    David Hansen, Edinburgh
    I will *always* explain revoked encryption keys, unless RIP prevents me
    http://www.opsi.gov.uk/acts/acts2000/00023--e.htm#54

  4. "co10" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    "wafflycat" <w*a*ff£y£cat*@£btco*nn£ect.com> wrote in message
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    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

    I had a near miss yesterday, actually my fault, but what the hell. I live
    alone so didn't get a hug. Can you save me one......?

    Glad he's OK though.

    Bill

    Hugs a-plenty!
    {{{{{{{{{{ Bill }}}}}}}}}}
    Ten virtual ones for you ;-)

  5. "wafflycat" <w*a*ff£y£cat*@£btco*nn£ect.com> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:

    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

    I had a near miss yesterday, actually my fault, but what the hell. I live
    alone so didn't get a hug. Can you save me one......?

    Glad he's OK though.

    Bill

  6. "Brendan Halpin" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:
    wafflycat' w*a*ff£y£cat*@£btco*nn£ect.com said:

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the
    private lane we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming -
    signals right - moves to centre of road (but still LH of central
    line) - hears engine roaring up from behind swiftly followed by
    squeal of brakes as tw@t speeds through village and overtakes the
    cyclist who is signalling to make a RH turn...

    Sorry to hear that. I have not-so-fond memories of a cabbie in
    Wivenhoe that did that to me.

    To tie in with another thread, you just have to be grateful the
    moton wasn't looking at his speedometer, or otherwise he would have
    been destined to hit your son (if at a legal speed) ...

    Brendan

    Dear Brendan, comprehension not good? Which bit of "a car speeding
    through....." do you not understand? If the t**t hadn't been speeding i.e.
    looking at his speedo occasionally, the situation would not have occurred.

  7. Brendan Halpin said:

    To tie in with another thread, you just have to be grateful the
    moton wasn't looking at his speedometer,

    ....or tuning his radio, or dialing his phone, or twiddling his satnav, or
    rummaging in the glove box for bubble gum, or trying to hush the children in the
    back seat, or chatting to his pregnant wife (like the tw*nt who rear-ended me
    yonks ago), Why obsess with speedometers, which are not particularly
    distracting (unless near a malfunctioning type 93 radar)?

  8. wafflycat said:

    Son arrived home from college not long ago. He is quite shaken. He just
    missed being splatted by a car speeding through the village.

    He had lights on bike (lit and multitudinous) and was wearing reflective
    gilet with three wide nads of reflective around the body and reflective
    stripes over the shoulder. The Unfit Family cycle in hours of darkness using
    the 'lit up like a Christmas tree/low-flying UFO' principle.

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the private lane
    we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming - signals right - moves to
    centre of road (but still LH of central line) - hears engine roaring up from
    behind swiftly followed by squeal of brakes as tw@t speeds through village
    and overtakes the cyclist who is signalling to make a RH turn...

    Thankfully son had his wits about him and *didn't* attempt the RH turn... if
    he had, I'd likely be minus a son by now.

    Sad to say in the heat of the moment, son didn't get the twunts registration
    number.

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

    Similar happened to me quite a few years ago. I also decided discretion
    was better part. I was just in process of turning right, well lit, on
    shopping street, when speeding car forced way through on my right.
    Woman driver, as it happened. I had young son on childseat on back.
    Difficult to credit.

  9. "wafflycat" <w*a*ff£y£cat*@£btco*nn£ect.com>typed

    Quoted message said:

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    Quoted message said:

    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

    Have some virtual hugs from the other Helen and pass any spares to Nathan...

    --
    Helen D. Vecht: [email hidden]
    Edgware.

  10. wafflycat said:

    Son arrived home from college not long ago. He is quite shaken. He just
    missed being splatted by a car speeding through the village.

    He had lights on bike (lit and multitudinous) and was wearing reflective
    gilet with three wide nads of reflective around the body and reflective
    stripes over the shoulder. The Unfit Family cycle in hours of darkness
    using the 'lit up like a Christmas tree/low-flying UFO' principle.

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the private
    lane we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming - signals right -
    moves to centre of road (but still LH of central line) - hears engine
    roaring up from behind swiftly followed by squeal of brakes as tw@t
    speeds through village and overtakes the cyclist who is signalling to
    make a RH turn...

    Thankfully son had his wits about him and *didn't* attempt the RH
    turn... if he had, I'd likely be minus a son by now.

    Sad to say in the heat of the moment, son didn't get the twunts
    registration number.

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

    Sorry to hear that he was nearly wiped out, glad to hear he is okay. On
    the plus side I gave out 23 EFPN's for stopping in an ASL this week 🙂
    Just feeling mean...

    Sniper8052

  11. "Sniper8052(L96A1)" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:


    Sorry to hear that he was nearly wiped out, glad to hear he is okay. On
    the plus side I gave out 23 EFPN's for stopping in an ASL this week 🙂
    Just feeling mean...

    Any chance of coming to Bristol and feeling mean? You'd have to have a
    vanful of EFPN forms though!

  12. wafflycat said:

    Son arrived home from college not long ago. He is quite shaken. He just
    missed being splatted by a car speeding through the village.

    I'm pleased he is OK. These things can shake you up.

    Quoted message said:

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the private
    lane we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming - signals right -
    moves to centre of road (but still LH of central line)

    There should be a little reminder here to *always* give a life-saver
    glance *after* signalling.

    Glad he's OK though, and hope it hasn't affected his confidence.

    tt

  13. wafflycat said:

    Son arrived home from college not long ago. He is quite shaken. He just
    missed being splatted by a car speeding through the village.

    He had lights on bike (lit and multitudinous) and was wearing reflective
    gilet with three wide nads of reflective around the body and reflective
    stripes over the shoulder. The Unfit Family cycle in hours of darkness using
    the 'lit up like a Christmas tree/low-flying UFO' principle.

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the private lane
    we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming - signals right - moves to
    centre of road (but still LH of central line) - hears engine roaring up from
    behind swiftly followed by squeal of brakes as tw@t speeds through village
    and overtakes the cyclist who is signalling to make a RH turn...

    Thankfully son had his wits about him and *didn't* attempt the RH turn... if
    he had, I'd likely be minus a son by now.

    Sad to say in the heat of the moment, son didn't get the twunts registration
    number.

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

    Much sympathy. These things are not nice and keep one shaken for a
    while, even if dwelling on the 'might have beens'.

    It is a credit to you that he had the wit to notice the situation and
    react appropriately. Hopefully the driver will be removed from the road
    soon.

    In some ways it is good to have a close call like this. It does stop
    one becoming complacent (though that is probably the wrong term - too
    strong) and refines our sense of danger with effects that last longer
    than the immediate shock.

    Large brandies all round.. this is one of those occasions where the
    medicinal properties of alcohol and getting pished are vastly
    underrated.

    ...d

  14. "Sniper8052(L96A1)" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    Quoted message said:
    wafflycat said:

    Son arrived home from college not long ago. He is quite shaken. He just
    missed being splatted by a car speeding through the village.

    He had lights on bike (lit and multitudinous) and was wearing reflective
    gilet with three wide nads of reflective around the body and reflective
    stripes over the shoulder. The Unfit Family cycle in hours of darkness
    using the 'lit up like a Christmas tree/low-flying UFO' principle.

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the private
    lane we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming - signals right -
    moves to centre of road (but still LH of central line) - hears engine
    roaring up from behind swiftly followed by squeal of brakes as tw@t
    speeds through village and overtakes the cyclist who is signalling to
    make a RH turn...

    Thankfully son had his wits about him and *didn't* attempt the RH
    turn... if he had, I'd likely be minus a son by now.

    Sad to say in the heat of the moment, son didn't get the twunts
    registration number.

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

    Sorry to hear that he was nearly wiped out, glad to hear he is okay. On
    the plus side I gave out 23 EFPN's for stopping in an ASL this week 🙂
    Just feeling mean...


    If that's what it takes for them to learn what an ASL is about, then all's
    good. I doubt that many drivers have revised the highway code since they
    passed their test, so won't know how to handle ASLs. They don't know how to
    handle boxed junctions in Walsall, where the ring road is being dug up and
    rebuilt, and there is no excuse for that.

    --
    David Lloyd,
    The pub is responsible for my opinions.

  15. "wafflycat" <w*a*ff£y£cat*@£btco*nn£ect.com> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    Son arrived home from college not long ago. He is quite shaken. He just
    missed being splatted by a car speeding through the village.

    Sheesh :-(
    Glad he arrived in one piece H.

    --
    Simon Mason
    http://www.simonmason.karoo.net

  16. burt said:

    "Brendan Halpin" <[email hidden]> wrote in message

    Quoted message said:

    To tie in with another thread, you just have to be grateful the
    moton wasn't looking at his speedometer, or otherwise he would have
    been destined to hit your son (if at a legal speed) ...

    Brendan

    Dear Brendan, comprehension not good? Which bit of "a car speeding
    through....." do you not understand? If the t**t hadn't been speeding i.e.
    looking at his speedo occasionally, the situation would not have occurred.

    Whoosh!

    B
    --
    Brendan Halpin, Department of Sociology, University of Limerick, Ireland
    Tel: w +353-61-213147 f +353-61-202569 h +353-61-338562; Room F2-025 x 3147
    [email hidden] http://www.ul.ie/sociology/brendan.halpin.html

  17. Having been on the receiving end of a t-bone this week, I symapathise. I
    spent the morning watching my son play in the dirt with his digger,
    reminding myself how close he nearly came to being without a dad.

    Someone asked me this week if my confidence had been rocked, and I
    immediately said no because I can't wait to get back on the bike when
    everything heals... but I have realised I'm more use to my family alive
    and kicking!

    Someone else said "what don't kill you makes you stronger" - but I don't
    agree with that right now, as for some reason I'm welling with tears. (I
    hope it's post-traumatic and not a long-lasting wussiness!)

    Gonna give my kid an extra hug every day from now on....

    wafflycat said:

    Son arrived home from college not long ago. He is quite shaken. He just
    missed being splatted by a car speeding through the village.

    He had lights on bike (lit and multitudinous) and was wearing reflective
    gilet with three wide nads of reflective around the body and reflective
    stripes over the shoulder. The Unfit Family cycle in hours of darkness
    using the 'lit up like a Christmas tree/low-flying UFO' principle.

    The son was in the process of doing the final RH turn into the private
    lane we live on. He looked behind him - nothing coming - signals right -
    moves to centre of road (but still LH of central line) - hears engine
    roaring up from behind swiftly followed by squeal of brakes as tw@t
    speeds through village and overtakes the cyclist who is signalling to
    make a RH turn...

    Thankfully son had his wits about him and *didn't* attempt the RH
    turn... if he had, I'd likely be minus a son by now.

    Sad to say in the heat of the moment, son didn't get the twunts
    registration number.

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    He has had a huge hug and shall be getting more.

  18. wafflycat came up with the following;:

    Quoted message said:

    Thankfully son had his wits about him and *didn't* attempt the RH turn...
    if he had, I'd likely be minus a son by now.

    He sounds like a pretty damn good cyclist, by all accounts ... even allowing
    for a mothers love and bigging him up ... 😉

    Quoted message said:

    On the plus side, I'm just exceedingly grateful son is alive, physically
    unhurt, just scared witless for a while.

    Thank goodness. Very pleased for you, and son. 🙂

    --
    Paul ...
    (8(|) Homer Rules ..... Doh !!!

  19. Rola wrote on 04/11/2006 13:55 +0100:

    Quoted message said:


    Having been on the receiving end of a t-bone this week, I symapathise. I
    spent the morning watching my son play in the dirt with his digger,
    reminding myself how close he nearly came to being without a dad.

    Someone asked me this week if my confidence had been rocked, and I
    immediately said no because I can't wait to get back on the bike when
    everything heals... but I have realised I'm more use to my family alive
    and kicking!

    Someone else said "what don't kill you makes you stronger" - but I don't
    agree with that right now, as for some reason I'm welling with tears. (I
    hope it's post-traumatic and not a long-lasting wussiness!)

    Gonna give my kid an extra hug every day from now on....

    That's the most useful thing that can come out of it. Many years ago we
    were oh so nearly taken out by a car running a red light at must have
    been 60mph. I saw it coming, put my foot down and it just missed the
    rear bumper otherwise is would have taken out the back of the car where
    our two four year olds were strapped in. It made me realise how
    suddenly, unexpectedly and randomly things could be taken from you and
    the importance of making the most of and not getting complacent about
    the things you value. End of philosophical rant.

    PS Glad you and Nathan both came out of it and heal quickly.

    --
    Tony

    ‘I seem to have been only like a boy playing on the sea-shore and
    diverting myself in now and then finding a smoother pebble or a prettier
    shell than ordinary’
    - Isaac Newton

  20. "Tony Raven" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
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    It made me realise how

    Quoted message said:

    suddenly, unexpectedly and randomly things could be taken from you and the
    importance of making the most of and not getting complacent about the
    things you value. End of philosophical rant.

    That's how I "cheer people up" at work. I try and get them to visualise
    being in a hospice with only one way out, or coming round in hospital after
    having a limb amputated. Count your blessings every day is my motto.

    --
    Simon Mason
    http://www.simonmason.karoo.net

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