cincinattikid,
Is your HRM and pulse strap wireless? I suspect they are and as such they are susceptible to frequency interruptions, which may cause inaccurate readings. My HRM and chest/pulse strap is wireless and this sort of thing happens to me as well. When I download the info to my PC from the HRM, I sometimes see, surges up to 222 for 5-second clips--I just ignore, because I don't think it's possible to reach 222 bpm then recover in 5 seconds.
Finding my MAX HR was painful. There are lots of training materials out there to help. I used the 220 minus my age "rule" until I found what my goals were; cycling up hills. Hence, I used my bike and some gradual (2-3 mile 5-7% grade) hills to find my max hr, and I did it in 15 second increments where I would apply more power (higher speed or cadence, same gear) every 15 seconds, and continued this for 3 miles or until I fell over--which I really did. From about mile two, I peddled standing up, and from that point on, I was in pain, hearing voices in my head, I could barely see, things were blurry, and like you, I spewed. It was intense. I reached my all time, known, high of 187 bpm. I am 38 years old, 210 pounds and am 6.0' tall. Prior to determining my max hr, I was in good shape, working out at least 5 hours per week and logging 30-50 miles on my bike per week. So finding my max was easier than it would have been had I not been in somewhat good physical shape. My point in sharing this is because I think finding the max hr is based in part on existing aerobic and anaerobic fitness levels which differs in each person. Hope it helps.