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  1. Eric said:

    Claire - sounds like you had an experience where this happened to you.
    Were you the former, or latter, person?

    Claire rides STP (a double century ride; that would be 200 miles) on
    weekends and commutes almost daily. In the example given, she was the
    high-miler hearing from the 7-mile newbie. (I don't spend much time on
    this here NG and I knew that.)

    What I usually get is an immediate question about how many bikes I
    have. Usually I diffuse that by describing my current favorite. (OK,
    it's the $40 City auction special, Specialized Hard Rock. It's purple.)

    And the other day a pedestrian allowed as how I was "brave." (Four-lane
    street, 25 mph, bus route, small early century duplexes and single
    family on both sides, takes me directly downtown. Maybe he liked my
    hurts-the-eye green jacket.)

    HTH

    --Karen D.

  2. Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an accomplishment
    that for you, would be rather lame?

    For example: you are at a party. The hostess introduces you to someone, and
    says, as a way to help along conversation, "oh [insert name] is into cycling
    too!". The person you meet then informs you that she rode seven whole miles
    down the multi-use trail last Sunday. Meanwhile, you rode 70 miles last
    Sunday, and 700 miles that month.

    Or, you are at the beer garden at the end of a century. Someone tells you
    that they did the whole 100 miles, in 10 hours! Wow! And you did it in 5
    hours in a tightly organized little paceline. Or she got up that big steep
    hill towards the end by just telling herself she wouldn't let her mph slip
    below 5 mph the whole way up -- and you didn't let your mph slip below 10.

    Do you smirk at that person condescendingly while s/he relates his/her
    accomplishment?
    Do you break in to the person's tale and make sure s/he is informed as to
    your god(dess)-like cycling status?
    Do you listen attentively and politely, and then make modest,
    self-deprecating remarks when asked about yourself?

    Or?

    I am absolutely horrible at & loathe small-talk type schmoozing. So
    I would *look* like I'm listening attentively/politely (I hope)
    while all the while scheming how to escape the conversation.
    I would, if necessary, add modest remarks about myself.

    Modest because I'm not an advanced cyclist. I'd likely be the one
    saying I rode 7 miles down the MUP 🙂

    Scott

  3. Claire Petersky said:

    ... The person you meet then informs you that she rode seven whole miles
    down the multi-use trail last Sunday. Meanwhile, you rode 70 miles last
    Sunday, and 700 miles that month.

    Or, you are at the beer garden at the end of a century. Someone tells you
    that they did the whole 100 miles, in 10 hours! Wow! And you did it in 5
    hours in a tightly organized little paceline. Or she got up that big steep
    hill towards the end by just telling herself she wouldn't let her mph slip
    below 5 mph the whole way up -- and you didn't let your mph slip below 10.

    A second response, on further thought:

    It's good to be trying to extend ourselves, and do more miles in fewer
    hours at higher speed. But it's good to remember that that, in itself,
    isn't necessarily "better" bicycling.

    Perhaps bicycling can sometimes be an art, like painting water colors?
    Maybe sometimes the goal shouldn't be "Whoa, I painted that landscape
    in four minutes flat! Damn, I'm good!"

    Perhaps sometimes the goal should be to really notice the turning
    leaves, to converse with the little kid riding to his buddy's house, to
    watch the red-tail soaring from the top of the hill you climbed.
    Perhaps sometimes it shouldn't be about speed or distance, but quality.

    And maybe that friend had a high-quality ride. That could be a good
    direction to steer that conversation, no?

    - Frank Krygowski

  4. Zoot Katz said:

    Tue, 18 Oct 2005 03:41:22 GMT,
    <[email hidden]>,

    Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an accomplishment
    that for you, would be rather lame?

    Congratulate them and then change the subject to bike tech type stuff
    until their eyes glaze over and they excuse themselves.
    --
    zk

    That's way harsh Zoot!!! My eyes glaze over if I try to read that
    other newsgroup...."rec.Bikes-tech" or whatever that is. Truly Harsh.

    But hey, my eyes glaze over when I have to listen to our computer tech
    discuss our computers.

    At a party, if anyone wants to rid themselves of me, all they have to
    do is start talking about megabytes and ram.........I don't walk away,
    I run.

    But hopefully if I ever try to discuss my simple style of riding with a
    very experienced rider, they will encourage my efforts. Hopefully.

    Maggie

  5. Peter Cole said:
    Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an accomplishment
    that for you, would be rather lame?

    Quoted message said:

    Do you smirk at that person condescendingly while s/he relates his/her
    accomplishment?
    Do you break in to the person's tale and make sure s/he is informed as to
    your god(dess)-like cycling status?
    Do you listen attentively and politely, and then make modest,
    self-deprecating remarks when asked about yourself?

    Or?

    [snip]

    Quoted message said:

    If the person is being a bore and droning on & on about themselves, I'll
    move on.

    I'm in a variant of that camp. I've said for years (and it's amazing
    how often it seems to apply in Southern California): beware of anybody
    who speaks only of themselves, never asking anything about /you/.

    If this person's remarks come in the context of a thoughtful person,
    interested in others as well as his/her self, I'd be pretty
    congratulatory, perhaps even asking for more specifics about their
    ride, their equipment, their riding history, etc. Then I'd likely
    soft-sell the "Yeah, I've been cycling for quite a while now. I try
    to get out four or five times a week" idea. If they pressed for
    details, I'd start getting quantitative.

    OTOH, If it's just a narcissistic windbag, I'm reminded of a line from
    Cheers: "I just realized, Mr. Malone: you're boring, and I have legs."

    <g>
    --
    Live simply so that others may simply live

  6. Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an accomplishment
    that for you, would be rather lame?

    For example: you are at a party. The hostess introduces you to someone, and
    says, as a way to help along conversation, "oh [insert name] is into cycling
    too!". The person you meet then informs you that she rode seven whole miles
    down the multi-use trail last Sunday. Meanwhile, you rode 70 miles last
    Sunday, and 700 miles that month.

    Tough question! It depends on my mood but as of late I've been a lot
    more accommodating and I congratulate them. I remember when I first
    started out, riding the distances I ride now seemed like fantasy.
    Besides is it a greater accomplishment to have done a century when you
    know you can do it or to ride 7 miles when you haven't done it before?
    To the person who hasn't done it before it's a great still a great
    accomplishment.

    Now if a blow hard starts up I sometimes will be happy in the
    knowledge that I can kick their cluster. But sometimes I just have to
    put them in their place. I need to be careful as it very embarrassing
    to try to put a blow hard in their place when they can put you in
    yours. But that's what club rides are for. There I can 'put my money
    where my mouth is'.

    --
    Linux Home Automation Neil Cherry [email hidden]
    http://home.comcast.net/~ncherry/ (Text only)
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  7. In article <[email hidden]>,

    Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an accomplishment
    that for you, would be rather lame?

    ....

    Quoted message said:

    Do you smirk at that person condescendingly while s/he relates his/her
    accomplishment?
    Do you break in to the person's tale and make sure s/he is informed as to
    your god(dess)-like cycling status?
    Do you listen attentively and politely, and then make modest,
    self-deprecating remarks when asked about yourself?

    Kind of reminds me of this Billy Crystal standup routine:

    http://snltranscripts.jt.org/75/75qcrystal.phtml

    [Lights go down, shrouding the studio in darkness. Jazz saxophone plays
    a mellow tune. A lone spotlight shines on a stool on the walkway that
    juts out into the audience. Crystal, imitating an old jazz musician, walks
    into the spotlight and sits on the stool.]

    Billy Crystal: [in character, raspy voice]

    ....

    We went to a concert that was given by Romano Mussolini. Yassss, yes, yes,
    yes. He's the son of Il Duce. Yasss, yes, yes, yes. Can you dig it? I knew
    that you could. Yes, yes. Romano, he don't play too good. He stunk up the
    joint. And we was nervous 'cause we know, we's gonna go backstage and he's
    gonna say, "Hey, Pops, what'd you think about the set?" And Webster, he's too
    kind to tell him that he stunk up the joint, you know what I'm talkin' about?
    Yes, yes, yes. Sure enough, we watch him. He's lousy. We go backstage and he
    says, "Hey, Pops, what'd you think about the set?" And Webster, he don't know
    what to say and he goes, uh, "Hey, man, it was a drag what they did to
    your father."

    cheers,
    Tom

    --
    -- Nothing is safe from me.
    Above address is just a spam midden.
    I'm really at: tkeats [curlicue] vcn [point] bc [point] ca

  8. Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an accomplishment
    that for you, would be rather lame?

    For example: you are at a party. The hostess introduces you to someone, and
    says, as a way to help along conversation, "oh [insert name] is into cycling
    too!". The person you meet then informs you that she rode seven whole miles
    down the multi-use trail last Sunday. Meanwhile, you rode 70 miles last
    Sunday, and 700 miles that month.

    Or, you are at the beer garden at the end of a century. Someone tells you
    that they did the whole 100 miles, in 10 hours! Wow! And you did it in 5
    hours in a tightly organized little paceline. Or she got up that big steep
    hill towards the end by just telling herself she wouldn't let her mph slip
    below 5 mph the whole way up -- and you didn't let your mph slip below 10.

    Do you smirk at that person condescendingly while s/he relates his/her
    accomplishment?
    Do you break in to the person's tale and make sure s/he is informed as to
    your god(dess)-like cycling status?
    Do you listen attentively and politely, and then make modest,
    self-deprecating remarks when asked about yourself?

    Or?

    It's just my personality, since I'm probably older than a lot of you and
    for years have been involved in a lot of different types of activities,
    but I'd try to encourage the beginner. I try to convey the enjoyment
    that I get out of cycling. At times early on, I was made to feel like
    the rookie that I was, but I just shrugged it off and found some better
    friends to ride with. Probably the worst thing you can do is to come
    across like a snob, that you are somehow elite and special when in
    reality, there's always someone who can do it better and faster than
    even you can.

  9. [email hidden] wrote:
    :> Claire Petersky wrote:
    :>> ... The person you meet then informs you that she rode seven whole
    :>> miles down the multi-use trail last Sunday. Meanwhile, you rode 70
    :>> miles last Sunday, and 700 miles that month.
    :>>
    :>> Or, you are at the beer garden at the end of a century. Someone
    :>> tells you that they did the whole 100 miles, in 10 hours! Wow! And
    :>> you did it in 5 hours in a tightly organized little paceline. Or
    :>> she got up that big steep hill towards the end by just telling
    :>> herself she wouldn't let her mph slip below 5 mph the whole way up
    :>> -- and you didn't let your mph slip below 10.
    :>
    :> A second response, on further thought:
    :>
    :> It's good to be trying to extend ourselves, and do more miles in
    :> fewer hours at higher speed. But it's good to remember that that,
    :> in itself, isn't necessarily "better" bicycling.
    :>
    :> Perhaps bicycling can sometimes be an art, like painting water
    :> colors? Maybe sometimes the goal shouldn't be "Whoa, I painted that
    :> landscape
    :> in four minutes flat! Damn, I'm good!"
    :>
    :> Perhaps sometimes the goal should be to really notice the turning
    :> leaves, to converse with the little kid riding to his buddy's house,
    :> to watch the red-tail soaring from the top of the hill you climbed.
    :> Perhaps sometimes it shouldn't be about speed or distance, but
    :> quality.
    :>
    :>
    :> And maybe that friend had a high-quality ride. That could be a good
    :> direction to steer that conversation, no?
    :>
    :> - Frank Krygowski

    Yes, you're reached the higher state of cycling wisdom, Frank, the true high
    gear.

  10. Maggie <[email hidden]> wrote:
    :> Zoot Katz wrote:
    :>> Tue, 18 Oct 2005 03:41:22 GMT,
    :>> <[email hidden]>,
    :>> "Claire Petersky" <[email hidden]> wrote:
    :>>
    :>> >I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head
    :>> >for a while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists
    :>> >here, how do you react when you encounter someone who is very
    :>> >proud of an accomplishment that for you, would be rather lame?
    :>>
    :>> Congratulate them and then change the subject to bike tech type
    :>> stuff
    :>> until their eyes glaze over and they excuse themselves.
    :>> --
    :>> zk
    :>
    :>
    :> That's way harsh Zoot!!! My eyes glaze over if I try to read that
    :> other newsgroup...."rec.Bikes-tech" or whatever that is. Truly
    :> Harsh.
    :>
    :>
    :> But hey, my eyes glaze over when I have to listen to our computer
    :> tech discuss our computers.
    :>
    :> At a party, if anyone wants to rid themselves of me, all they have to
    :> do is start talking about megabytes and ram.........I don't walk
    :> away,
    :> I run.
    :>
    :> But hopefully if I ever try to discuss my simple style of riding
    :> with a
    :> very experienced rider, they will encourage my efforts. Hopefully.
    :>
    :> Maggie

    Well, Mags...it really sounds like it won't matter what they say because it
    seems your eyes glaze over really easily, dear.

    Joking! 🙂

  11. "Claire Petersky" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an
    accomplishment that for you, would be rather lame?

    For example: you are at a party. The hostess introduces you to someone,
    and says, as a way to help along conversation, "oh [insert name] is into
    cycling too!". The person you meet then informs you that she rode seven
    whole miles down the multi-use trail last Sunday. Meanwhile, you rode 70
    miles last Sunday, and 700 miles that month.

    Or, you are at the beer garden at the end of a century. Someone tells you
    that they did the whole 100 miles, in 10 hours! Wow! And you did it in 5
    hours in a tightly organized little paceline. Or she got up that big steep
    hill towards the end by just telling herself she wouldn't let her mph slip
    below 5 mph the whole way up -- and you didn't let your mph slip below 10.

    Do you smirk at that person condescendingly while s/he relates his/her
    accomplishment?
    Do you break in to the person's tale and make sure s/he is informed as to
    your god(dess)-like cycling status?
    Do you listen attentively and politely, and then make modest,
    self-deprecating remarks when asked about yourself?

    Or?

    --
    Warm Regards,

    Claire Petersky
    Personal page: http://www.geocities.com/cpetersky/
    See the books I've set free at:
    http://bookcrossing.com/referral/Cpetersky

    I just remember when I finished my first ride, 8 miles in a little over an
    hour and thought I was going to die. Now I can do 10 miles in an hour :<😉,
    seriously, there are some milestones I remember as if they were yesterday,
    the first ride, the first 25 mile ride and first century. I try to relate
    to their accomplishment by being there at one time.

  12. Ravi said:
    Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for
    a while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here,
    how do you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an
    accomplishment that for you, would be rather lame?

    IMO, the best thing is to appreciate whatever they think they have
    achieved. For their level, it is a great thing. I have had days when i
    had done ~30miles and felt good - because i was just into cycling
    then... We gotto view it from that person's point of view and try to
    appreciate the fact. If you are way way over, still there are common
    subjects as to what structure of training do they do ? or even simpler
    topics like what motivates them to cycle, how long they have been
    cycling, different types of bicycles/rides, etc..

    One thing is how modest you can be when asked about yourself is a
    tougher. I would meekly put forth my state and try to convince that with
    the proper training, anyone can do the kind of rides you do. It is
    important for them to understand that it is possible and there are ways
    to get to that level...

    just another rec. cyclist,
    +ravi


    i know it's kind of annoying when someone says, 'Oh, so and so is into
    biking TOO..." because they have a bike and rode it. But I'm not exactly
    (name the female roadie) myself. If it's one of those lamo things I
    just keep my eye rolling to myself and say oh, how nice. I hate when
    other roadies are snotty so why should I be? But I know what you all
    mean. It's like saying "oh, so and so is a woman too! You must have a
    lot in common!"

  13. Paul Hobson said:
    Dave Vandervies said:

    In article <[email hidden]>,

    Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for
    a while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here,
    how do you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an
    accomplishment that for you, would be rather lame?

    For example: you are at a party. The hostess introduces you to
    someone, and says, as a way to help along conversation, "oh [insert
    name] is into cycling too!". The person you meet then informs you
    that she rode seven whole miles down the multi-use trail last Sunday.
    Meanwhile, you rode 70 miles last Sunday, and 700 miles that month.

    I've run into kind of the inverse problem. How do you deal with people
    who think you're really hardcore into biking just because you ride your
    bike everywhere (at least when the weather's decent) and randomly decide
    to do a 30km ride because the weather's great and you could use a break
    from life for an hour or two? "I'm not any more hardcore about my bike
    than you are about your car" didn't really work as well as I'd've liked.

    Haha...me too! I told some friends that I rode 40 miles in about 3.5
    hours with a friend (slow pace for me) and they freaked out. "Holy
    [censored], Paul! You're INSANE!!!" Only response I could think of was, "''I
    guess so." They also thought it was incredible that I hadn't driven a
    car in three weeks.

    Well... we all get that. I was telling someone that I was riding my bike
    in a hilly area of town, where people to to do their climbing. I'll get
    WOW, you rode your bike up that? Well, it's not like I did it at 30k....

  14. 18 Oct 2005 08:24:28 -0700,
    <[email hidden]>,

    Maggie said:
    Quoted message said:

    Congratulate them and then change the subject to bike tech type stuff
    until their eyes glaze over and they excuse themselves.

    That's way harsh Zoot!!! My eyes glaze over if I try to read that
    other newsgroup...."rec.Bikes-tech" or whatever that is. Truly Harsh.

    It would be harsh if I pursued it and kept badgering them the way some
    people prattle on about their kids, cars, pets and possessions.

    The only thing worse than that is hearing about what they watched on
    television yesterday.

    I carry my kill-file with me to parties.
    --
    zk

  15. Zoot Katz said:

    18 Oct 2005 08:24:28 -0700,
    <[email hidden]>,

    Maggie said:
    Quoted message said:

    Congratulate them and then change the subject to bike tech type stuff
    until their eyes glaze over and they excuse themselves.

    That's way harsh Zoot!!! My eyes glaze over if I try to read that
    other newsgroup...."rec.Bikes-tech" or whatever that is. Truly Harsh.

    It would be harsh if I pursued it and kept badgering them the way some
    people prattle on about their kids, cars, pets and possessions.

    YOU TAKIN' BOUT ME THERE ZOOT??????

  16. 18 Oct 2005 12:21:13 -0700,
    <[email hidden]>, "Maggie"

    Quoted message said:


    Zoot Katz said:

    18 Oct 2005 08:24:28 -0700,
    <[email hidden]>,

    Maggie said:

    > Congratulate them and then change the subject to bike tech type stuff
    > until their eyes glaze over and they excuse themselves.

    That's way harsh Zoot!!! My eyes glaze over if I try to read that
    other newsgroup...."rec.Bikes-tech" or whatever that is. Truly Harsh.

    It would be harsh if I pursued it and kept badgering them the way some
    people prattle on about their kids, cars, pets and possessions.

    YOU TAKIN' BOUT ME THERE ZOOT??????

    A bout with you is pretty far down on the list of things I'd take
    anywhere, sweetie.
    --
    zk

  17. Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an accomplishment
    that for you, would be rather lame?

    For example: you are at a party. The hostess introduces you to someone, and
    says, as a way to help along conversation, "oh [insert name] is into cycling
    too!". The person you meet then informs you that she rode seven whole miles
    down the multi-use trail last Sunday. Meanwhile, you rode 70 miles last
    Sunday, and 700 miles that month.

    Or, you are at the beer garden at the end of a century. Someone tells you
    that they did the whole 100 miles, in 10 hours! Wow! And you did it in 5
    hours in a tightly organized little paceline. Or she got up that big steep
    hill towards the end by just telling herself she wouldn't let her mph slip
    below 5 mph the whole way up -- and you didn't let your mph slip below 10.

    Do you smirk at that person condescendingly while s/he relates his/her
    accomplishment?
    Do you break in to the person's tale and make sure s/he is informed as to
    your god(dess)-like cycling status?
    Do you listen attentively and politely, and then make modest,
    self-deprecating remarks when asked about yourself?

    Or?

    It strikes me as somewhat of an odd question. Everybody's got to start
    somewhere!

    Imagine, if instead "experienced recreational cyclist" vs. "cycling
    newbie" you are now "grown adult with a college education" vs.
    "8-year-old child struggling with long division." I can't imagine any of
    your responses being appropriate in that situation. Anyone who would get
    some sort of satisfaction in inwardly or outwardly comparing themselves
    to a person at such a completely different level of experience--to you
    (generic, not necessarily you, Claire) I say, "pick on someone your own
    size!"

    You can never go wrong with the golden rule: if you were a complete
    newb, how would you want an experienced person to react?

    For me, that'd be heartfelt congratulations, best wishes for continued
    improvement, and maybe any quick pointers or tips for taking it to the
    next level.

  18. -----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE-----

    In article <[email hidden]>,

    Claire Petersky said:

    I'll ask a general question that's been rolling around in my head for a
    while. Since there are many "advanced" recreational cyclists here, how do
    you react when you encounter someone who is very proud of an accomplishment
    that for you, would be rather lame?

    [snip]

    Quoted message said:

    Or, you are at the beer garden at the end of a century. Someone tells you
    that they did the whole 100 miles, in 10 hours! Wow! And you did it in 5
    hours in a tightly organized little paceline. Or she got up that big steep
    hill towards the end by just telling herself she wouldn't let her mph slip
    below 5 mph the whole way up -- and you didn't let your mph slip below 10.

    Do you smirk at that person condescendingly while s/he relates his/her
    accomplishment?
    Do you break in to the person's tale and make sure s/he is informed as to
    your god(dess)-like cycling status?
    Do you listen attentively and politely, and then make modest,
    self-deprecating remarks when asked about yourself?

    Or?

    The third option is the only one for civilized polite
    people. GAD, it's only a bike and no matter how good you
    are there are thousands of people better/stronger/faster.
    Does riding 20mph give you the right to be rude?

    To paraphrase Alex Lowe

    "The best rider is the one having the most fun."

    Personally, I have a lot of respect for the people grinding
    it out in the rear. The person doing a century in 10 hours
    probably had a much harder struggle than the people cruising
    along in 5 hrs.

    _ Booker C. Bense

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  19. "Veloise" <[email hidden]> wrote in message
    news:[email hidden]...

    Quoted message said:
    Eric said:

    Claire - sounds like you had an experience where this happened to you.
    Were you the former, or latter, person?

    Claire rides STP (a double century ride; that would be 200 miles) on
    weekends and commutes almost daily. In the example given, she was the
    high-miler hearing from the 7-mile newbie. (I don't spend much time on
    this here NG and I knew that.)

    Veloise, your confidence in me is heart-warming, but actually, I've played
    both roles.

    In the first instance, yes, I was introduced to someone who indeed bragged
    about 7 miles on the Burke-Gilman trail. Since she was clearly proud of her
    accomplishment, I sure didn't want to rain on her parade. So I asked her
    questions about who she rode with, and how often, and what kind of bike she
    had, and she never seemed to think of asking me the same sorts of questions,
    so I didn't have to feel like I was lording anything over her.

    But I also was in the last example, on the other end. It was on the
    penultimate day of our Canadian Rockies tour. It had been a long day: first
    we went up to the top of the continental divide, and, as soon as we reached
    the top, there was a nasty headwind that erased any benefit of downhill. It
    had then been a slog for miles at a snail's pace, fighting the wind. The
    final section of the ride, we had to climb Sinclair Pass, the steepest
    section of the entire week-long tour, and of course, as soon as we started
    up the hill, a peltingly-hard rainstorm began. I only made it up by mentally
    setting my bike computer to 10 kph, and never, never, never letting myself
    dip below that pace. It was not something I was all that proud of, just a
    reality how you have to deal with things at time, but my husband bragged
    about it to the guy ahead of us in the chowline. The guy smirked at me so
    condescendingly, I wanted to smack him.

    And I do see noobs getting the arrogant, "I'm a vastly superior cyclist"
    treatment from vastly superior cyclists from time to time, and I just want
    to smack those guys, too.

    --
    Warm Regards,

    Claire Petersky
    Personal page: http://www.geocities.com/cpetersky/
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  20. "Booker C. Bense"
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    Quoted message said:

    Does riding 20mph give you the right to be rude?

    Only Fabrizio knows the correct answer to that question.

    --
    Warm Regards,

    Claire Petersky
    Personal page: http://www.geocities.com/cpetersky/
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