Rita said:Ryan Case said:Spent every free hour for the last five months doing a tear down and
rebuild of our new house. (no really, from 1300 to 2300 s/ft. Only two
rooms weren't taken to the studs.) So I hadn't been to the gym in that
much time. Went back last night. Nothing major as I had to be able to
walk today.
2miles on the elleptical in 20 mins
Followed by *lots* of stretching and
four sets of 8 mild weight deadlifts.
I noticed a nice older lady while I was in between sets of dl's. She was
there every night before. She was standing in front of the mirrors in
her sweatsuit on one leg with the other tucked up behind her knee like a
flamingo. She had what looked to be 2.5 db's and was doing bicep curls
in this stance.
I feel really sorry for this lady. This is the exact same [censored] that
those dummies down there had her doing five months ago. And she looks
the same as she did five months ago. O.K. so her balance was a little
better. She is such a nice lady that a part of me really wants to take
here aside and tell her that she is getting ripped off on her personal
training sessions. But, I doubt that it would help and it would probably
get me invited to not come back.
Hmphh!
Ryan
Being a nice and very elderly lady myself, I can emphathize with
your thoughts on personal trainers who don't advance their clients
to heavier weights on a gradual basis.
I wouldn't call her Elderly, just Older. Probably in her mid fifties.
Quoted message said:There definitely is a finite
limit to what we can do over time but we can do far more than we
once thought. Some stay with a trainer for just a short period and
then are afraid to advance on their own. I was lucky to have one
who did encourage me to slowly increase weight and reps, etc.
This lady changes exercises on about a four week basis. But the weight
never seems to exceed a loaf of bread.
Quoted message said:
I don't think it would be amiss to just start a friendly chat with
this woman -- ask her about her experience, etc. I know I appreciated
younger people paying some attention to me🙂 For biceps curls I was
able to gradually increase from 3 pound weights to 10 pounds. And
similar increases in other excercises. See what the woman says about
her training and progression. You can discuss this without being
didactic or upsetting her. At this point you don't really know if it
a trainer or her own fears that holds her back.
I really doubt that she would mind me asking questions. But, if it got
back to her "trainer" that someone was planting the evil seeds of
progressive resistance in her thoughts. Well, we can all imagine how
that would end for me. It states clearly on the front door. Personal
training by any member or guest, blah blah blah, is prohibited. In other
words, DO NOT compete with our trainers.
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I've been away from the gym for over a year because of a medical
problem that I now see will be improved by going back. And presently
I'm not working with a trainer since I've switched gyms as a matter
of convenience to one very close to my home. I'll have to try out the
trainer there and see what I think. Having trained in the past with
two very good ones I think perhaps I can tell the difference.
I'm again back to 3 pound weights. Did too much weight the other day
on the triceps pull down and realized my error. So I will have to be
patient and go in baby steps.
Tell me about it. The last time I came back from a layoff of some sort I
had serious walking funny problem for the first week. This time I am
slowly easing back into it with medium work on one big three each night
for the first couple of weeks.
Ryan