Wilma said:Real BBW said:It makes me want to cry.
You can't change men. They're attracted to that picture because that
woman is attractive. It's self-defining. She's seen as beautiful
because she's beautiful. You aren't going to change it. It's neither
fair nor unfair, it just is.
You do have the choice of changing you, though. If you feel like crying
because that olympic athlete gets more approval for her looks than you
do maybe it's a signal that you need to focus more attention on how you
look.
Quoted message said:Me too. I hate all men for making me feel so bad.
Wilma, I don't know you and don't know if you're just being sardonic,
but I'm afraid you're serious. It's not MEN that are making you feel so
bad, it's YOU that's making you feel so bad. Where-ever you go, there
you are.
Quoted message said:Women need to take power and be in charge and run the world properly for our own
benefit and not for males who don't know a good woman when she sits on their knee.
So take power of YOUR world and run YOUR world for your own benefit.
Maybe men will notice you're a good woman when you BECOME a good woman.
Dally