Leo Lichtman said:I'd like to add this to the series on riders seen, as started by Maggie, and
continued by Claire Petersky. I was driving down the hill from my house.
when I saw this man riding a really beat-up old 3-speed bike UP the hill.
When I ride up this part of the hill, I generally drop down to the granny
ring on my mountain bike. It is pretty steep, and he was really working--it
showed in his body language, and especially in the twisted grimace on his
face. To make things worse, his rear tire was almost flat, so his rolling
resistance must have been enormous. And, in one hand he was carrying a red
plastic gas can. It was like a Norman Rockwell painting, in which every
element contributed to the story.
I felt sorry for him, and considered turning around and offering him a lift,
but I had to be somewhere, so I kept going. It was sort of like...pitiful
and funny at the same time.
Leo,
This story reminds me of my father in law. When my father in law came
to America from Italy, he did not drive. He went everywhere by bike.
He did not have an expensive bike. He had a very modest, inexpensive
bike. But he went everywhere with it. One day he was working in the
yard and he ran out of lumber. He got on his bike and went to the
local lumber yard and came home on his bike with three pieces of lumber
over his shoulder. To him this was a very normal thing to do. To
others, it was nuts. He would also ride and carry a gas can to the
station to get gas to fill the lawn mower his sons bought him.
He managed to accomplish all his errands on that bike. He worked in
NYC and used mass transit. So a car was never something he cared
about. He bought the bike to get around the suburbs after he moved here
from Little Italy in NYC. It was really a piece of junk, but boy did
he use it.
He eventually did learn to drive and he bought an old car. But the
stories of his errands on a bicycle are still told to this day. Some of
them are quite amazing. He passed on some years back at 87 years old.
He was quite a man.
Maybe people felt sorry for him too as he carried lumber over his
shoulder while riding his beat up old bike. But I never in my life met
a more happy, more content, more humble, and loving man. I miss him.
I only wish I knew his secret of happiness and contentment throughout
his life.
Sometimes we feel sorry for the wrong people. Sometimes the guy on
the $6,000 bike is the one with the most problems, discontent and
unhappiness. We never know.
There is a story in everyone. Sometimes what we see as sad, may be
just the opposite. :-)
Maggie.