I've been cleaning out my closets and don't know what to do with my fat pants. They're a pair of size 18-20 drawstring in black cotton. Even when they fit they looked like [censored] on me. If I keep them, I know I'll never wear them again. Here's the thing - do I want to keep them so I can see how far I've come or do I want a reminder of how bad I looked and then become depressed and possibly want to binge eat.
I've been cleaning out my closets and don't know what to do with my fat pants. They're a pair of size 18-20 drawstring in black cotton. Even when they fit they looked like [censored] on me. If I keep them, I know I'll never
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them again. Here's the thing - do I want to keep them so I can see how far I've come or do I want a reminder of how bad I looked and then become depressed and possibly want to binge eat.
I volunteer at a battered women's shelter and gave them everything except that one pair of pants. I'm having trouble parting with them.
Then don't. I was surprised to read that looking at your old pants can make you so depressed about how you *used* to look that you would go off on a binge. It sounds like you need to figure out why you can't just be proud of your accomplishments without trying to undermine them. When you see the pants, and the thought "sheesh, I sure was disgusting" crosses your mind, try to figure out how to make the next thought, "but I'm not any longer. Yay me!"
I've been cleaning out my closets and don't know what to do with my fat pants. They're a pair of size 18-20 drawstring in black cotton. Even when they fit they looked like [censored] on me. If I keep them, I know I'll never wear them again. Here's the thing - do I want to keep them so I can see how far I've come or do I want a reminder of how bad I looked and then become depressed and possibly want to binge eat.
I got rid of all the fat clothes. Except one outfit to put on every once in a while and see how far I've come. As a matter of fact, it's the outfit in my 'before' pic. I can put those capris on over my pants now, and stick both arms in the waistband. And they still fall down, LOL! Gotta love it! LCing since 12/01/03- Me- 5'7" 265/171/140 & hubby- 6' 310/190/180 http://f2.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/lcer09/my_photos
"Eva" <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:[email hidden]...
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I've been cleaning out my closets and don't know what to do with my fat pants. They're a pair of size 18-20 drawstring in black cotton. Even when they fit they looked like [censored] on me. If I keep them, I know I'll never
wear
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them again. Here's the thing - do I want to keep them so I can see how far I've come or do I want a reminder of how bad I looked and then become depressed and possibly want to binge eat.
Eva 5/24/04 200/186/120ish
EBAY!!
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I can put those capris on over my pants now, and stick both arms in the waistband. And they still fall down, LOL! Gotta love it!
The fun part comes when you can fit yourself and another person (if possible, naked and of the opposite sex) together in the old pants... That's where it starts getting *really* impressive. :p
"Eva" <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:[email hidden]...
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I've been cleaning out my closets and don't know what to do with my fat pants. They're a pair of size 18-20 drawstring in black cotton. Even when they fit they looked like [censored] on me. If I keep them, I know I'll never
wear
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them again. Here's the thing - do I want to keep them so I can see how far I've come or do I want a reminder of how bad I looked and then become depressed and possibly want to binge eat.
Eva 5/24/04 200/186/120ish
When you decide your ready put them on, take a photo of your progress and get rid of them. The best of both.
those kind of "visual aids" never worked for me..................consider giving them to charity!
-- rosie
"I think Senator Kerry should be proud of his record. No, I don't think he lied." .....................................................GEORGE W. BUSH (8-25-04) http://www.ac.wwu.edu/~stephan/USfatalities.html
"Eva" <[email hidden]> wrote in message news:[email hidden]... : I've been cleaning out my closets and don't know what to do with my fat : pants. They're a pair of size 18-20 drawstring in black cotton. Even when : they fit they looked like [censored] on me. If I keep them, I know I'll never wear : them again. Here's the thing - do I want to keep them so I can see how far : I've come or do I want a reminder of how bad I looked and then become : depressed and possibly want to binge eat. : : Eva : 5/24/04 : 200/186/120ish : :
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I've been cleaning out my closets and don't know what to do with my fat pants. They're a pair of size 18-20 drawstring in black cotton. Even when they fit they looked like [censored] on me. If I keep them, I know I'll never wear them again. Here's the thing - do I want to keep them so I can see how far I've come or do I want a reminder of how bad I looked and then become depressed and possibly want to binge eat.
Eva 5/24/04 200/186/120ish
I'm sure someone on the fat acceptance list would want them.
I agree with Rosie on this. A better incentive, for me, is to get something new, something cheap, interim slacks or a tee shirt. Enjoy how good a smaller size looks, that's positive reinforcement!
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those kind of "visual aids" never worked for me..................consider giving them to charity! rosie
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