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  1. Some of you will remember how I used to post several times a day with
    write ups of rides, technical advice for newbies and so on. At one
    time, I was riding 2, 3 or 4 times a week, sometimes 20+ miles in an
    evening, usually on my Coker, 28, or MUni.

    But you've not heard from me too often recently. I've spent pretty much
    the equivalent amount of time visiting the cancer ward.

    My step mother wasn't a unicyclist. She was a swimmer - county
    champion for many years- and then when she retired from the sport, she
    spent 20 years or so teaching and coaching this and other sports,
    sometimes professionally, but often voluntarily, because sport is worth
    promoting.

    In the last few weeks, I've watched her painful decline, and now she's
    on her death bed, barely able to speak or sit up, and we're just hoping
    she'll hang on until her daughter (my sister) can make it from the other
    side of the world to say goodbye.

    And in that time, I've watched the young red-headed woman across the
    ward lose all her hair because of the chemo, I've heard the lady in the
    opposite bed sorting out her will , knowing she's not got long to go,
    and I've seen the young mother whose child of about 12 was afraid to hug
    or kiss her because of her illness.

    And I visited this forum tonight for a bit of friendly chat and found
    that something had happened in my absence: flame wars and abusive
    language, and a general air of unpleasantness on many of the threads.

    For crying out loud, it's a privilege to be able to sit at a computer
    and type, never mind ride a unicycle. Don't abuse it, don't waste it.
    Falling out over the design, manufacture, price or operation of one
    wheeled unpowered vehicles is just plain stupid.

    Come on, I used to cherish this forum as a friendly place to visit. I
    did my bit to help to make it that way. Deep breaths, and let's enjoy
    talking about this fantastic sport we all share.

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    Mikefule - Roland Hope School of Unicycling

    Everyone should be fatuous for 15 minutes.
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  2. I'm sorry to hear about your mother. I hope your sister is able to make
    it to see her in time.

    I did enjoy reading all of your posts and it's a shame to see the
    direction the forum is going. I hope this will reverse very soon.

    Daniel

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  3. Things like this is very very hard to hear, why do they happend? I don't
    wounder how it feels, because i defenetly don't want to know, this is so
    sad.

    I can't stop thinking of my great grandmother, she died two years ago,
    the last weeks she were starting to send out postcard to friends,
    relatives, with some wisdom of 93 years.

    Mine said "Ta vara på ditt liv, gör nånting bra av det, men att tänka
    för mycket på sånt kan förstöra det istället."
    or in english
    "Don't waste your life, do something with it, but don't think so much
    about it, it will probably ruin everything instead of making things
    better."

    I am sorry for you.
    And i hope your sister makes it there in time.

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    lleberg - Level one, and counting.

    I call my unicycle the two-legged stallion, whats yours' name?
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  4. You have a skill in writing sir.

    Juggling_Arcs

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  5. Thanks, but the point is not that my step mother is ill, but that life
    is too short to waste arguing over trifles.

    (Apple pie, yes, but trifles, no.)

    OK, so maybe it was a bit of a rant, but this forum should be a friendly
    place. And every time one of you calls one other person a posterior
    orifice, 200 or more strangers are reading it.

    I've said my piece. Now, let's lighten up and talk about one wheeled
    bikes.

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    Everyone should be fatuous for 15 minutes.
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  6. A great plan indeed. Sorry to hear about your mom.

    David

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    "Testacles still intact" ~ My mom's reaction after watching me do a
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  7. what kind of disease does she have,if you dont mind me asking.

    there is another thread about this to.
    hmmm.

    two at the same time.

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    I dont suffer from insanity.
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  8. Mikefule - may your family support and love eachother through this
    time.

    You speak the stark truth. Unless we have real problems, we should
    remind ourselves that we have NO problems.

    As Abe Lincoln said in Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure "Be excellent
    to eachother!" Don't waste a second of your precious life doing
    anything else.

    Steveyo

    - I complained I needed new shoes till I met a man with no feet.

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    steveyo

    Pray to God, but keep rowing for shore. - old Russian proverb
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  9. Mike, You are very right. We should be thankful for what we have. I
    think most of us(uncluding myself) have been a bit foolish. I will keep
    you mother in my prayers. Thank you for the revalation.

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  10. Hey man, I'm sorry to hear about your mom, and I know what its like. My
    mother passed away 5 months ago, I'm only 15. Her liver failed due to
    cancer and chemo and othre medication. Its a tough journey, and your
    just getting started, and I hope your sister gets there before she
    passes away. If you need soembody to talk to, give me and email, or talk
    to me one msn. Good luck, and don't give up.

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  11. Hey man, I'm sorry to hear about your mom, and I know what its like. My
    mother passed away 5 months ago, I'm only 15. Her liver failed due to
    cancer and chemo and othre medication. Its a tough journey, and your
    just getting started, and I hope your sister gets there before she
    passes away. If you need soembody to talk to, give me and email, or talk
    to me one msn. Good luck, and don't give up.

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  12. Hey man, I'm sorry to hear about your mom, and I know what its like. My
    mother passed away 5 months ago, I'm only 15. Her liver failed due to
    cancer and chemo and othre medication. Its a tough journey, and your
    just getting started, and I hope your sister gets there before she
    passes away. If you need soembody to talk to, give me and email, or talk
    to me one msn. Good luck, and don't give up.

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  13. Mike,

    I'm glad that your step mom had something she enjoyed doing, that kept
    her fit, things like that are gifts from God, and so are people like
    that. I'll pray that your sister gets there in time, God knows what hes
    doing.

    As for one wheeled bikes, mines been not being used all too much lately,
    as it gets colder, and I keep paying 17 bucks a week for violin lessons,
    my attention has turned. Although I gave my unicycle student, a around
    10 yr old girl from my church, her 2nd lesson, which was a short one
    since she wanted it to be. Shes been practicing ridding along one of
    those tall fences that tennis courts have, and thats what she did at the
    lesson while I watched. She was using two hands, which wasn't as close
    to riding as I wanted, so I said maybe one hand, but she didn't like
    that. I also had her go with just holding my hand, which she did ok.
    Hopefully she finds more time to practice before it gets cold, or we're
    gonna have to find an inside place, i'm just glad she's being
    persistant.

    Ok, done now, later,

    Andrew

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    grey jackets rock!!
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  14. Hi Mike,

    Sorry to hear about your step mum. Best wishes and good thoughts to you
    during this sad time.

    I'm glad you posted this thread; unicyclist.com is definitly one of the
    nicest forums I've seen, very informative with respect amongst it's
    members.

    Flaming and bad language are a real shame and it's good that someone's
    said something about it.

    Maybe there's been a bit of an influx from people who've gotten used to
    some of the many less respectful forums on the net, and hopefully, in
    reading this thread they'll see that there's a better way.

    --
    onewheeldave - Semi Skilled Unicyclist

    "He's also been known to indulge in a spot of flame juggling - but it's
    the Muni that really fires him up."

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  15. yes,what could we do about it?
    i guess its just up to people to behave right.

    I ve been praying for your family to.

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  16. Wow. What a perspective. I hope your sister makes it in time.

    I, as one of the larger proprieters of negativity on this forum, will
    make an effort to reread my posts before replying, and stop wasting
    energy and thought being rude to people. I'm sorry.

    On a competely different note, Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure was an
    excellent movie. The most lines I've ever seen Keanu Reeves have in one
    movie.

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    gerblefranklin - Trials Unicyclist

    Don't you think it's a cruel irony that acting like a G.I. Joe in the
    army can get you a Medal, while playing with one can get you thrown
    out?

    http://gallery.unicyclist.com/Trials-Muni

    "Our enemies are innovative and resourceful. They will stop at nothing
    to hurt us and our people, and nethier will we"-Dubya
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  17. Mikefule, it's sad to hear about your step mother. I hope and trust
    that your family will be supportive of each other.

    As to the forum, yes things seem to have changed over the last few
    months. Let's just hope it is a temporary glitch and people regain
    their dignity once they realise what they're doing. The problem may be
    in newcomers who import an attitude that is all too common in many
    forums but used to be virtually absent in this one. Such newcomers
    wouldn't notice anything abnormal in the current state of affairs -
    and maybe they wouldn't even mind so much.

    Wishing you strength in the coming period.

    Klaas Bil - Newsgroup Addict
    --
    "I (...) made it without dying, which means mere mortals can do it. - John Foss"

  18. Mikefule said:

    *Now, let's lighten up and talk about one wheeled bikes. *


    :eek:

    :p
    thanx for the thread Mike
    i dropped my sister at the airport on sunday and while driving home i
    started wondering about the recent lack of Mikefule posts
    (i know, my head is a wasteland while i'm driving and i never know what
    kind of thought is going to crashland next - i was listening to Nirvana
    Unplugged if that helps to explain anything, actually i was mainly
    listening to 'Where did u sleep last night' repeatedly)
    thanx for the update, i wish it could've been under happier
    circumstances
    mostly, thanx for the perspective

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    Namaste!
    Dave
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  19. my mullet sags with shame about how i've been mean. nice and helpful
    comments will be the only comments from mullet now (on the forum, at
    least)

    -gasmaster

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    OBEY THE MULLET!!! BWA-HAHAHA!!!
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  20. I too am sorry to hear of troubles in your family's life, and being new
    to forums and whatnot I'd like to see positive energy. I was surprised
    when I asked for help here and instantly people responded. I'm also a
    strong believer in Karma and all the negative energy you give out will
    come back to you. One of the reason I enjoy riding a uni is all the
    positive responses it creates. I have never rode my roadie without
    getting a thumbs up, smile, or a chuckle. Even the smallest of children
    realize it is special and will reward your effort with a smile and a
    pointed finger. Without effort we are ambassadors of good will and need
    to show it here too........

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