Are we being too soft on ourselves when it comes to quitting smoking or reducing alcohol intake by attributing every minor mood swing to withdrawal, rather than acknowledging that maybe were just not as mentally tough as we thought? Shouldnt we be focusing on building resilience and coping mechanisms rather than making excuses for our irritability and anxiety? Is it possible that by constantly talking about the struggles of quitting, were actually creating a culture of expectation that its going to be a miserable experience, rather than empowering people to take control of their own emotions and behavior? Are there any studies or experts that suggest a more stoic approach to quitting might be more effective in the long run?