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We are linked to one another mentally as well as physically.
There are countless published accounts of a wife or husband,
son or daughter dying and the loved one knowing of it
instantly waking from a sound sleep and knowing that something
bad had happened or actual details of the death that may have
occured half way around the world.
Many if not most of us have experienced similar connections..
we know about our loved ones.
there have been many experiments on this issue, involving
different kinds of life forms, humans, animals, plants and
even various bacteria.
The Secret Life of Plants (a book) by Tomkins.details many of
these (1972).
He details NASA experiments using plants as triggers aboard
space craft to send and recieve 'on/off' type signals across
vast distances in space instantly...no delay at all.
So...accordingly I am making the following statement.
' As long as you are connected to anyone you will be
affected by them whether they seem rational and cool or not...
you will be affected by their *actual condition..which may not
be so cool.'
Your thinking, life, blood pressure and charisma will be
dramatically impacted.
Is there a cure? Oh ya.
but its not so easy, and its radical surgery...and that may
not lend itself well to many situations.
Our human condition is not altogether enviable.
Communication with these people, even by means of ones own
internal dialogue (self talk directed at the person) keeps
those bonds and lines of influence alive and effective....
the real persons, actual situation is what will be effective
on you... not the fake front they issue...and thats usually
all one sees...the fake front. or just parts of the actual
personality.
Thats how people like Charlie Manson become so effective on
people... the fake front is brilliant, insighful, generous,
funny, charismatic etc.. people are attracted.. then they are
affected by the entirely hidden dark side.
You have a relative who is successful in corporate america?
....has raised a great family, is a vibrant sportsman etc...and
holds the common conception that the way to run a business
relationship is to be dominant...sounds rational enough... its
common.. its even advocated in many books by many great
business authors.
but if you are connected to that person and do not see that
error ..and the other 600 errors that underly it... you will
be actually one of his targets..
.....and you will not know it.. but you will sense it on your
infrequent contact....or even thoughts of such contact... your
blood pressure will be high
....and you will not know why... your doctor will not know
why...
....and then a stroke or heart attack can take you out...we all
will call it natural... and none of us will know why.
Poor Billy just died.... you see.
Then we will have a poor Billy wake... 'he was so young
too'...and boy could he ram rod a business..
who learned everything from his big brother.. who is doing
real well at Westinghouse. ...
its all normal operations you see.
We take it all for granted... as we are then eviscerated
literally by such contact.... pervasive contact.
Phil Scott